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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a younger male, I tend to find it more difficult to interact with women/couples on this site.
I’m veri’d and respectful in messaging and was just wondering what could help/be the issue? And if any others have the same issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just got accept your not for everyone but don't let that put you down just gotta keep plugging away
I tend meet older women more than women my own age as women in 20's get lots of message well all women do but they tend to get crazy ones and get lose in the shuffle |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"As a younger male, I tend to find it more difficult to interact with women/couples on this site.
I’m veri’d and respectful in messaging and was just wondering what could help/be the issue? And if any others have the same issue"
One line on your bio. I know what I want! No wonder no interest as no one knows what you want. Unf you need to make more effort to start out over the thousands of other men. Good luck |
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You get out what you put in (in general in life, maybe not on Fab!) so put a bit of yourself on your profile....what are you interested in, who are you, what type of person are you looking for.
Having a cam verification isn't appealing to me whatsoever so it wouldn't be a positive thing. |
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The average age is older, and many prefer to meet around their own age.
However, many don’t! I’ve seen lots of women looking for younger guys. Stick with it, be friendly, conversational, and polite, and things will start happening for you.
Don’t just rely on your age and photos to get you through the door. People need to want to meet YOU, not just your willy. An attractive personality beats abs and girth, for most!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots want to meet someone their own age, lots don’t want to meet someone near their kids age.
Many will meet someone regardless of age  "
43 what water you drink can't be from Liverpool lol  |
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If going to clubs isn't a issue with you that's where I'd start, You don't have to play there but you will meet new people make some contacts, Try the chat rooms, Again you don't have to play or cam but being on cam will help,
I'm not sure how many people actually play with someone just by sending a few messages but I bet its not as many as people think, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feel your pain mate. Very kind lady suggested to me trying out clubs and socials more and participating more in the forums. Seems a better route than the cold messaging. Good luck |
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Bit of a catch 22 situation then,
Just go to a club without any intensions other then having a good time, drink but don't get smashed, dance, chat with people, The bar staff, other Men as well they may help you meet Women/couples,
Its no different then a normal club especially if you're not going their thinking you're going to have sex,
If you do go don't just stand in the corner on your own it doesn't look good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely clubs are a good way to socialise and get to know people. Your age range is capped at 30 so that will limit who can message you. Forums are good to talk and join in. Pretty good advice from the others. Good luck. |
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From our point of view your in the lower end of our preferences but we set them as guidelines. In a club scenario we’d take a person on face value and attitude and personality would be more crucial than age but that’s harder to portray on fab.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey OP
Seen a few forum threads on this and the main advice I can give you is to go to clubs to socialise and spend some time in the forums so people get to know you.
Nice to see you've opened your age range to above 30, so you may receive more messages now.
Good luck with everything, your a handsome looking chap  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah clubs and forums seem to be the main advice, you may see me a bit more now…
I had no idea it was on 30, blonde moment from me!!
But you look good yourself, feel free to pm if you have any more advice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah clubs and forums seem to be the main advice, you may see me a bit more now…
I had no idea it was on 30, blonde moment from me!!
But you look good yourself, feel free to pm if you have any more advice "
Welcome to the forums, hope you have lots of fun |
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