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"My wife thinks the art of a soft slow fingering is disappearing. She said most blokes want to go at it like a pneumatic drill from the start and that is definitely not her style. We view it as a great part of foreplay, what do other women think ? " She is correct. Many, many men are horrible at it. I can only assume that they watch too much porn. | |||
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"Some men seem obsessed with trying to make a woman squirt, I prefer slow and sensual if you're going to finger me" Agree with this. The end goal for many men seems to be to make women squirt. | |||
 but get where the ladies are coming from , excuse the pun | |||
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"My wife thinks the art of a soft slow fingering is disappearing. She said most blokes want to go at it like a pneumatic drill from the start and that is definitely not her style. We view it as a great part of foreplay, what do other women think ? " There is certain way to excite a female and going too heavy isn't it. | |||
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"Didn’t Micky Flanagan say on one of his stand up tours “ the art of fingering is dead” "Thats right. Hence the rising numbers of teenage pregnancy. | |||
"Some men seem obsessed with trying to make a woman squirt, I prefer slow and sensual if you're going to finger me" Exactly this. If only they’d take their time prior to trying to get the gush with lots of teasing they’d end up with the gush of their lives | |||
"Some men seem obsessed with trying to make a woman squirt, I prefer slow and sensual if you're going to finger me Exactly this. If only they’d take their time prior to trying to get the gush with lots of teasing they’d end up with the gush of their lives "Yes^^^ some guys don't realise how turned on a woman needs to be before even attempting!! | |||
"My wife thinks the art of a soft slow fingering is disappearing. She said most blokes want to go at it like a pneumatic drill from the start and that is definitely not her style. We view it as a great part of foreplay, what do other women think ? She is correct. Many, many men are horrible at it. I can only assume that they watch too much porn. " I don't watch that much porn, Just inexperienced, Will you teach me? | |||
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But I love to take my time... Love the feeling when she cums while my tongue is still inside her along with my fingers! Feeling her writhe around and grind on my face is such a turn on!
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"I like it to start slowly, and pay attention to the clit also, massage it, tease me then as I get wetter I like the speed to increase and decrease again driving me to a soaking wet climax! Battering away at me with multiple fingers is likely to make me drier than the desert - hate it xx" Exactly this! I hope men are reading this. | |||
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With that exception much prefer the touch of the ladies, far more sensual and they also know what they are doing and they get the OMG as well | |||
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"I avoid women who like slow fingering. If you can't take a run-up into a diving ha-dou-ken, you're not for me. " Never expected a Street Fighter reference to pop up in the fingerings thread
A mixture of slow build up to super moist heavier fingering is great - all part of the mix unless you want to go straight to the diving ha-dou-ken Class. | |||
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"My wife thinks the art of a soft slow fingering is disappearing. She said most blokes want to go at it like a pneumatic drill from the start and that is definitely not her style. We view it as a great part of foreplay, what do other women think ? She is correct. Many, many men are horrible at it. I can only assume that they watch too much porn. " Nah, I think it is just because they have never been told otherwise. Teach a man to finger&lick and you'll never need fresh batteries again (maybe) | |||
"I love a good hard fingering, anything too slow or too gentle just bores me. Two fingers though, not a fan of someone trying to shove their entire arm in there." Yep! but it has to start slow and build up, not just start at 100mph no matter how frenetic the action has been up to that point. | |||
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"I think you need to see how the woman reacts and do what they enjoy"
That really is an art, and is always appreciated! | |||
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"I think you need to see how the woman reacts and do what they enjoy
That really is an art, and is always appreciated! "It is vital that the woman enjoys it . Nothing better than seeing and feeling a woman enjoying herself. A bit of tongue action is good at the same time | |||
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"Go off the woman’s reaction to what you’re doing, take care of her clit, aswell as fingering, look out for her reaction to see if it’s something she enjoys, experiment "Definitely | |||
"I’ve improved my technique over the years. I’d put my back out if I were to emulate the good old probs stars these days lol. After 45 slow and steady is best "You put your back out fingering? Wtf happens if you manage to move on to penetration.... | |||
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"Have seen some guys pushing four fingers in all directions assuming the lady is enjoying . Another misconception there. We like soft fingering and licking ." We’re all different; gentle fingering but lick me like you really mean it  | |||
"Didn’t Micky Flanagan say on one of his stand up tours “ the art of fingering is dead” "Was just about to say this! 
2 fingers..inserted and doing the "come hither" movement ...tsunami in ma breeks! | |||
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"Some men seem obsessed with trying to make a woman squirt, I prefer slow and sensual if you're going to finger me" This I definitely agree with. Slowly slowly wins the race! Mrs NC | |||
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"My wife thinks the art of a soft slow fingering is disappearing. She said most blokes want to go at it like a pneumatic drill from the start and that is definitely not her style. We view it as a great part of foreplay, what do other women think ? " Same! So much so we tell guys that mrs doesn't like being fingered now so they don't do it! 
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"My wife thinks the art of a soft slow fingering is disappearing. She said most blokes want to go at it like a pneumatic drill from the start and that is definitely not her style. We view it as a great part of foreplay, what do other women think ? She is correct. Many, many men are horrible at it. I can only assume that they watch too much porn. " Porn really is affecting the way many men act and how they think sex should be. They seem to think porn films are real life! | |||
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"Oh I don't know I like a good hard fingering but get where the ladies are coming from , excuse the pun "I start off by cupping the whole vulva, closed then as the slow gentle circling drives her, my hand will become wet as she tries to engulf my fingers tips.... | |||
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"My wife thinks the art of a soft slow fingering is disappearing. She said most blokes want to go at it like a pneumatic drill from the start and that is definitely not her style. We view it as a great part of foreplay, what do other women think ? " Yes ! I have thought of banning fingering altogether… | |||
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"Porn has a lot to answer for finger blasting. I myself enjoy gently sliding a finger into her as we kiss each other slowly "I think porn is to blame for a lot of sexual mishaps. It should mainly be used for personally stimulation. I work on feedback from the person I'm with at the time and that is the only thing that matters.....if they wish to try something they've watched on the internet then so beit  | |||
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"I like it to start slowly, and pay attention to the clit also, massage it, tease me then as I get wetter I like the speed to increase and decrease again driving me to a soaking wet climax! Battering away at me with multiple fingers is likely to make me drier than the desert - hate it xx" Noted….erm if we ever meet. | |||
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"Question: if tonguing the clit and simultaneously using fingers, does that count as fingering?" Multi tasking. | |||
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"My wife thinks the art of a soft slow fingering is disappearing. She said most blokes want to go at it like a pneumatic drill from the start and that is definitely not her style. We view it as a great part of foreplay, what do other women think ? She is correct. Many, many men are horrible at it. I can only assume that they watch too much porn. " The internet has a lot to answer for | |||
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"Course every guy is an expert! " Try me, or better still ask my partner. | |||
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"Lols I was with a girl who was yelling “how do you know how to touch me like this…” as she was cumming…. That was quite good fun… "TYPO This is the holy grail. Zero effort, maximum gain. I can my my partner cum just by staying still inside her, just at the right oint. It pleases hera lot and pisses her off at the same time (as her fingers and toys can't do this either) hehehehe! | |||
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"Hubby is good with his hands… Have to admit I enjoy him fingering another woman and enjoy it more if I then go down on her xx" This is so hot
Ms x | |||
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