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over a year ago
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Good idea or not? Looking at fmf and I have a friend where we’ve all been chatting. It’s on her bucket list to do. It’s something we want to try. But is it a dangerous game involving a friend.
In a way I feel like at least I get in well with her, she knows me inside out and we always have a good laugh. I’m comfortable talking to her about everything. I don’t wanna risk our friendship though. I don’t think it would but I guess there’s always a chance.
We’ve done the whole group chat teasing him and he’s loved it so if we get on as well in person as we do in the chat we’ll have a really fun time. I think.
Anyone done this? Good/bad experience? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once you've crossed that line, you can't go back. I think I'd rather have a good friend and keep my swinging life separate after all it would be a shame to ruin a good friendship over sex |
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Never done it but you're the only people who can know if it's a good idea.
What happens if one of you wants to do it long term and the other doesn't or one of you finds it causes them to feel things they hadn't expected? Have you talked about how you'd handle that? |
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We have had threesomes with friends 3 times
...every time was great at the time and really awkward afterwards. (In 2 of 3 cases there was a pre-existing crush, or sexual tension between 2 paries)
...two are still friends.
On balance, not really worked for us. |
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Its better if they are in a relationship so that they keep the secret.
I remeber when was with my ex and a mate came round for drinks, my gf came downstairs in miniskirt, fishnet hold ups and see through top |
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Happened to my ex-partner when she was single. She had a very d*unken threesome with some old friends and regretted it. He took it as a green light to start trying it on with her behind his wife’s back after the initial threesome. Luckily they moved away shortly after. |
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