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over a year ago
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Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?. |
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"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?."
theres a flaw in that ...anybody can have the personality of a brick  slim to fat ..
for me (mrs) sexual attration is the first step then after that comes the chatting and the ''lets see if we are on the same page'' |
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"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?."
Define body beautiful, one person's perfect is another's not.
A person is or can be beautiful, a body, however it is, is just a body. |
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For me...Nilly...its a quick look at photos, if visually what we are looking for then see where chat leads...which is often no where...and some surprises of visually not what we generally go for but mentally hits the spot  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.
Define body beautiful, one person's perfect is another's not.
A person is or can be beautiful, a body, however it is, is just a body."
I define it as a person's perception of what looks beautiful to them. Agreed a person can be beautiful but do people take the time to acknowledge this? |
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"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.
theres a flaw in that ...anybody can have the personality of a brick slim to fat ..
for me (mrs) sexual attration is the first step then after that comes the chatting and the ''lets see if we are on the same page''"
Sexual attraction from the look of somebody? |
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"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?."
Physical attraction has to be there and if it is I’m looking for someone with energy, passion, confidence and that little glint in there eye that says I’m a really naughty fucker and I will eat you for breakfast  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.
Physical attraction has to be there and if it is I’m looking for someone with energy, passion, confidence and that little glint in there eye that says I’m a really naughty fucker and I will eat you for breakfast "
Haha good answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There has to be some level of physical attraction and certainly a good personality. I find on a sea saw sliding scale, the less attractive ladies get more attractive to me the more they will allow me to do with them - basically I like sex, so if they are filthy happy days. The more attractive they are the better, but I like experiencing different things so I'm willing to sacrifice my perception of their looks for enjoyment. I'm sure they're doing a bit of sacrifice to their desires tackling me, so fairs fair. |
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"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.
Physical attraction has to be there and if it is I’m looking for someone with energy, passion, confidence and that little glint in there eye that says I’m a really naughty fucker and I will eat you for breakfast
Haha good answer "
Do you know anyone like that at all ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's why social on neutral ground should be first
But you need to get to that point so what do you look for? "
I would there'd be a physical attraction first |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There has to be some level of physical attraction and certainly a good personality. I find on a sea saw sliding scale, the less attractive ladies get more attractive to me the more they will allow me to do with them - basically I like sex, so if they are filthy happy days. The more attractive they are the better, but I like experiencing different things so I'm willing to sacrifice my perception of their looks for enjoyment. I'm sure they're doing a bit of sacrifice to their desires tackling me, so fairs fair."
That is..hang on, so if a woman does more freaky stuff in the sheets, you will overlook that she's not that attractive?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?."
Most guys here a pulse, some not even that 
Couldn't resist |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There has to be some level of physical attraction and certainly a good personality. I find on a sea saw sliding scale, the less attractive ladies get more attractive to me the more they will allow me to do with them - basically I like sex, so if they are filthy happy days. The more attractive they are the better, but I like experiencing different things so I'm willing to sacrifice my perception of their looks for enjoyment. I'm sure they're doing a bit of sacrifice to their desires tackling me, so fairs fair.
That is..hang on, so if a woman does more freaky stuff in the sheets, you will overlook that she's not that attractive? "
Pretty much sums it up - at least I'm honest my mam, God love her, always used to say about the physically unattractive lady at the end of our street who had an absolutely stunning boyfriend "well, she must do things that other quines don't......" ...must have struck a chord with me!! |
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"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?."
Lol someone who actually meets and doesn't lie to you !. So many fakes, pic collectors and timewasters on here it's sickening.. Yes there has to be attraction but much more is needed for a great meet, more so for a true, lasting naughty friendship |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There has to be some level of physical attraction and certainly a good personality. I find on a sea saw sliding scale, the less attractive ladies get more attractive to me the more they will allow me to do with them - basically I like sex, so if they are filthy happy days. The more attractive they are the better, but I like experiencing different things so I'm willing to sacrifice my perception of their looks for enjoyment. I'm sure they're doing a bit of sacrifice to their desires tackling me, so fairs fair.
That is..hang on, so if a woman does more freaky stuff in the sheets, you will overlook that she's not that attractive?
Pretty much sums it up - at least I'm honest my mam, God love her, always used to say about the physically unattractive lady at the end of our street who had an absolutely stunning boyfriend "well, she must do things that other quines don't......" ...must have struck a chord with me!!"
If I thought that's why a guy was with me, I'd feel like crying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I need to find someone attractive, but I also need amazing chemistry "
Sometimes people are blinded my the beauty. But actually the mind and heart are just as beautiful if not more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I need to find someone attractive, but I also need amazing chemistry
Sometimes people are blinded my the beauty. But actually the mind and heart are just as beautiful if not more. "
100% couldn't of put it better |
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"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?."
Looks are important but not everything, if the craic is shit or people are arrogant we ain’t interested. Also depends what you class as beautiful, not everyone is attracted to the same thing.
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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Physical attraction is needed - I can be visually stimulated by someone’s body but if my mind isn’t equally stimulated by there personality they become less attractive to me- it’s a balance between beauty and chemistry! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There has to be some level of physical attraction and certainly a good personality. I find on a sea saw sliding scale, the less attractive ladies get more attractive to me the more they will allow me to do with them - basically I like sex, so if they are filthy happy days. The more attractive they are the better, but I like experiencing different things so I'm willing to sacrifice my perception of their looks for enjoyment. I'm sure they're doing a bit of sacrifice to their desires tackling me, so fairs fair.
That is..hang on, so if a woman does more freaky stuff in the sheets, you will overlook that she's not that attractive?
Pretty much sums it up - at least I'm honest my mam, God love her, always used to say about the physically unattractive lady at the end of our street who had an absolutely stunning boyfriend "well, she must do things that other quines don't......" ...must have struck a chord with me!!
If I thought that's why a guy was with me, I'd feel like crying. "
I'm not talking about relationships here. What I'm saying is I'd far rather have a night with an "less attractive" lady who will take 3 guys at once and blow me to the moon through my ass, than a stunner who wants me to turn out the light and and only do it missionary. I'm guessing that's human nature for men? If the stunner was like that I wouldn't be back. The other girl would have my attention any time I'm free. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Physical attraction is needed - I can be visually stimulated by someone’s body but if my mind isn’t equally stimulated by there personality they become less attractive to me- it’s a balance between beauty and chemistry! "
Very true x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There has to be some level of physical attraction and certainly a good personality. I find on a sea saw sliding scale, the less attractive ladies get more attractive to me the more they will allow me to do with them - basically I like sex, so if they are filthy happy days. The more attractive they are the better, but I like experiencing different things so I'm willing to sacrifice my perception of their looks for enjoyment. I'm sure they're doing a bit of sacrifice to their desires tackling me, so fairs fair.
That is..hang on, so if a woman does more freaky stuff in the sheets, you will overlook that she's not that attractive?
Pretty much sums it up - at least I'm honest my mam, God love her, always used to say about the physically unattractive lady at the end of our street who had an absolutely stunning boyfriend "well, she must do things that other quines don't......" ...must have struck a chord with me!!
If I thought that's why a guy was with me, I'd feel like crying.
I'm not talking about relationships here. What I'm saying is I'd far rather have a night with an "less attractive" lady who will take 3 guys at once and blow me to the moon through my ass, than a stunner who wants me to turn out the light and and only do it missionary. I'm guessing that's human nature for men? If the stunner was like that I wouldn't be back. The other girl would have my attention any time I'm free."
I get you're not seeing why I find it a problem. It's that whole "I'd fuck her with a bag over her head". It's insulting to women. Hell it's insulting to anyone. |
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"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.
Physical attraction has to be there and if it is I’m looking for someone with energy, passion, confidence and that little glint in there eye that says I’m a really naughty fucker and I will eat you for breakfast "
So - me then?  |
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"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.
Physical attraction has to be there and if it is I’m looking for someone with energy, passion, confidence and that little glint in there eye that says I’m a really naughty fucker and I will eat you for breakfast
So - me then? "
If you’re putting yourself forward it would need to be confirmed  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.
Physical attraction has to be there and if it is I’m looking for someone with energy, passion, confidence and that little glint in there eye that says I’m a really naughty fucker and I will eat you for breakfast
So - me then? "
You're obviously feeling better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There has to be an initial attraction because you're basing pretty much just off photos. Beyond that though personality is what takes it from that first hello to meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There has to be an initial attraction because you're basing pretty much just off photos. Beyond that though personality is what takes it from that first hello to meeting
'Hello' "
Hello |
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By *hunky GentMan
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"There has to be an initial attraction because you're basing pretty much just off photos. Beyond that though personality is what takes it from that first hello to meeting
'Hello'
Hello "
Can we meet now? - PM your postcode please.  |
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"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.
Physical attraction has to be there and if it is I’m looking for someone with energy, passion, confidence and that little glint in there eye that says I’m a really naughty fucker and I will eat you for breakfast
So - me then?
You're obviously feeling better. "
Better than I was. Still need about 12 hours sleep per day and get regular headaches though! X |
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You're obviously feeling better.
Better than I was. Still need about 12 hours sleep per day and get regular headaches though! X
A Chunky hug will do you the world of good.  "
That and better food than last time! |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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You're obviously feeling better.
Better than I was. Still need about 12 hours sleep per day and get regular headaches though! X
A Chunky hug will do you the world of good.
That and better food than last time! "
I'll make you some sausage rolls. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I get you're not seeing why I find it a problem. It's that whole "I'd fuck her with a bag over her head". It's insulting to women. Hell it's insulting to anyone. "
I can only apologise if I have caused offence, that was not my intentions. I can see exactly where you're coming from. I was just answering the OP'S question with an unusual degree of honesty that I normally wouldn't share. I stand by that I'm attracted to someone who will do what I want to do and turn away from someone who doesn't. At the end if the day we only live once and I want it to be as enjoyable to me as physically possible. I've had my fair share of shit sex, so I know exactly what I want now, which is filth - indeed sometimes with a bag over my own head!! I did say at the start there had to be some level of physical attraction; I never said I would just go with anyone with no attraction, just that it was less important to me now. My apologies again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I get you're not seeing why I find it a problem. It's that whole "I'd fuck her with a bag over her head". It's insulting to women. Hell it's insulting to anyone.
I can only apologise if I have caused offence, that was not my intentions. I can see exactly where you're coming from. I was just answering the OP'S question with an unusual degree of honesty that I normally wouldn't share. I stand by that I'm attracted to someone who will do what I want to do and turn away from someone who doesn't. At the end if the day we only live once and I want it to be as enjoyable to me as physically possible. I've had my fair share of shit sex, so I know exactly what I want now, which is filth - indeed sometimes with a bag over my own head!! I did say at the start there had to be some level of physical attraction; I never said I would just go with anyone with no attraction, just that it was less important to me now. My apologies again."
Thank you for the clarification. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There has to be chemistry and trust.
People are quick to judge and often first impressions are right but then again, some of our best "friends" from here are people we did not click with strait away.
We don't jump in but take our time and if all else fails.. there is the double bagging brown bags handy.
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"Physical attraction is needed - I can be visually stimulated by someone’s body but if my mind isn’t equally stimulated by there personality they become less attractive to me- it’s a balance between beauty and chemistry! "
Couldn't agree with you more |
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"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?."
Body beautiful catches the eye, no doubt about that, just look at Hot Pics and see the amount of Fabs those pics receive.
When I’m doing my searches in Fab though, I have my general preferences set, then look at profiles which fit those criteria, and gauge whether the person has a character I could match with, from what they say about themselves (and others), in their profile.
Often though, I see people in the forum I would love to meet, from their personality in threads, but they are too far to have a hope of meeting. They may have the physical attractiveness to me, but it was their personality which drew me in initially  |
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