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I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?
For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.
Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?
Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly. |
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over a year ago
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"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?
For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.
Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?
Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."
Personally not, Aslong as someone is clean and tested I’m fine with whatever  |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?
For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.
Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?
Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."
I don't have a problem with it. Its a sex site after all. The thought that other people have sex shouldn't be a strange one. Of course we all may have different views on that but personally, it doesn't bother me really |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?
For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.
Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?
Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."
I think it's about really knowing yourself. You'll be able to find men in the most situations. But how do you feel in yourself? Some people embrace be an insatiable appetite, some enjoy every now and again since it's a lustful one off to look back on fondly. All about you
Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi OP.
You’re on Fab to find out what works for you, not anyone else.
Whether that means you have endless meets or just a handful nobody has the right to judge.
If they don’t approve they can move on to the next profile.
We are living through strange times, grab happiness whilst you can.
V x |
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"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?
For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.
Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?
Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."
If you're a good person then that's good enough for me  |
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You'd been surprised for a swinging site of how judgementle others on here can be.
We've had people say we have too many veris. We've also been turned down for meets, as we've had one the the afternoon, and treid to arrange same day evening meet too. I would of bathed and changed lingery between. Did'nt see the differance between that and a gang bang.
We could of met just 1 person, but that 1 person could of met 1000's. I really don't see the relivance of how many a person has met. It's a calculated risk, meeting anyone sexually. We don't judge, and if we're not for others so be it. We currently have around 70 veris. Thats part of our swinging journey. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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People will always cry judgement, but I doubt few will really judge you, but they may find it incompatible with what they are looking for, which is fine, as that's how it's supposed to work.
If you're enjoying yourself, fill yer boots, is what I'd say  |
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"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?
For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.
Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?
Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."
My ex girlfriend would have more guys than that in one evening at a club.
I used to love other guys fucking her, just as I enjoy watching my Mistress Clare getting fucked when we go to clubs now.
It certainly doesn't stop me wanting to play with her. The opposite, in fact. |
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"People will always cry judgement, but I doubt few will really judge you, but they may find it incompatible with what they are looking for, which is fine, as that's how it's supposed to work.
If you're enjoying yourself, fill yer boots, is what I'd say "
Perfecty put! I only meet with one or two women or couples a year at most, by choice. And prefer to meet with similar people. But that's because I prefer an ongoing arrangement or relationship. I definitely wouldn't judge people who would prefer a series of one off encounters. Just different tastes!
You do you, find what you enjoy and anyone who dissrespects you can fuck right off!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone is looking for different things. The diversity of sites like this is why they're good. Some are happy with one partner at a time, others will happily shag 25 in one night at a gangbang. Nothing is wrong with either. It's up to you, and no one has the right to judge.
Oh and I fucked like over 20 guys straight after joining, so definitely no judgement here! xx |
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It will put some men off, there's nothing you can do about that. It won't put others off and they're the ones you're compatible with .
Are you happy? Do you feel you shouldn't be enjoying multiple partners?
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"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?
For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.
Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?
Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."
. Not one person on here or off here is fit to judge. When I read ' not here to sleep with the whole of fab' I wanna stick a bullet in them. They would given half the chance!
Go for it explore till your little foofoo content |
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"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?
For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.
Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?
Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."
I love that you’re not sure if it’s 5 or 6
Go girl |
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Too much for some in the vanilla world sure. There’s small minded people everywhere. Too much here? Jesus, if that’s too much, those people need to step back into 1950 and fuck off out of this scene for sure! |
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"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?
For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.
Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?
Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."
I used to sugar coat it to guys... I'm now brutally honest. If someone doesnt want to play with me due to how many partners I've had it's not an issue. I find more annoying that people see me as a challenge to " ruin" |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Means absolutely nothing to us. We take our own steps of protection and we're happy to play from that stand point, your sexual history therefore op, would never be a factor for us. You do know there's a massive amount of people around here who choose not to air their business publicly, you could choose that route if you so wished. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've had sex with blah blah number, Nicky has had sex with blah blah number. At the end of any day, we make love with each other and that's what counts. M |
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Thanks people, it's nice to hear. As I am planning on having as many as possible  , it's so much fun.
My partner compares it to food "there's so many tastes & sensations out there, why limit yourself".
Just wondered how it appears from the outside looking in.
Love you all xx |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Thanks people, it's nice to hear. As I am planning on having as many as possible , it's so much fun.
My partner compares it to food "there's so many tastes & sensations out there, why limit yourself".
Just wondered how it appears from the outside looking in.
Love you all xx"
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"Thanks people, it's nice to hear. As I am planning on having as many as possible , it's so much fun.
My partner compares it to food "there's so many tastes & sensations out there, why limit yourself".
Just wondered how it appears from the outside looking in.
Love you all xx"
Great outlook |
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"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?
For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.
Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?
Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."
My two cents would be that any men who would find that you are "too sexually active" do not deserve a moment of your time, let alone to be in an intimate situation with you. I must admit that just the idea makes me see red because it is blatant misogyny and glaring double standards so my opinion is very biased.
Well done for venturing to explore your sexuality further and for being adventurous and doing what you want. I say, trust the advice of the fabulous Mae West - "too much of a good thing can be wonderful!" |
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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago
Lancashire |
"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?
For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.
Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?
Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."
Dunno but love the fact you've found such sexual freedom! |
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"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?
For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.
Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?
Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."
My own personal point of view is that there is no such thing as “too much”.. far more important to me is the attitude and personality of a potential meet rather than how many previous partners they may have had.. |
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