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"This is a very good question. The ‘norm’ would be for the guy to have his legs spread and the lady to have hers together. There are various reasons for this. A) Men tend to need their legs spread so we have more stability when thrusting our cocks up inside her. We’re quite good at holding the lady’s hips in position and unless she’s thrusting wildly back, she doesn’t need as much stability as we do. B) Men tend to be taller than the lady so if we’re both on our knees, if her legs are spread and mine are together, my cock is likely to be too high to insert into her special place. If we reverse that, the line-up between cock and pussy is much more likely to be at a similar height. C) I think both partners tend to enjoy the sensation of a tight pussy so having the lady’s legs together makes that easier. D) The whole concept of lady’s demurely doing things with their legs together and men displaying their power and masculinity has been hardwired into our culture anyway. Think of Hans Holbeins portraits of Henry VIII or any great family paintings by master artists down the centuries. The masculine leg-splaying is a posture communicating virility, strength and dominance, while the lady has her legs together to communicate modesty, femininity and perhaps weakness and vulnerability. So, for my money, those are the four most prominent issues at play here. " Very well detailed answer, thanks for this enlightening contribution  | |||
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"Legs apart, like in our profile pic. With her legs together we can’t quite manage penetration properly " Hmm, interesting | |||
"Legs apart, like in our profile pic. With her legs together we can’t quite manage penetration properly Hmm, interesting " Don’t think you’d have that problem though lol | |||
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"I think it depends on the ladies anatomy too, for whichever has easier access Speaking from a FF strap on user" Yep, anatomy does play a part…… | |||
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"Very interesting to know so many ladies like to part their legs for doggy. Of course, the lower her pussy is, the more the cock is angled and that often helps to keep mine at peak hardness so there is a benefit for both there." Do you think anyone’s noticed that you wrote a long post with 4 detailed reasons why it’s better for the woman’s legs to be closed only for all but one of the replies from woman to say they prefer them spread apart? | |||
"Very interesting to know so many ladies like to part their legs for doggy. Of course, the lower her pussy is, the more the cock is angled and that often helps to keep mine at peak hardness so there is a benefit for both there. Do you think anyone’s noticed that you wrote a long post with 4 detailed reasons why it’s better for the woman’s legs to be closed only for all but one of the replies from woman to say they prefer them spread apart? " Indeed - I have noticed if no-one else has lol! | |||
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"Very interesting to know so many ladies like to part their legs for doggy. Of course, the lower her pussy is, the more the cock is angled and that often helps to keep mine at peak hardness so there is a benefit for both there. Do you think anyone’s noticed that you wrote a long post with 4 detailed reasons why it’s better for the woman’s legs to be closed only for all but one of the replies from woman to say they prefer them spread apart? Indeed - I have noticed if no-one else has lol! "Haha, OP calling it an ‘enlightening contribution’ was way off the mark as well haha. I guess it’s always better to wait to hear what women have to say on the subject before deciding what’s best for them and telling them why it’s best. | |||
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"I like together but I prefer apart, just incase I get some clit stimulation or my arse being used aswell." Exactly. Can't do the reach around to the clit if legs are together. | |||
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"A few nights ago I had a meet (through fab) and we were in the doggiestyle position and her legs were wide and I was pounding her yada yada yada. Now doggiestyle isn't my favourite position but I did enjoy it (a collar around her neck with me pulling the leash and her blonde hair didn't hurt either) and I was thinking back when I had sex before if a woman's legs were together or apart during the sesh. So when having sex in the doggiestyle position do you like the person's legs to be open or closed? And to the person receiving the dick do you like your legs open or closed? " A great technique. Legs apart for me.  | |||
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"Very interesting to know so many ladies like to part their legs for doggy. Of course, the lower her pussy is, the more the cock is angled and that often helps to keep mine at peak hardness so there is a benefit for both there. Do you think anyone’s noticed that you wrote a long post with 4 detailed reasons why it’s better for the woman’s legs to be closed only for all but one of the replies from woman to say they prefer them spread apart? Indeed - I have noticed if no-one else has lol!
Haha, OP calling it an ‘enlightening contribution’ was way off the mark as well haha.
I guess it’s always better to wait to hear what women have to say on the subject before deciding what’s best for them and telling them why it’s best. "That’s a pretty baseless criticism. I haven’t told anyone what’s best. I merely constructed a reasoned argument why I thought legs together might prove more popular. At the time of my original post, few if any women had posted their view and the thread looked pretty unpromising. I doubted if any would actually respond to OP. So, I offered my argument with the understanding that we might not get responses from women, in which case, I was perfectly within my rights to speculate as to which position might prove most popular. If you can find a phrase which suggests I am dictating to women they should close their legs, good luck! I wrote a speculative and observational piece, rather than a pontificating post. I am very interested in women’s responses to this question and am fascinated by their reasoning. Next time I’m in the middle of a shag I shall happily initiate a deep discussion on the competing merits of leg positioning during doggy and share this tgread with the lady in question! | |||
"Very interesting to know so many ladies like to part their legs for doggy. Of course, the lower her pussy is, the more the cock is angled and that often helps to keep mine at peak hardness so there is a benefit for both there. Do you think anyone’s noticed that you wrote a long post with 4 detailed reasons why it’s better for the woman’s legs to be closed only for all but one of the replies from woman to say they prefer them spread apart? Indeed - I have noticed if no-one else has lol!
Haha, OP calling it an ‘enlightening contribution’ was way off the mark as well haha.
I guess it’s always better to wait to hear what women have to say on the subject before deciding what’s best for them and telling them why it’s best.
That’s a pretty baseless criticism. I haven’t told anyone what’s best. I merely constructed a reasoned argument why I thought legs together might prove more popular. At the time of my original post, few if any women had posted their view and the thread looked pretty unpromising. I doubted if any would actually respond to OP. So, I offered my argument with the understanding that we might not get responses from women, in which case, I was perfectly within my rights to speculate as to which position might prove most popular. If you can find a phrase which suggests I am dictating to women they should close their legs, good luck! I wrote a speculative and observational piece, rather than a pontificating post. I am very interested in women’s responses to this question and am fascinated by their reasoning. Next time I’m in the middle of a shag I shall happily initiate a deep discussion on the competing merits of leg positioning during doggy and share this tgread with the lady in question! "Fair enough, still a shit post that made you look a bit of an idiot wasn’t it? | |||
"Very interesting to know so many ladies like to part their legs for doggy. Of course, the lower her pussy is, the more the cock is angled and that often helps to keep mine at peak hardness so there is a benefit for both there. Do you think anyone’s noticed that you wrote a long post with 4 detailed reasons why it’s better for the woman’s legs to be closed only for all but one of the replies from woman to say they prefer them spread apart? Indeed - I have noticed if no-one else has lol!
Haha, OP calling it an ‘enlightening contribution’ was way off the mark as well haha.
I guess it’s always better to wait to hear what women have to say on the subject before deciding what’s best for them and telling them why it’s best.
That’s a pretty baseless criticism. I haven’t told anyone what’s best. I merely constructed a reasoned argument why I thought legs together might prove more popular. At the time of my original post, few if any women had posted their view and the thread looked pretty unpromising. I doubted if any would actually respond to OP. So, I offered my argument with the understanding that we might not get responses from women, in which case, I was perfectly within my rights to speculate as to which position might prove most popular. If you can find a phrase which suggests I am dictating to women they should close their legs, good luck! I wrote a speculative and observational piece, rather than a pontificating post. I am very interested in women’s responses to this question and am fascinated by their reasoning. Next time I’m in the middle of a shag I shall happily initiate a deep discussion on the competing merits of leg positioning during doggy and share this tgread with the lady in question!
Fair enough, still a shit post that made you look a bit of an idiot wasn’t it?"Really? If you think so, good for you! | |||
"Very interesting to know so many ladies like to part their legs for doggy. Of course, the lower her pussy is, the more the cock is angled and that often helps to keep mine at peak hardness so there is a benefit for both there. Do you think anyone’s noticed that you wrote a long post with 4 detailed reasons why it’s better for the woman’s legs to be closed only for all but one of the replies from woman to say they prefer them spread apart? Indeed - I have noticed if no-one else has lol!
Haha, OP calling it an ‘enlightening contribution’ was way off the mark as well haha.
I guess it’s always better to wait to hear what women have to say on the subject before deciding what’s best for them and telling them why it’s best.
That’s a pretty baseless criticism. I haven’t told anyone what’s best. I merely constructed a reasoned argument why I thought legs together might prove more popular. At the time of my original post, few if any women had posted their view and the thread looked pretty unpromising. I doubted if any would actually respond to OP. So, I offered my argument with the understanding that we might not get responses from women, in which case, I was perfectly within my rights to speculate as to which position might prove most popular. If you can find a phrase which suggests I am dictating to women they should close their legs, good luck! I wrote a speculative and observational piece, rather than a pontificating post. I am very interested in women’s responses to this question and am fascinated by their reasoning. Next time I’m in the middle of a shag I shall happily initiate a deep discussion on the competing merits of leg positioning during doggy and share this tgread with the lady in question!
Fair enough, still a shit post that made you look a bit of an idiot wasn’t it?
Really? If you think so, good for you! "Yes, I do think that, I don’t see how you can see it any other way. You’ve basically proven that you haven’t got a clue what women enjoy during sex because you obviously thought they enjoy having their legs closed rather than open. I’m not saying this is the case but it does come across as though you have no experience of having sex doggie style and you’re going by what you’ve seen in videos you wank to. You say that if a woman has her legs closed when in the doggy position then she needs the man to hold onto her so she doesn’t fall over, do you really think women are too weak to hold themselves up on their knees and with 2 hands spread out in front of them? You finish it all off nicely by saying women keep their legs closed to display their weakness and vulnerability....do we seriously still live in an age where we consider women to be weak and vulnerable? You reference some painting from way back to reinforce your point and it sounds like your attitude towards women isn’t much different to that of Henry VIII, some of us have moved on since then and see women as equal. If the women would have all replied saying that they prefer their legs closed then I’d say their reason for preferring it would most probably be that that that’s what they enjoy and what feels best for them. I doubt any women would say they prefer it because they want to appear modest, feminine, weak and vulnerable. I didn’t say that you ‘told them what’s best’ I said you decided what’s best and told them why it’s best, which is exactly what you did. You said it’s the ‘norm’ for a woman to have her legs closed, well in my world the norm is what’s best, and you say ‘there are various reasons for this’ which sounds to me like you were pretty certain that what you were saying was fact. You’ve only started using words like ‘popular’, ‘speculate’ and ‘probably’ since I’ve picked you up on it, you were a lot more confident that everything you were saying was fact in your first post. I’ll finish by reiterating that you said that women close their legs to communicate their weakness and vulnerability just in case anyone missed it earlier. | |||
"Very interesting to know so many ladies like to part their legs for doggy. Of course, the lower her pussy is, the more the cock is angled and that often helps to keep mine at peak hardness so there is a benefit for both there. Do you think anyone’s noticed that you wrote a long post with 4 detailed reasons why it’s better for the woman’s legs to be closed only for all but one of the replies from woman to say they prefer them spread apart? Indeed - I have noticed if no-one else has lol!
Haha, OP calling it an ‘enlightening contribution’ was way off the mark as well haha.
I guess it’s always better to wait to hear what women have to say on the subject before deciding what’s best for them and telling them why it’s best.
That’s a pretty baseless criticism. I haven’t told anyone what’s best. I merely constructed a reasoned argument why I thought legs together might prove more popular. At the time of my original post, few if any women had posted their view and the thread looked pretty unpromising. I doubted if any would actually respond to OP. So, I offered my argument with the understanding that we might not get responses from women, in which case, I was perfectly within my rights to speculate as to which position might prove most popular. If you can find a phrase which suggests I am dictating to women they should close their legs, good luck! I wrote a speculative and observational piece, rather than a pontificating post. I am very interested in women’s responses to this question and am fascinated by their reasoning. Next time I’m in the middle of a shag I shall happily initiate a deep discussion on the competing merits of leg positioning during doggy and share this tgread with the lady in question!
Fair enough, still a shit post that made you look a bit of an idiot wasn’t it?
Really? If you think so, good for you!
Yes, I do think that, I don’t see how you can see it any other way. You’ve basically proven that you haven’t got a clue what women enjoy during sex because you obviously thought they enjoy having their legs closed rather than open. I’m not saying this is the case but it does come across as though you have no experience of having sex doggie style and you’re going by what you’ve seen in videos you wank to. You say that if a woman has her legs closed when in the doggy position then she needs the man to hold onto her so she doesn’t fall over, do you really think women are too weak to hold themselves up on their knees and with 2 hands spread out in front of them? You finish it all off nicely by saying women keep their legs closed to display their weakness and vulnerability....do we seriously still live in an age where we consider women to be weak and vulnerable? You reference some painting from way back to reinforce your point and it sounds like your attitude towards women isn’t much different to that of Henry VIII, some of us have moved on since then and see women as equal. If the women would have all replied saying that they prefer their legs closed then I’d say their reason for preferring it would most probably be that that that’s what they enjoy and what feels best for them. I doubt any women would say they prefer it because they want to appear modest, feminine, weak and vulnerable.
I didn’t say that you ‘told them what’s best’ I said you decided what’s best and told them why it’s best, which is exactly what you did. You said it’s the ‘norm’ for a woman to have her legs closed, well in my world the norm is what’s best, and you say ‘there are various reasons for this’ which sounds to me like you were pretty certain that what you were saying was fact. You’ve only started using words like ‘popular’, ‘speculate’ and ‘probably’ since I’ve picked you up on it, you were a lot more confident that everything you were saying was fact in your first post.
I’ll finish by reiterating that you said that women close their legs to communicate their weakness and vulnerability just in case anyone missed it earlier. "I’m impressed how much time you have to waste writing all that stuff! Cor, that was really important to you, wasn’t it! Wow!  | |||
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"Very interesting to know so many ladies like to part their legs for doggy. Of course, the lower her pussy is, the more the cock is angled and that often helps to keep mine at peak hardness so there is a benefit for both there. Do you think anyone’s noticed that you wrote a long post with 4 detailed reasons why it’s better for the woman’s legs to be closed only for all but one of the replies from woman to say they prefer them spread apart? Indeed - I have noticed if no-one else has lol!
Haha, OP calling it an ‘enlightening contribution’ was way off the mark as well haha.
I guess it’s always better to wait to hear what women have to say on the subject before deciding what’s best for them and telling them why it’s best.
That’s a pretty baseless criticism. I haven’t told anyone what’s best. I merely constructed a reasoned argument why I thought legs together might prove more popular. At the time of my original post, few if any women had posted their view and the thread looked pretty unpromising. I doubted if any would actually respond to OP. So, I offered my argument with the understanding that we might not get responses from women, in which case, I was perfectly within my rights to speculate as to which position might prove most popular. If you can find a phrase which suggests I am dictating to women they should close their legs, good luck! I wrote a speculative and observational piece, rather than a pontificating post. I am very interested in women’s responses to this question and am fascinated by their reasoning. Next time I’m in the middle of a shag I shall happily initiate a deep discussion on the competing merits of leg positioning during doggy and share this tgread with the lady in question!
Fair enough, still a shit post that made you look a bit of an idiot wasn’t it?
Really? If you think so, good for you!
Yes, I do think that, I don’t see how you can see it any other way. You’ve basically proven that you haven’t got a clue what women enjoy during sex because you obviously thought they enjoy having their legs closed rather than open. I’m not saying this is the case but it does come across as though you have no experience of having sex doggie style and you’re going by what you’ve seen in videos you wank to. You say that if a woman has her legs closed when in the doggy position then she needs the man to hold onto her so she doesn’t fall over, do you really think women are too weak to hold themselves up on their knees and with 2 hands spread out in front of them? You finish it all off nicely by saying women keep their legs closed to display their weakness and vulnerability....do we seriously still live in an age where we consider women to be weak and vulnerable? You reference some painting from way back to reinforce your point and it sounds like your attitude towards women isn’t much different to that of Henry VIII, some of us have moved on since then and see women as equal. If the women would have all replied saying that they prefer their legs closed then I’d say their reason for preferring it would most probably be that that that’s what they enjoy and what feels best for them. I doubt any women would say they prefer it because they want to appear modest, feminine, weak and vulnerable.
I didn’t say that you ‘told them what’s best’ I said you decided what’s best and told them why it’s best, which is exactly what you did. You said it’s the ‘norm’ for a woman to have her legs closed, well in my world the norm is what’s best, and you say ‘there are various reasons for this’ which sounds to me like you were pretty certain that what you were saying was fact. You’ve only started using words like ‘popular’, ‘speculate’ and ‘probably’ since I’ve picked you up on it, you were a lot more confident that everything you were saying was fact in your first post.
I’ll finish by reiterating that you said that women close their legs to communicate their weakness and vulnerability just in case anyone missed it earlier.
I’m impressed how much time you have to waste writing all that stuff! Cor, that was really important to you, wasn’t it! Wow! "So, you’ve resorted to sarcasm because you don’t have anything worthwhile to reply with. I wrote that at about 3 in the morning so I didn’t really have anything better to do and yes, calling out someone who called women weak and vulnerable is important to me, I’m not going to apologise for that. | |||
"Very interesting to know so many ladies like to part their legs for doggy. Of course, the lower her pussy is, the more the cock is angled and that often helps to keep mine at peak hardness so there is a benefit for both there. Do you think anyone’s noticed that you wrote a long post with 4 detailed reasons why it’s better for the woman’s legs to be closed only for all but one of the replies from woman to say they prefer them spread apart? Indeed - I have noticed if no-one else has lol!
Haha, OP calling it an ‘enlightening contribution’ was way off the mark as well haha.
I guess it’s always better to wait to hear what women have to say on the subject before deciding what’s best for them and telling them why it’s best.
That’s a pretty baseless criticism. I haven’t told anyone what’s best. I merely constructed a reasoned argument why I thought legs together might prove more popular. At the time of my original post, few if any women had posted their view and the thread looked pretty unpromising. I doubted if any would actually respond to OP. So, I offered my argument with the understanding that we might not get responses from women, in which case, I was perfectly within my rights to speculate as to which position might prove most popular. If you can find a phrase which suggests I am dictating to women they should close their legs, good luck! I wrote a speculative and observational piece, rather than a pontificating post. I am very interested in women’s responses to this question and am fascinated by their reasoning. Next time I’m in the middle of a shag I shall happily initiate a deep discussion on the competing merits of leg positioning during doggy and share this tgread with the lady in question!
Fair enough, still a shit post that made you look a bit of an idiot wasn’t it?
Really? If you think so, good for you!
Yes, I do think that, I don’t see how you can see it any other way. You’ve basically proven that you haven’t got a clue what women enjoy during sex because you obviously thought they enjoy having their legs closed rather than open. I’m not saying this is the case but it does come across as though you have no experience of having sex doggie style and you’re going by what you’ve seen in videos you wank to. You say that if a woman has her legs closed when in the doggy position then she needs the man to hold onto her so she doesn’t fall over, do you really think women are too weak to hold themselves up on their knees and with 2 hands spread out in front of them? You finish it all off nicely by saying women keep their legs closed to display their weakness and vulnerability....do we seriously still live in an age where we consider women to be weak and vulnerable? You reference some painting from way back to reinforce your point and it sounds like your attitude towards women isn’t much different to that of Henry VIII, some of us have moved on since then and see women as equal. If the women would have all replied saying that they prefer their legs closed then I’d say their reason for preferring it would most probably be that that that’s what they enjoy and what feels best for them. I doubt any women would say they prefer it because they want to appear modest, feminine, weak and vulnerable.
I didn’t say that you ‘told them what’s best’ I said you decided what’s best and told them why it’s best, which is exactly what you did. You said it’s the ‘norm’ for a woman to have her legs closed, well in my world the norm is what’s best, and you say ‘there are various reasons for this’ which sounds to me like you were pretty certain that what you were saying was fact. You’ve only started using words like ‘popular’, ‘speculate’ and ‘probably’ since I’ve picked you up on it, you were a lot more confident that everything you were saying was fact in your first post.
I’ll finish by reiterating that you said that women close their legs to communicate their weakness and vulnerability just in case anyone missed it earlier.
I’m impressed how much time you have to waste writing all that stuff! Cor, that was really important to you, wasn’t it! Wow!
So, you’ve resorted to sarcasm because you don’t have anything worthwhile to reply with. I wrote that at about 3 in the morning so I didn’t really have anything better to do and yes, calling out someone who called women weak and vulnerable is important to me, I’m not going to apologise for that. "WTF! Have you actually bothered reading what I wrote or are you just galloping around on your high horse with a swarm of bees in your bonnet for nothing! Or are you just trolling for some kind of weird kick!! Heavens sake, give it a ruddy rest mate! Have you nothing better to do!!!! And Merry Christmas to you too! Grief! | |||
