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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Hey folks not sure if i am posting this in the right forum but who thinks the site would benefit from a bisexual search function.
Cpls with bi male/bi female
etc etc
Any thoughts? |
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"Only problem being the guys who are "straight" but bi  "
The even bigger issue is how to define your sexuality when you have three options. I have only one, very specific bi trait, which is giving oral. Anything other than that is a massive turn off for me and giving oral isn't somehting I exactly crave, just an occassional urge. So I put straight. Ergo, any couple who are looking for an orally bi male, even though it is one way only in my case won't know I tick the box. A more specific selection of do's and don'ts like the interests section, but for sexuality would be useful
The same applies to a lot of bi women on here who only like kissing or one of two specific parts of bi play. A completely bi person is equally attracted to both genders emotionally as well as sexually. How many bi people on here check that box? |
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Being bi does not mean being equally attracted to both sexes. It just means having a sexual attraction, in any small way, with both sexes. So even if you only fantasise about it with both sexes, that makes you bi. Sexuality is a sliding scale. Very few are 50/50 with both sexes and very few 100% with only one sex. Most are somewhere in between and where they are on the scale can change throughout their lives. |
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"Being bi does not mean being equally attracted to both sexes. It just means having a sexual attraction, in any small way, with both sexes. So even if you only fantasise about it with both sexes, that makes you bi. Sexuality is a sliding scale. Very few are 50/50 with both sexes and very few 100% with only one sex. Most are somewhere in between and where they are on the scale can change throughout their lives."
That's a more clearly written version of why I think fab should have the feature to let people know how far along the slider you are. I wouldn't put bi on my profile as my 'bi side' is too fractional for it to be truthful in my opinion. If there were an option for 'straight but occasionally open to mild bi play', i'd tick that as it would be more truthful |
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