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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I seam to be getting ignored a lot on here I only mail people whose profile requests fit me its starting to get frustrating and making me want to delete my profile  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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You're not being totally ignored as you have had at least a couple of meets.
I'm sorry to say that deleting is easier than responding to lots of messages.
Take a break but don't delete your profile or you will lose your verifications. Come back when you are less frustrated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest we do ignore / block quite a few people.
There are as many reasons as there are people on our block list but the primary reason is very simple. They obviously havent read our profile or chosen to ignore what we're looking for.
We've also lost count of the amount of people beginning messages....Read your profile and I know you dont/wont.....but
What option is there but to block them?
Then we get a situation where because someone hasnt read a profile they dont know what they've been blocked/ignored. Then they get frustrated and imagine its a personal attack!
Theres always the people who ignore perfectly behaved members - and we get that as a couple so I imagine its 10 fold for singles.
The solution is very simple. Move on and dont dwell on it.
Like in the real world there are rude people and well mannered people. Swinging is no different. Say thanks to the well mannered pleasant people and ignore the gobshites. 
This will undoubtedly improve your fab experience and help reduce tosser induced stress.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I seam to be getting ignored a lot on here I only mail people whose profile requests fit me its starting to get frustrating and making me want to delete my profile "
Honestly, if being on here is making you want to delete your profile then it most probably is time to delete it.
Like so many guys on here think this sites a simple join up and get laid as and when they want and it just isnt like that.
Its meant to be fun so if its not fun for you then it isnt for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used to answer all our mail, as we thought this was polite thing to do, it took a lot if time mind you! But now we only answer the messages that we want to! Eg, interesting messages not the one liners!!
We still try to answer most of our messages even its a polite no thank you!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I seam to be getting ignored a lot on here I only mail people whose profile requests fit me its starting to get frustrating and making me want to delete my profile "
Who said that?  |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"Hi I seam to be getting ignored a lot on here I only mail people whose profile requests fit me its starting to get frustrating and making me want to delete my profile "
Don't worry about it mate. I know the feeling, no one listens to me either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I seam to be getting ignored a lot on here I only mail people whose profile requests fit me its starting to get frustrating and making me want to delete my profile
Don't worry about it mate. I know the feeling, no one listens to me either"
Someone say something??  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Hi I seam to be getting ignored a lot on here I only mail people whose profile requests fit me its starting to get frustrating and making me want to delete my profile
Don't worry about it mate. I know the feeling, no one listens to me either"
Did someone say something???? Thought I might have heard a mumble...no, oh ok then  |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"Hi I seam to be getting ignored a lot on here I only mail people whose profile requests fit me its starting to get frustrating and making me want to delete my profile
Don't worry about it mate. I know the feeling, no one listens to me either
Someone say something?? "
Funnily enough that's what Shaun the sheep just said when I left Wales ! |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Hi I seam to be getting ignored a lot on here I only mail people whose profile requests fit me its starting to get frustrating and making me want to delete my profile
Don't worry about it mate. I know the feeling, no one listens to me either
Someone say something?? "
Great minds eh Jones-the-Steam???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I seam to be getting ignored a lot on here I only mail people whose profile requests fit me its starting to get frustrating and making me want to delete my profile
Don't worry about it mate. I know the feeling, no one listens to me either
Someone say something??
Great minds eh Jones-the-Steam????
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Toot toot!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I seam to be getting ignored a lot on here I only mail people whose profile requests fit me its starting to get frustrating and making me want to delete my profile
Don't worry about it mate. I know the feeling, no one listens to me either
Someone say something??
Funnily enough that's what Shaun the sheep just said when I left Wales !
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Come baaaaaa-ck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like so many guys on here think this sites a simple join up and get laid as and when they want and it just isnt "
Well that's exactly how I've found it, its just like nipping into a sexual Netto when the need arises! Perhaps 'it's the way I tell 'em
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"
Like so many guys on here think this sites a simple join up and get laid as and when they want and it just isnt
Well that's exactly how I've found it, its just like nipping into a sexual Netto when the need arises! Perhaps 'it's the way I tell 'em
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Netto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like so many guys on here think this sites a simple join up and get laid as and when they want and it just isnt
Well that's exactly how I've found it, its just like nipping into a sexual Netto when the need arises! Perhaps 'it's the way I tell 'em
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Who let you in over here
Get back to that dark side now! |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
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Like so many guys on here think this sites a simple join up and get laid as and when they want and it just isnt
Well that's exactly how I've found it, its just like nipping into a sexual Netto when the need arises! Perhaps 'it's the way I tell 'em
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I prefer to think of myself as a Sainsbury or Waitrose rather than Netto or Aldi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like so many guys on here think this sites a simple join up and get laid as and when they want and it just isnt
Well that's exactly how I've found it, its just like nipping into a sexual Netto when the need arises! Perhaps 'it's the way I tell 'em
Netto "
Yeah, piles of cheap stuff but you get the odd bargain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like so many guys on here think this sites a simple join up and get laid as and when they want and it just isnt
Well that's exactly how I've found it, its just like nipping into a sexual Netto when the need arises! Perhaps 'it's the way I tell 'em
I prefer to think of myself as a Sainsbury or Waitrose rather than Netto or Aldi "
You can get a cheap '3 bird roast' at Aldi  |
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Like so many guys on here think this sites a simple join up and get laid as and when they want and it just isnt
Well that's exactly how I've found it, its just like nipping into a sexual Netto when the need arises! Perhaps 'it's the way I tell 'em
I prefer to think of myself as a Sainsbury or Waitrose rather than Netto or Aldi
You can get a cheap '3 bird roast' at Aldi "
But surely one or two of a higher standard would be more satisfying?? |
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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago
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Dont ya just love these threads......single guys throws dummy out pram because things arent going quick or often enuff.. obviously thought fab was going to be a full on shag fest....so what we supposed to do now ..have all the ladies fall at his feet begging him to stay or wave bye bye?? .....hmmm dilemas dilemas  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
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Like so many guys on here think this sites a simple join up and get laid as and when they want and it just isnt
Well that's exactly how I've found it, its just like nipping into a sexual Netto when the need arises! Perhaps 'it's the way I tell 'em
I prefer to think of myself as a Sainsbury or Waitrose rather than Netto or Aldi
You can get a cheap '3 bird roast' at Aldi "
Ya gets what ya pay for Marquis...don't come crying to me when you get e-coli |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have we teleported or am I going insane
If the Nuremberg laws were applied, then every post-war American president would have been hanged."
I blame you |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Have we teleported or am I going insane
If the Nuremberg laws were applied, then every post-war American president would have been hanged.
I blame you "
I think it may be your fault You wished him back to the dark side and pooffft, we're all here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have we teleported or am I going insane
If the Nuremberg laws were applied, then every post-war American president would have been hanged.
I blame you
I think it may be your fault You wished him back to the dark side and pooffft, we're all here. "
Ok, I will take it like a man, I was sure we were all in the comfort of the Lounge and poof! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest we do ignore / block quite a few people.
There are as many reasons as there are people on our block list but the primary reason is very simple. They obviously havent read our profile or chosen to ignore what we're looking for.
We've also lost count of the amount of people beginning messages....Read your profile and I know you dont/wont.....but
What option is there but to block them?
Then we get a situation where because someone hasnt read a profile they dont know what they've been blocked/ignored. Then they get frustrated and imagine its a personal attack!
Theres always the people who ignore perfectly behaved members - and we get that as a couple so I imagine its 10 fold for singles.
The solution is very simple. Move on and dont dwell on it.
Like in the real world there are rude people and well mannered people. Swinging is no different. Say thanks to the well mannered pleasant people and ignore the gobshites.
This will undoubtedly improve your fab experience and help reduce tosser induced stress. "
agree totally thats why i block people, but always reply in a nice way before doing so!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I seam to be getting ignored a lot on here I only mail people whose profile requests fit me its starting to get frustrating and making me want to delete my profile "
Don't bother with messages at all, just abuse and confuse em on here using 'Shock and Awe' tactics like I do.
It pisses loads off but also gets you a steady stream of groupies out of the ones that it doesn't piss off and loads of shags |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Hi I seam to be getting ignored a lot on here I only mail people whose profile requests fit me its starting to get frustrating and making me want to delete my profile
Don't bother with messages at all, just abuse and confuse em on here using 'Shock and Awe' tactics like I do.
It pisses loads off but also gets you a steady stream of groupies out of the ones that it doesn't piss off and loads of shags "
A flock of sea birds? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I seam to be getting ignored a lot on here I only mail people whose profile requests fit me its starting to get frustrating and making me want to delete my profile
Don't bother with messages at all, just abuse and confuse em on here using 'Shock and Awe' tactics like I do.
It pisses loads off but also gets you a steady stream of groupies out of the ones that it doesn't piss off and loads of shags
A flock of sea birds?"
Haha! Well admittedly a few of them have tasted a little salty |
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