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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd agree with you on that. Initially I found it sore as was apprehensive. Took time, understanding partner and fair bit of lube lol to get into enjoyment of it.
It's not for everyone so don't get hung up if not for you! |
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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago
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With the right person yes! If its someone who only has themselves in mind then no it wont work! Trick is not to rush and plenty of lube and communication is key! If you say stop the other person stops  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try some dildo play too. Not every position will be comfortable for you either. I found one that makes me feel like I wanna pee. Wasn't fun!
Using dildo can help you find what's enjoyable anally. Well, that's what I found anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it's not for everyonebut requires loads of lube paitcents and you need to be relaxed to.It can't be rushed either as it will only end in a bad expiernce if you do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My husband and I are mostly anal only. I think a lot depends on who you do it with. I'd been curious about it years before I'd met my husband, but I've only ever trusted him enough to go as far as anal fucking. Needless to say I love it - the physical feeling and the headspace it gives me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is anal a state of mind in a way?
I tried it once and I found it sore but I'm wondering is pleasure achievable? Please no silly answers tia  "
Lube and prep is most definitely needed!
Never just try to shove a cock in to an unlubricated virgin ass! Ever!
Wasn’t till I met someone who knew what they were doing, that I eventually loved anal
But that’s not to say everyone will enjoy anal even with the right prep though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found it uncomfortable the first few times. Stopped them pretty quickly.
Then one time I was in a room with a guy who i just clicked with.
It went in really easily.
It was full of passion.
I came shortly before he did.
We lay there collapsed in each other’s arms with him softening still inside me.
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"it's not for everyone but requires loads of lube patience and you need to be relaxed too. It can't be rushed either as it will only end in a bad experience if you do. "
This and it can be a faff getting clean...
I love it and can't get enough...! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found it uncomfortable the first few times. Stopped them pretty quickly.
Then one time I was in a room with a guy who i just clicked with.
It went in really easily.
It was full of passion.
I came shortly before he did.
We lay there collapsed in each other’s arms with him softening still inside me.
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That sounds hot!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So small but plugs to start off with? How long do you leave them in for? I'm such a noob  "
Not at all, you’re asking a question I’m sure many would like to. Including me |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"So small but plugs to start off with? How long do you leave them in for? I'm such a noob
Not at all, you’re asking a question I’m sure many would like to. Including me"
Haha well, if you like bananas, how many do you eat? It's entirely up to you and when the pleasure subsides, then it's time to stop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is anal a state of mind in a way?
I tried it once and I found it sore but I'm wondering is pleasure achievable? Please no silly answers tia "
I love being fucked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So small but plugs to start off with? How long do you leave them in for? I'm such a noob "
Try a small vibe or plug at first , plenty of lube then build up to a bigger toy.
I really enjoy it but he has to go slow at first. So if your wanting to try it with someone try and find someone who knows what they are doing who and will not try and just throw it up cause that dont work with me.
Slow and steady wins the race.
Have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The biggest challenge with anal sex is relaxing the anus when something enters. Our body naturally stiffens up and tries to close it down the moment you feel something else enter it. You need to mentally workout a way to relax it.
For me, using my own fingers first helped. Your butthole closes down when you first try to insert the fingers. But as it's your own fingers, it is easy for you to mentally relax and let the fingers in. You need to do this repeatedly and learn how you managed to relax it. Then try another object like butt plug. Once you have done this enough number of times, you will "know" how to relax. You need to repeat that when someone else does it. As you said, it's a mental challenge more than physical challenge.
About pleasure, everyone is different. I started receiving pegging 3 years back. But I am still at 5 inch dildo. But that is enough to give me pleasure. In fact, I am not able to receive pegging from longer dildos because after receiving 5 inches, my body shakes and tightens around the dildo. The pleasure is great but I can't take pegging with anything longer. I have once taken upto 9 inch. But that was a single insertion and it took a lady 30 minutes to get it in. I would never be able to take pegging with such huge ones. On the other hand, I have seen some guys take the huge dildos easily. And som
You just need to explore and see how your body reacts to it. |
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By *itzWoman
over a year ago
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I would like to agree with the above poster, being relaxed is crucial and position can help with this. It may be easier to get used to the sensation lying on your side first, as on all fours you will be tensing muscles without realising just to maintain position |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like to agree with the above poster, being relaxed is crucial and position can help with this. It may be easier to get used to the sensation lying on your side first, as on all fours you will be tensing muscles without realising just to maintain position"
+1
Position matters too. And as others mentioned, lots of lube. Take it slowly. |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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I am obsessed about being clean. Nothing is a passion killer than a ripe Marmite chute...! Lol
I hardly eat on the day I want to have fun. If I do it's nothing heavier than bread and cakes.
Get yourself a shower attachment douche. Evacuate as much as you can, then douche, douche, douche.
Put a well lubed dildo in you and pop it out to make sure it's clean. If not, consider yourself lucky you checked and repeat.
Finally, make sure the first sex position with him is sitting on him. If you ease off and it's not clean, then whip the condom off by inverting it, and quick into some tissue and in the bin. He won't even see anything. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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Whilst my anal experience isn't of a sexual nature, your question OP, about it being a state of mind was answered for me when I had a prostrate check; the thought of anything thing going up my bum was so scary that I clamped tight and the check couldn't be done. I was told relax, which, although it was hard to do, I did and I barely felt a thing.
Knowing how important the check was,forced me to find away to enable the Dr to do his thing; I was motivated; I doubt I'd ever find the motivation to allow anal penetration on a recreational level. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is anal a state of mind in a way?
I tried it once and I found it sore but I'm wondering is pleasure achievable? Please no silly answers tia "
Love anal and prefer it… the receiver needs to relax especially if not used to it, and prepare for it through the use of butt plugs makes it easier.
The giver needs to go in slowly and use lots of lube. |
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Anal can be fantastic with the right person but you have to take your time and get the lady fully relaxed and excited about doing it. If she is excited about doing it then that's half the battle won.
Lots of lube and foreplay, make her feel fantastic, then slow and steady all the way.
That feeling when she clamps down on your cock as she has an anal orgasm is fantastic for both involved  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So small but plugs to start off with? How long do you leave them in for? I'm such a noob "
Start off with 5 mins, or 10 if you can, then repeat everyday, if you can take longer, add on 5 mins each time, after a week or so move on to a slightly bigger plug and repeat. You can buy a set of three training plugs, start off with the smallest, but many find these too small, so start off with the middle size, and work your way up to the biggest size. |
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Before I met Sam I never had anal sex. Had a cock in my bum twice and it was nothing short of excruciating. I was one of the "I'll never have anal" brigade. I don't think many people find anal easy straight away and one of the biggest obstacles I had was relaxing. I believe the best thing anyone can do is be rimmed for a period of time before penetration and get the hole relaxed. Some say finger play but I actually find that a weird sensation. I did find lube was a lot more comfortable also in the beginning. Don't use it now. Above all else the position for me is the most important thing. With a slight angle change it make all the difference. I do find I have to bend my knees for it to be the most comfortable. I now have daily anal tasks with butt plug play and anal has never been so easy. I also believe it's down to the experience of the person you are with that can make all the difference. I've went from a no anal girl to a true anal slut and have Sam to thank for that
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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago
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I found anal painful, especialy when the cock went in first and stretched me so mainly stuck to blowjobs. Then I was introduced to amyl and a couple of sniffs and I can accept a big cock withouth any discomfort.
Its fantastic just used plenty of lube. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found it uncomfortable the first few times. Stopped them pretty quickly.
Then one time I was in a room with a guy who i just clicked with.
It went in really easily.
It was full of passion.
I came shortly before he did.
We lay there collapsed in each other’s arms with him softening still inside me.
That sounds hot! "
Very.
Connection makes anal awesome |
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I am meeting this afternoon and we introduced anal about 10 years ago. I agree with the lube (must have use), but I do find that after a decent amount of oral (me on her) and some wet rimming, sometimes natural lube can work!! She is a huge fan of anal cream pies too!!! Think of me this afternoon, evening, night and tomorrow morning, because I am so horny!!! |
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Have to work up to it only successful time for me was last time have few vids on here end of oct! Was so ready for it this time! No soreness at time or after loved it! In past when tried it hurt so I would say have to work up to it gradually and use lube x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a couple a few times, they both loved anal sex. Lots of toys, lubes etc. If you don’t experience full anal climax then try again to reach that point. Your whole body will experience this. |
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"With the right person yes! If its someone who only has themselves in mind then no it wont work! Trick is not to rush and plenty of lube and communication is key! If you say stop the other person stops "
Thats on the money when right offers the most amazing enhanced orgasams she loves it after years of self denial. |
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Never recieved anal, but I know from giving it to men and women, that it can be extremely pleasurable! (Even for virgin arses!)
To be gonest there is almost nothing that beats a guy lying on back and cumming all over himself as you slowly fuck him to his first anal orgasm!
Never been sure exactly how I do it but a combination of wanking, sucking while fingering him, and then slowly penetrating while stroking him, makes most guys cum really quickly.
Slowly and sensually penetrating , until I'm balls deep inside, then wanking and fucking him until he is on the verge of orgasm....
Then fucking him harder and faster as his orgasm begins, seems to produce the most violent and intense anal orgasms!
The spasming and clenching of his ass muscles and the hot cum spurting everywhere feel amazing and trigger my own orgasm instantly. So I always cum with them. Matching each convulsion with a deep hard thrust as I release spurt after spurt of cum.
Hot mutual orgasm always lead to such full condoms lol |
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I love anal to be honest I was very lucky as my first time was with a guy who really knew what he was doing, a lot if it is in the mind being relaxed and not afraid to say if they are going too fast, body wise I dont use lube hate the stuff however that is because I get naturally wet even before they enter me and I also am paranoid about hygiene as I really enjoy arse to mouth and tasting cum from inside me no way would I want anything other then cum and my juices anywhere near my mouth!!
Will also say room odourisers are very good at relaxing you arse but obviously that does depend on your view on drugs I have a very tight hole but they do make me a total slut....just saying |
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"Is anal a state of mind in a way?
I tried it once and I found it sore but I'm wondering is pleasure achievable? Please no silly answers tia "
I'd always found it painful and had to stop
That was until a few weeks ago when I tried a new position and the guy gave me a great fuck that delivered an anal orgasm |
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