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Should I be Blindfolded?
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I have a first meet arranged on Saturday week with a couple. We have chatted plenty of times and exchanged texts etc.
The meet is in their flat.
Now the lady of the couple has told me that she wants to be blindfolded, which sounds interesting. However, she's followed that up by saying she wants to blindfold me as she has all sorts of surprises in store.
Should I:
1) Trust her to blindfold me and simply enjoy the experience?
2) Cut peepholes into the blindfold so I'm not too scared?
3) Agree a safe word and trustthe couple to honour it?
4) Refuse to be blindfolded?
5) Any other suggestion you may have?
Oh and before anyone takes this thread too seriously, it's tongue in cheek, I do have a first meet with this couple, butI do trust them and know we're going to have a fun time... |
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I don't do blindfolding on a first meet, I don't really do anything remotely BDSM on a first meet as you don't really know who the person/people are.
I'd say maybe make sure you are free to take the blindfold off if you are uncomfortable with the situation... Definitely would use a safeword but its a trust thing then, do you trust the couple to honour the safeword? |
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well imagine everything possible that the guy and woman could do to you, and if your comfortable with them both having that sorta access to you go for it, if not then maybe find out more and set some boundaries, could be a really fun night though |
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"start a thread 5 minutes before your meet and if you dont post on it again before xmas we will assume somethings gone wrong 
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Or set up a live feed webcam so we can shout 'he's behind you' when you assume it's her with a strap-on!  |
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"start a thread 5 minutes before your meet and if you dont post on it again before xmas we will assume somethings gone wrong
Or set up a live feed webcam so we can shout 'he's behind you' when you assume it's her with a strap-on! "
this afternoon when out shopping Obi, please can I have a new keyboard as the tea is floating in mine ........ |
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"start a thread 5 minutes before your meet and if you dont post on it again before xmas we will assume somethings gone wrong
Or set up a live feed webcam so we can shout 'he's behind you' when you assume it's her with a strap-on!
this afternoon when out shopping Obi, please can I have a new keyboard as the tea is floating in mine ........ "
Admit it - you've just got 'sticky key syndrome!!' |
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"start a thread 5 minutes before your meet and if you dont post on it again before xmas we will assume somethings gone wrong
Or set up a live feed webcam so we can shout 'he's behind you' when you assume it's her with a strap-on! "
Hahaha to funny |
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"start a thread 5 minutes before your meet and if you dont post on it again before xmas we will assume somethings gone wrong
Or set up a live feed webcam so we can shout 'he's behind you' when you assume it's her with a strap-on! "
LMAO @ both of these suggestions. Now she says she's not keen on live web camming, I wonder if this is the reason why?.....
I think my ass will be safe, I'll simply hang a Do Not Enter sign over it before I agree to the blindfold.... |
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"start a thread 5 minutes before your meet and if you dont post on it again before xmas we will assume somethings gone wrong
Or set up a live feed webcam so we can shout 'he's behind you' when you assume it's her with a strap-on!
LMAO @ both of these suggestions. Now she says she's not keen on live web camming, I wonder if this is the reason why?.....
I think my ass will be safe, I'll simply hang a Do Not Enter sign over it before I agree to the blindfold...."
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"I have a first meet arranged on Saturday week with a couple. We have chatted plenty of times and exchanged texts etc.
The meet is in their flat.
Now the lady of the couple has told me that she wants to be blindfolded, which sounds interesting. However, she's followed that up by saying she wants to blindfold me as she has all sorts of surprises in store.
Should I:
1) Trust her to blindfold me and simply enjoy the experience?
2) Cut peepholes into the blindfold so I'm not too scared?
3) Agree a safe word and trustthe couple to honour it?
4) Refuse to be blindfolded?
5) Any other suggestion you may have?
Oh and before anyone takes this thread too seriously, it's tongue in cheek, I do have a first meet with this couple, butI do trust them and know we're going to have a fun time..."
I think you should be blindfolded and have have your hands tied together, now that would make an interesting meet, might try that on Pork  |
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"I have a first meet arranged on Saturday week with a couple. We have chatted plenty of times and exchanged texts etc.
The meet is in their flat.
Now the lady of the couple has told me that she wants to be blindfolded, which sounds interesting. However, she's followed that up by saying she wants to blindfold me as she has all sorts of surprises in store.
Should I:
1) Trust her to blindfold me and simply enjoy the experience?
2) Cut peepholes into the blindfold so I'm not too scared?
3) Agree a safe word and trustthe couple to honour it?
4) Refuse to be blindfolded?
5) Any other suggestion you may have?
Oh and before anyone takes this thread too seriously, it's tongue in cheek, I do have a first meet with this couple, butI do trust them and know we're going to have a fun time...
I think you should be blindfolded and have have your hands tied together, now that would make an interesting meet, might try that on Pork "
The fuck you will!!!!!!  |
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"I have a first meet arranged on Saturday week with a couple. We have chatted plenty of times and exchanged texts etc.
The meet is in their flat.
Now the lady of the couple has told me that she wants to be blindfolded, which sounds interesting. However, she's followed that up by saying she wants to blindfold me as she has all sorts of surprises in store.
Should I:
1) Trust her to blindfold me and simply enjoy the experience?
2) Cut peepholes into the blindfold so I'm not too scared?
3) Agree a safe word and trustthe couple to honour it?
4) Refuse to be blindfolded?
5) Any other suggestion you may have?
Oh and before anyone takes this thread too seriously, it's tongue in cheek, I do have a first meet with this couple, butI do trust them and know we're going to have a fun time...
I think you should be blindfolded and have have your hands tied together, now that would make an interesting meet, might try that on Pork
The fuck you will!!!!!! "
Seems to me like Mt Pork isn't too keen on Mrs Perky's idea....
Mind you if I was lucky enough to meet the said Mrs Perky I think, no I know my response would have been in a similar vein to Mr Pork's, though perhaps phrased as No Thank You, just no manners down in Kent...... |
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"I have a first meet arranged on Saturday week with a couple. We have chatted plenty of times and exchanged texts etc.
The meet is in their flat.
Now the lady of the couple has told me that she wants to be blindfolded, which sounds interesting. However, she's followed that up by saying she wants to blindfold me as she has all sorts of surprises in store.
Should I:
1) Trust her to blindfold me and simply enjoy the experience?
2) Cut peepholes into the blindfold so I'm not too scared?
3) Agree a safe word and trustthe couple to honour it?
4) Refuse to be blindfolded?
5) Any other suggestion you may have?
Oh and before anyone takes this thread too seriously, it's tongue in cheek, I do have a first meet with this couple, butI do trust them and know we're going to have a fun time...
I think you should be blindfolded and have have your hands tied together, now that would make an interesting meet, might try that on Pork
The fuck you will!!!!!!
Seems to me like Mt Pork isn't too keen on Mrs Perky's idea....
Mind you if I was lucky enough to meet the said Mrs Perky I think, no I know my response would have been in a similar vein to Mr Pork's, though perhaps phrased as No Thank You, just no manners down in Kent......"
Those ARE Kentish manners! Cheeky Scouser!!
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