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“How long” are your meets?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in  ) and had to leave.
It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon  |
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I've had car meets that are just passionate poundings for 30 mins & hotel meets that are 2-3 hr sessions.
Doesn't bother me which 1, as long as the fucking is high quality & the guy leaves happy.
Maybe she was disappointed but only because you had to go & she really liked it, more of a compliment maybe. |
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Whatever time is available.
From an hour or so to all night or weekend. You don't have to fuck continuously, this is where the social side kicks in.
A drink, chat, snog and then you're off again.
And again.
If it is a one nighter then I don't get much sleep.  |
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"Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in ) and had to leave.
It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon "
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We'd looking for evening, night, breakfast at least.
Guess our shortest meet was 10 miniutes   |
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When she goes out for a date night it's nice to be a length where there's no clock watching going on. Usually 3 to 4 hours is good. The ideal meet is where everyone is comfortable enough for it to just keep going and you want more rather than needing to get it done and head home. |
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It's a key part of communication pre meet. Understanding their needs and expectations and letting them know yours.
My meets have varied from a few minutes, delivering the goods (the warm up as the couple above so accurately out it!) to a whole night and morning.
Always best to chat about it before.
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Comedy aside. It's the quality that counts, not time. That can only be there when there is a match between recipients needs. If partner was angry/frustrated when you left, you were not a good match (even if performance was superb).
If partner was sad as wanted more of same, well - that is what *next* meet is for!  |
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Think it varies in each situation but the last couple we met up with at 7pm had drinks until about 10, then went up to the room, had a break and a chat around midnight then another session and they left about 2.30. Don't know if you count the whole experience or just the play time as we enjoy the whole thing. X |
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"Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in ) and had to leave.
It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon "
Hi op. I think communication is the issue here. For me a meet definitely isn’t just about the sex. If the sex was 2 hours then the meet itself would probably last at least 4 hours including‘getting to know’ time and an affectionate wind-down afterwards. Then again - I make no secret of the fact that I’m here to make good friends to have sex with rather than just ‘meets’.
Maybe she expected the affectionate wind-down too? Finding out in advance what the other person wants/expects makes life easier in my experience - then if you want very different experiences you don’t meet. |
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Absolutely, that's the point for us, it's the whole package not just the act. The meet has to be intimate as well as just sexual and has to be more like a complete date. A bit of tactile time first then the event which could be a few times over not just the once. Then a nice wind down afterwards. Should feel like she was dated afterwards not just used for the sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think it varies in each situation but the last couple we met up with at 7pm had drinks until about 10, then went up to the room, had a break and a chat around midnight then another session and they left about 2.30. Don't know if you count the whole experience or just the play time as we enjoy the whole thing. X"
Good point. I count the whole experience, not just the sex. I don't take a stopwatch.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if we meet a guy. we prefer pretty quick meets... they are really just our warm up  "
Same for us. But I've always loved overnight meets with my partner. Anything less would be disappointing. |
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Most of our meets have gone on for hours sometimes straight into the fun other meets a few drinks and a good crack, not really into quickies we like to take our time and have a nice long session. It's just not playing ball if everyone doesn't leave with wobbly legs and stupid grins xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?"
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing |
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By *G85Woman
over a year ago
Harrogate |
"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing "
Wow thought I had a bad one last week but not as bad as this!
Hope someone makes it up to you! |
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"Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in ) and had to leave.
It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon "
Everyone is different, there is no generic ideal time period for a meet.
I expect a meet to have a getting to know you period, sex and then chill afterwards. Even when meeting in a club, I expect to chill and chat afterwards. I don't expect to be clock watching.
OP, it sounds rather like you were finished so left, without finding out what she wanted. Why did you "have to leave"?
Ir soynds like a fuck and go because YOU have got what you wanted, but this is probably not what she wanted.
I can only suggest better communication in advance in future, to ensure both parties are happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every meet is different, I've had some lasting half an hour start to finish, and I've had some which have lasted like 4 hours. I think it depends on the person, what mood you're both in, how much time you actually have... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing "
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again "
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all  xx |
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Ive met different type of meets over the years, but always prefer the no rush, no clock watching socials...start with a chat, laugh, drinks. That go on to teasing each other, then who knows during the night and the morning too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing "
Get him on block love, or give him a pasting next time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing "
sounds like he a had a preety decent meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx"
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!! |
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By *halMan
over a year ago
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx"
That’s awful and dare I say disgusting!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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quickies have there place but if i meeting for the evening then its the evening and longer at weekends ,,,guys who rush a meet or think about themselves dont get a second chance ...i alway make sure before a meet that this is spoken about ..
never have a problem if a guy cums early its what he does after that that counts .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!!"
Yep
I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.
This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.
Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx |
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I posted a while back with regards to a meet, I came on the bed while giving her oral. I was devastated at the time but managed to carry on regardless.
She must of enjoyed it as we are now regular fwbs lol x |
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Depends on the person, depends on the time available,depends on the type of (pre-agreed) meet.
A fuck and go can scratch an itch sometimes.
Other times I just need to stay entangled for as long as we possibly can. |
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!!
Yep
I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.
This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.
Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx"
I got beat up on a hotel meet!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!!
Yep
I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.
This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.
Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx
I got beat up on a hotel meet!! "
I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx |
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!!
Yep
I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.
This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.
Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx
I got beat up on a hotel meet!!
I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx"
I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.  |
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The right partner and context, it doesn't matter.
If you have specific expectations, it's reasonable to discuss these upfront I've been happy with 15 minutes and felt short changed from a couple of hours.
Socials can help you to discuss and check compatibility etc |
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My meets tend to be as long as they are - some are short fuck and go sessions (usually because that is what they wanted) and others can go on for ages if everyone is having fun.
Parties and group sessions typically last the longest in my experience - several hours. Normal meets are usually a couple of hours or so including socialising. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!!
Yep
I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.
This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.
Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx
I got beat up on a hotel meet!!
I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx
I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol. "
Christ, were you really that bad? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!!
Yep
I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.
This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.
Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx
I got beat up on a hotel meet!!
I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx
I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.
Christ, were you really that bad? lol "
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!!
Yep
I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.
This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.
Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx
I got beat up on a hotel meet!!
I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx
I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.
Christ, were you really that bad? lol "
That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!!
Yep
I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.
This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.
Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx
I got beat up on a hotel meet!!
I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx
I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.
Christ, were you really that bad? lol
That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol. "
Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx |
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!!
Yep
I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.
This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.
Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx
I got beat up on a hotel meet!!
I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx
I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.
Christ, were you really that bad? lol
That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol.
Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx"
"Lightweight"? Ah yes as it is so good to be able to knock back a bottle of wine and not feel it. At least it was after - informed consent disappears when you are d*unk. |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
"Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in ) and had to leave.
It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon
Hi op. I think communication is the issue here. For me a meet definitely isn’t just about the sex. If the sex was 2 hours then the meet itself would probably last at least 4 hours including‘getting to know’ time and an affectionate wind-down afterwards. Then again - I make no secret of the fact that I’m here to make good friends to have sex with rather than just ‘meets’.
Maybe she expected the affectionate wind-down too? Finding out in advance what the other person wants/expects makes life easier in my experience - then if you want very different experiences you don’t meet. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always based on what can be fit in around hectic lifestyles. It's more about what can be achieved in the time I can get freed up rather than what I'd like. If I had it my way it would be all evening, cuddle up and go again for a sleepy morning session |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing "
. Awww !…. I think thats unlawful unless specifically requested. |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx"
Can’t help my curiosity….during the message build up presumably the plan was for plenty more than that ? |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
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"quickies have there place but if i meeting for the evening then its the evening and longer at weekends ,,,guys who rush a meet or think about themselves dont get a second chance ...i alway make sure before a meet that this is spoken about ..
never have a problem if a guy cums early its what he does after that that counts ...."
Yes, got to be the all round package inc social and cumming is just a stop on the journey |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing "
The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ? |
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ? "
That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything. |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ?
That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything. "
Yes he could just have been selfish but he might also have been so embarrassed he just wanted to get out of there. Only he will know.
We had a guy who lasted about a minute which was a shame but he couldn’t help it. It’s was definitely a condition for him and was just overly excited. |
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ?
That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything. "
I had a similar situation once, one of the reasons I tend not to give head until I've had at least one orgasm now! |
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OP my meets vary, but I don't like watching a clock and if it's taken me longer to get ready than the meet has lasted I'll probably be a little non-plussed.
It's one of those things that needs discussion up-front if time is limited. I've had quickies, but I've known going into it that we have an hour or whatever. It's not something I'd be happy to have sprung on me as I think I'd feel a bit like an unpaid brass. |
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ?
That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything.
I had a similar situation once, one of the reasons I tend not to give head until I've had at least one orgasm now!"
Yes I definitely think that's the answer |
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ?
That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything. "
Did he roll over and start reading the racing post whilst lighting a fag ? |
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ?
That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything.
Did he roll over and start reading the racing post whilst lighting a fag ? "
No lol he started saying he was tired and yawning. I expected abit more after a year of talking. |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
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For us many guys tell us how long they’ll last etc, etc but it usually ends up 30 mins of foreplay and 30 mins of intercourse with no repeat.
One of our worst meets was where the guy just pounded away slowing down and speeding up for ages. It was incredibly boring as he just concentrated on lasting as long as possible. Longer is not always better. |
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A great variation. Some under five minutes and a "sorry, I don't usually cum that quick" excuse prior to doing the walk of shame to the front door.
Others half an hour to an hour. Perfect for me. Not a five minute wonder, but not too long and drawn-out. |
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Depends if I'm feeding the other person too and socialising, chilling etc.
An entire evening is a preference but not less than a couple of hours and that not necessarily any/all or much play, depends on the mood. No set time limits unless an unsuspecting hubby is due home as it's inadvisable to be forced to run and leave his Mrs tied to the bed |
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"A great variation. Some under five minutes and a "sorry, I don't usually cum that quick" excuse prior to doing the walk of shame to the front door.
Others half an hour to an hour. Perfect for me. Not a five minute wonder, but not too long and drawn-out. "
Haha that’s funny, do they not ever attempt a second pop? |
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It’s not the time as such but how it makes me feel. That said, a bit of suggestive flirting, kissing and the running over of hands, preferably followed by her coming hard on my face as an entree probably smash the hour mark before we even reach the main (inter) course.
There are occasions when you are both just primed for a good, hard, deep, passionate, release giving fuck where 10 mins may be possible. But even then I’d want time for dolce xx |
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ?
That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything. "
The least he could have done was do oral on you he may well of then recovered enough to fuck you |
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!!
Yep
I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.
This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.
Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx
I got beat up on a hotel meet!!
I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx
I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.
Christ, were you really that bad? lol
That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol.
Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx
"Lightweight"? Ah yes as it is so good to be able to knock back a bottle of wine and not feel it. At least it was after - informed consent disappears when you are d*unk. "
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Can’t help my curiosity….during the message build up presumably the plan was for plenty more than that ?"
Yes, all the message build up was fine and we planned some good (and longer) fun in the hotel room. I think he just lied to me tbh xx |
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I’m clear that I meet for socials first and I expect that to take at least an hour if I’ve made an effort to get ready to go out! If we click then it’s been made clear prior to meeting that I look for over night stays if we are going to play too. I like to make the most of my free time so a couple of hours I’d be disappointed, irritated and wouldn’t be planning another meet with the same person |
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"Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in ) and had to leave.
It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon
Hi op. I think communication is the issue here. For me a meet definitely isn’t just about the sex. If the sex was 2 hours then the meet itself would probably last at least 4 hours including‘getting to know’ time and an affectionate wind-down afterwards. Then again - I make no secret of the fact that I’m here to make good friends to have sex with rather than just ‘meets’.
Maybe she expected the affectionate wind-down too? Finding out in advance what the other person wants/expects makes life easier in my experience - then if you want very different experiences you don’t meet. "
This, I would expect a whole afternoon/evening with someone. I like long slow sensual sessions. 2 hours from walking in the door to leaving isn't long enough! |
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I'd like more slow sensual meets too, but the couple I meet regularly see our meets as purely functional really, so an hour tops after mrs has cum a few times. I've suggested a more relaxed evening meet but so fsr it hasn't happened. Having said that, I'm grateful for what we do manage as otherwise life would be much less fun. |
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!!
Yep
I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.
This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.
Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx
I got beat up on a hotel meet!!
I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx
I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.
Christ, were you really that bad? lol
That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol.
Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx
"Lightweight"? Ah yes as it is so good to be able to knock back a bottle of wine and not feel it. At least it was after - informed consent disappears when you are d*unk.
Do you really think you add anything to the forums?"
Sorry you take things so personally. You may want to consider why that is. The comment was off Op topic but challenging you calling someone "nuts", and joking they are a "lightweight" about their drinking. Or do you object to the very real issue of informed consent and alcohol? Any time one party is d*unk (as it would seem in this violent side-bar) getting out is the best thing to do - soldier or not! |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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Always got down to business because we've chatted so much before hand and duration few hours to whole night always well enjoy by both seem to have a cheeky session in the morning just to nail it as a thank you |
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"if we meet a guy. we prefer pretty quick meets... they are really just our warm up "
Sheesh…. What a way to make an individual feel special. I’d prefer to be part of the main course as opposed to just being a play thing to “warm you up”, surely as a couple that’s what you have each other for no?
If you couldn’t already quickies are not my thing in the slightest… |
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"Absolutely, that's the point for us, it's the whole package not just the act. The meet has to be intimate as well as just sexual and has to be more like a complete date. A bit of tactile time first then the event which could be a few times over not just the once. Then a nice wind down afterwards. Should feel like she was dated afterwards not just used for the sex. "
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"Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in ) and had to leave.
It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon "
Just out of curiosity did you make her cum? Were you clock watching?
We had a guy once who was clock watching..its a complete turn off and quite rude actually..if you don't have the time to enjoy yourself then don't come and rush it. |
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ?
That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything.
I had a similar situation once, one of the reasons I tend not to give head until I've had at least one orgasm now!
Yes I definitely think that's the answer "
I would of apologised and heading straight down to return the favour and then restart the old engine and go again so to speak. |
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!!
Yep
I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.
This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.
Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx
I got beat up on a hotel meet!!
I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx
I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.
Christ, were you really that bad? lol
That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol.
Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx
"Lightweight"? Ah yes as it is so good to be able to knock back a bottle of wine and not feel it. At least it was after - informed consent disappears when you are d*unk.
Do you really think you add anything to the forums?
Sorry you take things so personally. You may want to consider why that is. The comment was off Op topic but challenging you calling someone "nuts", and joking they are a "lightweight" about their drinking. Or do you object to the very real issue of informed consent and alcohol? Any time one party is d*unk (as it would seem in this violent side-bar) getting out is the best thing to do - soldier or not! "
I'm just wondering why you think the community wants some self appointed, self righteous busy bodies inflicting their off topic views on people that have no interest in hearing it. A forum already with moderations no less. Even your profile is slightly offensive, the unwanted and unsolicited police imposing themselves to protect us against ourselves. |
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!!
Yep
I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.
This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.
Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx
I got beat up on a hotel meet!!
I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx
I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.
Christ, were you really that bad? lol
That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol.
Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx
"Lightweight"? Ah yes as it is so good to be able to knock back a bottle of wine and not feel it. At least it was after - informed consent disappears when you are d*unk.
Do you really think you add anything to the forums?
Sorry you take things so personally. You may want to consider why that is. The comment was off Op topic but challenging you calling someone "nuts", and joking they are a "lightweight" about their drinking. Or do you object to the very real issue of informed consent and alcohol? Any time one party is d*unk (as it would seem in this violent side-bar) getting out is the best thing to do - soldier or not!
I'm just wondering why you think the community wants some self appointed, self righteous busy bodies inflicting their off topic views on people that have no interest in hearing it. A forum already with moderations no less. Even your profile is slightly offensive, the unwanted and unsolicited police imposing themselves to protect us against ourselves. "
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!!
Yep
I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.
This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.
Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx
I got beat up on a hotel meet!!
I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx
I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.
Christ, were you really that bad? lol
That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol.
Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx
"Lightweight"? Ah yes as it is so good to be able to knock back a bottle of wine and not feel it. At least it was after - informed consent disappears when you are d*unk.
Do you really think you add anything to the forums?
Sorry you take things so personally. You may want to consider why that is. The comment was off Op topic but challenging you calling someone "nuts", and joking they are a "lightweight" about their drinking. Or do you object to the very real issue of informed consent and alcohol? Any time one party is d*unk (as it would seem in this violent side-bar) getting out is the best thing to do - soldier or not!
I'm just wondering why you think the community wants some self appointed, self righteous busy bodies inflicting their off topic views on people that have no interest in hearing it. A forum already with moderations no less. Even your profile is slightly offensive, the unwanted and unsolicited police imposing themselves to protect us against ourselves.
Thank you. It is moments from people so breath-takingly unaware of irony that makes our day, and explains so much. Enjoy the thread "
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"Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in ) and had to leave.
It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon
Just out of curiosity did you make her cum? Were you clock watching?
We had a guy once who was clock watching..its a complete turn off and quite rude actually..if you don't have the time to enjoy yourself then don't come and rush it."
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"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx
Yes we didn't make it to sex
Thats a relief. Or was it ?
For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing
Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again
Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).
I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx
Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!
You were literally used!!
Yep
I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.
This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.
Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx
I got beat up on a hotel meet!!
I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx
I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.
Christ, were you really that bad? lol
That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol.
Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx
"Lightweight"? Ah yes as it is so good to be able to knock back a bottle of wine and not feel it. At least it was after - informed consent disappears when you are d*unk.
Do you really think you add anything to the forums?
Sorry you take things so personally. You may want to consider why that is. The comment was off Op topic but challenging you calling someone "nuts", and joking they are a "lightweight" about their drinking. Or do you object to the very real issue of informed consent and alcohol? Any time one party is d*unk (as it would seem in this violent side-bar) getting out is the best thing to do - soldier or not!
I'm just wondering why you think the community wants some self appointed, self righteous busy bodies inflicting their off topic views on people that have no interest in hearing it. A forum already with moderations no less. Even your profile is slightly offensive, the unwanted and unsolicited police imposing themselves to protect us against ourselves.
Thank you. It is moments from people so breath-takingly unaware of irony that makes our day, and explains so much. Enjoy the thread
It's it comments like that which demonstrate your arrogance and self importance. I really doubt anyone wants you here, certainly with an attitude like that."
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