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I’ve been asked if I could do something when they’re asleep but in all honesty I’m not overly keen on putting myself in that position even if we’re clear. But on the other hand I was tired after a night out and my ex was playing with me as I was falling asleep. She asked me if I was ok with it and I was. Apparently I was quite responsive and she really enjoyed it. I would like to know about it at the time and it was nice but isn’t my first idea for a kink |
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I once had sex with my wife while I was asleep, It was me who started it and carried on until I had finished.
She was asleep until the movement woke her up towards the end which was when I also woke up.
I felt really bad about it, I couldn't apologise enough to my wife. I really hope it never happens again, I felt as if I had violated my own wife |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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One morning myself and my ex turned to each other and said 'did we fuck last night'?
Neither of us remember starting it. Or even finishing for that matter. We just both woke up mid fuck but fell asleep before we finished (and he hadn't cum there was no evidence  ) |
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"I think it's called rope or sexual assault."
Technically in law you are correct in that informed consent has not been given. The party involved however would have to deem it as such and make a formal complaint. Is that likely in a loving relationship.
Some of the more sensual moments in my relationships have been to awake to my partner sucking my cock......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How'd you know
Because I would semi wake up
So you weren't being 'used' while in a deep sleep at all then. "
Anything started while the other person is asleep, is assault. If you are not conscious to give consent, it's assault. If this was the other way around, ppl would be up on arms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How'd you know
Because I would semi wake up
So you weren't being 'used' while in a deep sleep at all then.
Anything started while the other person is asleep, is assault. If you are not conscious to give consent, it's assault. If this was the other way around, ppl would be up on arms"
Yes dear, I do know that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How'd you know
Because I would semi wake up
So you weren't being 'used' while in a deep sleep at all then.
Anything started while the other person is asleep, is assault. If you are not conscious to give consent, it's assault. If this was the other way around, ppl would be up on arms
Yes dear, I do know that "
No one was sexually assaulted here we both liked it and done it plenty of times to each other and really enjoyed it we liked to push each others boundaries |
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"How'd you know
Because I would semi wake up
So you weren't being 'used' while in a deep sleep at all then.
Anything started while the other person is asleep, is assault. If you are not conscious to give consent, it's assault. If this was the other way around, ppl would be up on arms"
That entirely depends on the people involved! If you've got the right relationship and consented beforehand then all this talk of assault is quite insulting.
Ive told my wife to use me whenever she wants, don't care if I'm asleep. If she has an urge, I want to help fulfil it. Honestly the best way of being woken up!!! Even if it's 4am I don't care lol!!! |
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cannot believe some of the comments on this thread! There are really men that are not chuffed to bits if their partner initiates sex at anytime, awake or otherwise??! FFS; it is the stuff of dreams! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One morning myself and my ex turned to each other and said 'did we fuck last night'?
Neither of us remember starting it. Or even finishing for that matter. We just both woke up mid fuck but fell asleep before we finished (and he hadn't cum there was no evidence )"
This has happened to is a couple of times. Neither one of us are sure who started it  |
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I was once asked to wake her up using my tongue....she left the key hidden by the front door.
I quietly let myself in, undressed, went upstairs and licked her until she whispered...."Fuck me".
I did.... |
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I've woken many times to find Jane sucking my cock or she's got me hard then wiggled back onto my cock as I sleep.
I've slipped inside her a few times and even cum before. She loves waking up to find a pussy full but it's very rare she doesn't wake before I cum |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've woken many times to find Jane sucking my cock or she's got me hard then wiggled back onto my cock as I sleep.
I've slipped inside her a few times and even cum before. She loves waking up to find a pussy full but it's very rare she doesn't wake before I cum "
Ditto
But what a challenge trying not to wake them up |
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"I've woken many times to find Jane sucking my cock or she's got me hard then wiggled back onto my cock as I sleep.
I've slipped inside her a few times and even cum before. She loves waking up to find a pussy full but it's very rare she doesn't wake before I cum
Ditto
But what a challenge trying not to wake them up "
depend how tired! |
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"An ex partner would use me sexually for her own gratitude when I was in deep a sleep is it something others do with their partner "
Had you.spomen about this first and agreed? If not that's assault.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex Fuck buddy did the same to me when I was in NYC. She’d play with me turn me on so I woke up hot and ready to go animal in half sleep.
Gotta say it made for quite a wild night every time she did it |
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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago
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As with everything it's all about communication.
If you haven't ever discussed it then it's a complete no-no. R@pe as has been mentioned already.
Early in our relationship we were having a d*unk fuck in bed when I started passing out and fell asleep.
He stopped straight away but mentioned it the next day.
I told him I was fine with it, even if he wanted to start it while I slept.
He's done it 3 or 4 times. Though once was just a hand job, not sure how he managed that! |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
Can of worms comes to mind. My ex was always horny rampant in drink and be quite wild but this was usually just before the coma state, she would want all kinds of acts and rough just before falling asleep into a coma for 10 hours. This backfired during and after divorce and led to some pretty nasty and serious accusations and character assassination and I refuse to do rough now and certainly wouldn't touch a falling down d*unk woman, I'll stick to ladies who like erotic and sensual and don't drink like a navvy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a ex long ago who woke me up as she rode me bare. I just enjoyed until I found out she was not taking anything. Then I was not so happy. Hence why she then became a ex.
Is a massive turn on. To be fair but not when there is no safty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ha that must be some kind of a handjob .
Not exactly the same but one of ex, who never drank, had a lot to drink.
She was in her senses but said she can’t move so I had to all the work, didnt enjoy that much.
I loved the other one who would ride me raw while I slept and woke up to swinging tits and puss wrapped on my cock |
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By *imb8486Man
over a year ago
Weston super mare |
With long term partners really enjoyed being woken up by a handjob or bj, but once got woken up by a girl sticking her finger up my ass. I had met her on a site similar to here and was our first meet. It was rather a shock at first but decided to just go with it rather than get mad. |
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Hard one really..
Hubby loves being woke up with a blow job.. and I don't mind being woke up at all either..
I guess it's how you feel about it.. and if you didn't like did you tell her not to and she still done it? |
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