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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago
Kent |
Day to day, chilled and quiet
However in the bedroom becoming very much a Dom ( when agreed)
Enjoying rougher play, taking control, having someone submit and give themselves to me
..... Then after a nice chilled cup of tea again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm more in charge than dominant, but happy to submit and do what I'm told as well. I'm not into making ladies look like I'm going to put them in the oven - can't be arsed learning the art, but happy to restrain with no finesse! |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
I would suggest taking control when it comes to sex is not necessarily a Dom/Sub matter nor an indicator of a Dom/sub relationship in a D/S sense, nor indicates a dominant or submissive.
I think this is a mistake made by both the uneducated media and those who watch porn's representation of D/S.
The general view in the scene is that D/S is about negotiated power exchange.
What happens in the bedroom is not the hallmark of D/S, but a factor taken into account in seeing whether D/S exists.
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I’m very Dom in my daily life but a natural sub to W in the bedroom, I will switch though, but I actually prefer not too, I love the fact he takes control, he also makes all the suggestions as to what our next encounter will be…. I really like that dynamic |
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