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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We just wanted a rant. Refusal to send face pics.. why?!?? If you’re on a site like this and you get spotted by someone you know, then guess what? They’re on here too. Do people really think that people will go into work yelling “YOU’RE ON A SWINGERS SITE” at you?!? And do you think you’ll lose your job or lose contracts because you’re on here? Give your heads a wobble!! |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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It’s entirely down to personal choice though, isn’t it? We send face pics with a first message to avoid wasting anyone’s time, but plenty of equally genuine people will never send a face pic on here at any point, for a number of entirely valid reasons, which is their prerogative.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We just wanted a rant. Refusal to send face pics.. why?!?? If you’re on a site like this and you get spotted by someone you know, then guess what? They’re on here too. Do people really think that people will go into work yelling “YOU’RE ON A SWINGERS SITE” at you?!? And do you think you’ll lose your job or lose contracts because you’re on here? Give your heads a wobble!!"
I guess in some jobs it could be frowned upon .
After all us British are not that forthcoming in some departments .  |
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"It’s entirely down to personal choice though, isn’t it? We send face pics with a first message to avoid wasting anyone’s time, but plenty of equally genuine people will never send a face pic on here at any point, for a number of entirely valid reasons, which is their prerogative."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We just wanted a rant. Refusal to send face pics.. why?!?? If you’re on a site like this and you get spotted by someone you know, then guess what? They’re on here too. Do people really think that people will go into work yelling “YOU’RE ON A SWINGERS SITE” at you?!? And do you think you’ll lose your job or lose contracts because you’re on here? Give your heads a wobble!!"
I absolutely would lose my job, plus I really don’t want my kids finding out I’m on here.
I’ve heard more than one story about people being bl*ckm*iled on here.
Everyone can run their profile as they wish. |
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"We just wanted a rant. Refusal to send face pics.. why?!?? If you’re on a site like this and you get spotted by someone you know, then guess what? They’re on here too. Do people really think that people will go into work yelling “YOU’RE ON A SWINGERS SITE” at you?!? And do you think you’ll lose your job or lose contracts because you’re on here? Give your heads a wobble!!"
I would rather have someone’s identity than a nude it’s my prerogative and I want the same in return of the user comments on my appearance and if someone wants to keep their identity private then we aren’t suited anyway xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both ours are on here, we don't care if people recognise us, I have had a few messages on Facebook from people telling me they saw our profile but I'm not bothered and there's no chance we will meet them for anything, hubby hates one of them anyway so it's a definite no no lol |
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Are you saying that if you were to message someone, including a face picture, and they decide they aren't attracted to you so reply saying such but don't include a picture, that that's rude?
And yes plenty of people can, and have, lost jobs because they've been recognised on here. Just because it's okay for you doesn't mean it's okay for everyone.
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
abruzzo Italy (and UK) |
I normally send a face pic with a first message, I don’t really have anything to lose anyway, but just out of curiosity, how does anyone agree to a meet with someone if they haven’t seen their face first?? |
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"We just wanted a rant. Refusal to send face pics.. why?!?? If you’re on a site like this and you get spotted by someone you know, then guess what? They’re on here too. Do people really think that people will go into work yelling “YOU’RE ON A SWINGERS SITE” at you?!? And do you think you’ll lose your job or lose contracts because you’re on here? Give your heads a wobble!!"
That shouting your on a swingers site made me lol! A young lad 21 at work messaged me few months back saying he seen me at work I only vaguely seen him as it's a big place and we different dept! I was dreading he would do just that! But it's cool we just blank each other! I declined his offer to meet so alls cool! X |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
I don't show my face publicly. Been there once and it ended badly so I'm not going there again but I show it on friends album and I do send a pic of my face when I message someone. I don't think I have encounters where someone would approach me to say they recognise me from somewhere. Not sure I would know what to say to that. Even if someone did, I'm sure they would choose the right timing to say something than oppose to say, in front of someone like customer service desk lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally we choice not too & if that's an issue pass on by. I've has a bad experience before and I like to be decrete that's our choice. We do have them on our faces though.
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Not everyone is happy to have a face pic up for anyone to see anyone could set up a profile out of curiosity and checkout locally people.
Some people are happy to put face pics up bug plenty of people like to keep their fab life private.
I personally have face pics for my friends list but I don’t add many friends just people I have chatted to and I’m happy with who they are. |
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By *ackal1Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
We send face pics direct but never keep them on our profile in private or otherwise.
When Ashley Maddison was hacked I (Patrick) had just taken my pics down and realised I’d dodged a bullet.
I’m not suggesting I’m too worried about being found out today as my wife is on here with me but some people who do want to keep this secret need to be sensible about it.
We all have our reasons. |
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"We don’t mean have them public. We mean those who won’t even show them privately. You don’t order food without seeing the menu."
ah I read it wrong so, agreed you definitely want to see what your getting
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"I normally send a face pic with a first message, I don’t really have anything to lose anyway, but just out of curiosity, how does anyone agree to a meet with someone if they haven’t seen their face first??"
Very few people are actually ugly!
If they look good in their other pics, I'm pretty sure they'll be okay facially. I'd prefer to see face pics before a meet, but I have to admit, if someone is smoking hot in their other pics and won't send a face pic, I'd probably take a chance!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would never have face pictures in the public part but we have one in the private section to send to people we want to meet. I have seen someone on here I work with and never mentioned it too her but some people can act very silly and make you feel very uncomfortable because they have seen you on here. We both have jobs where being on this site could cause us to lose our jobs. But each to there own. |
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"We just wanted a rant. Refusal to send face pics.. why?!?? If you’re on a site like this and you get spotted by someone you know, then guess what? They’re on here too. Do people really think that people will go into work yelling “YOU’RE ON A SWINGERS SITE” at you?!? And do you think you’ll lose your job or lose contracts because you’re on here? Give your heads a wobble!!
I absolutely would lose my job, plus I really don’t want my kids finding out I’m on here.
I’ve heard more than one story about people being bl*ckm*iled on here.
Everyone can run their profile as they wish."
This - absolutely this
Public service roles & jobs are not supportive of this lifestyle. So yes we can lose our jobs & those that don't believe that obviously don't work in our kind of jobs
My son is on here & I don't think he needs to come across our profile. And yes we blocked him. Fair play to the lad but we don't need to have anyone making connections between us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don’t mean have them public. We mean those who won’t even show them privately. You don’t order food without seeing the menu."
You're just not compatible. Maybe they know you but they don't want you to know who they are.
Think of it as a good thing - no time wasted.  |
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One of the reasons nobody takes part in facepic Friday threads in the Irish forums anymore is because of the amount of facepics that have been shared in external chatgroups by both men and women.
If I have a choice between having my pic shared with random strangers or listening to your rant, I'll take the latter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rather narrow minded to think you know all the reasons people won't send pics and calling them invalid.
May be better moving on to those that your preferences do match with than ranting about it. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
We only show face pics when we are chatting to someone and we are looking to meet, don’t see the point of throwing them out there to everyone, we can only imagine all the messages people get that do plus we have heard a few people have been bl*ckm*iled, not everyone wants their employer, work colleagues and family knowing there on here especially so if your a couple as it seems more frowned upon by vanilla people than singles on here as they say couples shouldn’t be having sex with others  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We don’t mean have them public. We mean those who won’t even show them privately. You don’t order food without seeing the menu.
You're just not compatible. Maybe they know you but they don't want you to know who they are.
Think of it as a good thing - no time wasted. "
The amount of people who have said “we don’t show faces due to our jobs” is silly.
It’s a swinging site. You’ve got your tits and cock on show and go to clubs where you could bump into your sister or your boss, but won’t send privately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don’t mean have them public. We mean those who won’t even show them privately. You don’t order food without seeing the menu.
You're just not compatible. Maybe they know you but they don't want you to know who they are.
Think of it as a good thing - no time wasted.
The amount of people who have said “we don’t show faces due to our jobs” is silly.
It’s a swinging site. You’ve got your tits and cock on show and go to clubs where you could bump into your sister or your boss, but won’t send privately. "
I don’t know what is silly about it? If someone doesn’t want to show their face to stranger, which they have no idea what could happen to that after its sent. I’d say it’s pretty sensible of them especially if you have parts on show you don’t want repercussions of B-Mail. Like others have said above some could lose their jobs if found on here…
I don’t think you can compare it to going to a club like you have because if you see someone you know there, then they are also in the same boat. It would just be one of those awkward moments. It’s just how you handle it & respect it and move on.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have no problem showing our faces but only after a few messages, there are some absolute nutters on the Internet so I think a little anonymity is a good thing. |
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"We don’t mean have them public. We mean those who won’t even show them privately. You don’t order food without seeing the menu.
You're just not compatible. Maybe they know you but they don't want you to know who they are.
Think of it as a good thing - no time wasted.
The amount of people who have said “we don’t show faces due to our jobs” is silly.
It’s a swinging site. You’ve got your tits and cock on show and go to clubs where you could bump into your sister or your boss, but won’t send privately. "
If my boss can recognise me from my cock then I think I need to start looking for a new job anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to us its simple if you message us them you show your face pic first if we message you then we will send ours ..
but there has to be a interest at least we never send our face pics out nilly willy like alot expect |
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"We just wanted a rant. Refusal to send face pics.. why?!?? If you’re on a site like this and you get spotted by someone you know, then guess what? They’re on here too. Do people really think that people will go into work yelling “YOU’RE ON A SWINGERS SITE” at you?!? And do you think you’ll lose your job or lose contracts because you’re on here? Give your heads a wobble!!"
Think you should keep your rants to yourself play how you want but let others play there way. |
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"We just wanted a rant. Refusal to send face pics.. why?!?? If you’re on a site like this and you get spotted by someone you know, then guess what? They’re on here too. Do people really think that people will go into work yelling “YOU’RE ON A SWINGERS SITE” at you?!? And do you think you’ll lose your job or lose contracts because you’re on here? Give your heads a wobble!!
I would rather have someone’s identity than a nude it’s my prerogative and I want the same in return of the user comments on my appearance and if someone wants to keep their identity private then we aren’t suited anyway xx"
If someone I knew recognised me then I wouldn’t care, I’ve a life and it’s nobody’s concern who i wanna be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It comes down to how comfortable people are. I won't send a face picture straight away or if others demand it. I like to see if the conversation flows for a little bit first. If either party isn't interested then I don't see the point sending face pictures. |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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"We don’t mean have them public. We mean those who won’t even show them privately. You don’t order food without seeing the menu."
But most menu is just words and not the picture. Most of the time, what I ordered isn't how I imagining it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don’t mean have them public. We mean those who won’t even show them privately. You don’t order food without seeing the menu.
You're just not compatible. Maybe they know you but they don't want you to know who they are.
Think of it as a good thing - no time wasted.
The amount of people who have said “we don’t show faces due to our jobs” is silly.
It’s a swinging site. You’ve got your tits and cock on show and go to clubs where you could bump into your sister or your boss, but won’t send privately.
If my boss can recognise me from my cock then I think I need to start looking for a new job anyway "
This made me laugh, but it’s also true.
Someone could recognise me from a face pic and out me, which is different to running into someone in a club, when you are both there for the same thing. |
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It's up to each individual how they run they're profiles but, we wouldn't meet anyone who won't share a face pic.
As long as they realise it will cut the chance of them meeting down,thats the risk they take.
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"If someone’s going to judge me purely on what my face looks like them I’m not that interested in chatting with them to be honest. "
Get what u mean to a degree! I chat to anyone but I like to c who I'm chatting with tbh and deffo to meet someone shallow I expect but it is what it is x |
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"It’s entirely down to personal choice though, isn’t it? We send face pics with a first message to avoid wasting anyone’s time, but plenty of equally genuine people will never send a face pic on here at any point, for a number of entirely valid reasons, which is their prerogative.
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But surely they must realise that when they are on a site like this that folk are not just going to agree to a meet without know qhat they look like. |
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"It’s entirely down to personal choice though, isn’t it? We send face pics with a first message to avoid wasting anyone’s time, but plenty of equally genuine people will never send a face pic on here at any point, for a number of entirely valid reasons, which is their prerogative.
But surely they must realise that when they are on a site like this that folk are not just going to agree to a meet without know qhat they look like."
Definitely, but if they accept that, it’s their prerogative I guess. Perhaps some members have so many options that they can afford to lose most. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We got messaged by a couple, who then asked for a face pic which we sent, then got told one of them recognised one of us so was too close to home and that was it.
No hard feelings but thought it’s a little odd. If you ask for a face pic surely you should accept that you should send one back. If you know each other or there is no chemistry that’s fine, but seems only right to even things up a bit.
Each to their own I guess but meh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don’t mean have them public. We mean those who won’t even show them privately. You don’t order food without seeing the menu.
You're just not compatible. Maybe they know you but they don't want you to know who they are.
Think of it as a good thing - no time wasted.
The amount of people who have said “we don’t show faces due to our jobs” is silly.
It’s a swinging site. You’ve got your tits and cock on show and go to clubs where you could bump into your sister or your boss, but won’t send privately. "
So......vicars, youth workers, teachers, teaching assistants, prison staff, police etc.
There are a raft of jobs that would consider this 'bringing the company/service/whatever into disrepute.
Yes it's shit. But it does happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We don’t mean have them public. We mean those who won’t even show them privately. You don’t order food without seeing the menu.
You're just not compatible. Maybe they know you but they don't want you to know who they are.
Think of it as a good thing - no time wasted.
The amount of people who have said “we don’t show faces due to our jobs” is silly.
It’s a swinging site. You’ve got your tits and cock on show and go to clubs where you could bump into your sister or your boss, but won’t send privately.
So......vicars, youth workers, teachers, teaching assistants, prison staff, police etc.
There are a raft of jobs that would consider this 'bringing the company/service/whatever into disrepute.
Yes it's shit. But it does happen. "
And also some people think it's funny to tell everyone that they've seen X on a sex site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d always send one in first messages that’s it. It might be a “swingers site” but you’ll still get some weirdos trying to cause trouble. I’ll comfortable talking about my private side with people of similar interests but my private life is exactly that private |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"It’s entirely down to personal choice though, isn’t it? We send face pics with a first message to avoid wasting anyone’s time, but plenty of equally genuine people will never send a face pic on here at any point, for a number of entirely valid reasons, which is their prerogative.
But surely they must realise that when they are on a site like this that folk are not just going to agree to a meet without know qhat they look like."
You say that, but plenty of people will agree to meets here without seeing the other person or people.
Not for us, but people use Fab how it suits them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ll send if someone asks, I have zero problem with that.
But I know there are some asshats around that aren’t on here to get involved. They’re in here to cause trouble for people.  |
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over a year ago
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"We just wanted a rant. Refusal to send face pics.. why?!?? If you’re on a site like this and you get spotted by someone you know, then guess what? They’re on here too. Do people really think that people will go into work yelling “YOU’RE ON A SWINGERS SITE” at you?!? And do you think you’ll lose your job or lose contracts because you’re on here? Give your heads a wobble!!"
i dont send face pics ever and ill tell u why. I sent a woman a few face pics a few years ago. After meeting she wasnt what i was looking for and i told her this she went nuts. Within the hour i had profiles on here as a gay guy on face book insta with my real name all with my face and saying i was looking for men. Im bi and im not out and i want to keep it that way. So no i wont ever send face pics again. If that means i wont get as many meets than thats fine. Ill do a social meet no probs but no face pics from me.
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over a year ago
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"We got messaged by a couple, who then asked for a face pic which we sent, then got told one of them recognised one of us so was too close to home and that was it.
No hard feelings but thought it’s a little odd. If you ask for a face pic surely you should accept that you should send one back. If you know each other or there is no chemistry that’s fine, but seems only right to even things up a bit.
Each to their own I guess but meh?"
If I’m not interested, I won’t send a face pic back. I don’t have to, and nobody should do anything they don’t want to on here. |
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"We got messaged by a couple, who then asked for a face pic which we sent, then got told one of them recognised one of us so was too close to home and that was it.
No hard feelings but thought it’s a little odd. If you ask for a face pic surely you should accept that you should send one back. If you know each other or there is no chemistry that’s fine, but seems only right to even things up a bit.
Each to their own I guess but meh?
If I’m not interested, I won’t send a face pic back. I don’t have to, and nobody should do anything they don’t want to on here."
I agree but if you ask for one first surely you have to be prepared to send one. The rule of thumb should always be whoever asks sends first. |
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"We got messaged by a couple, who then asked for a face pic which we sent, then got told one of them recognised one of us so was too close to home and that was it.
No hard feelings but thought it’s a little odd. If you ask for a face pic surely you should accept that you should send one back. If you know each other or there is no chemistry that’s fine, but seems only right to even things up a bit.
Each to their own I guess but meh?
If I’m not interested, I won’t send a face pic back. I don’t have to, and nobody should do anything they don’t want to on here.
I agree but if you ask for one first surely you have to be prepared to send one. The rule of thumb should always be whoever asks sends first. "
It should be, but I made up my own rules, I’m owning it though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s entirely down to personal choice though, isn’t it? We send face pics with a first message to avoid wasting anyone’s time, but plenty of equally genuine people will never send a face pic on here at any point, for a number of entirely valid reasons, which is their prerogative.
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This!
Ours says on our profile we don't send, there's different reasons for different people ie; family, religions and more etc...
If people don't like it move on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We got messaged by a couple, who then asked for a face pic which we sent, then got told one of them recognised one of us so was too close to home and that was it.
No hard feelings but thought it’s a little odd. If you ask for a face pic surely you should accept that you should send one back. If you know each other or there is no chemistry that’s fine, but seems only right to even things up a bit.
Each to their own I guess but meh?
If I’m not interested, I won’t send a face pic back. I don’t have to, and nobody should do anything they don’t want to on here."
Yeah I get that and accept it but still Meh? Sharing a face pic when we all have private lives is just a bit more decent in our opinion. Nothing to be done about it. Just think it’s a little off personally. |
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"We got messaged by a couple, who then asked for a face pic which we sent, then got told one of them recognised one of us so was too close to home and that was it.
No hard feelings but thought it’s a little odd. If you ask for a face pic surely you should accept that you should send one back. If you know each other or there is no chemistry that’s fine, but seems only right to even things up a bit.
Each to their own I guess but meh?
If I’m not interested, I won’t send a face pic back. I don’t have to, and nobody should do anything they don’t want to on here.
Yeah I get that and accept it but still Meh? Sharing a face pic when we all have private lives is just a bit more decent in our opinion. Nothing to be done about it. Just think it’s a little off personally. "
Why? What makes it decent? It seems a bit people please-y to me, I’m not going to do something to make someone else happy. It’s my face pic to share, or not, as I choose. |
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"We got messaged by a couple, who then asked for a face pic which we sent, then got told one of them recognised one of us so was too close to home and that was it.
No hard feelings but thought it’s a little odd. If you ask for a face pic surely you should accept that you should send one back. If you know each other or there is no chemistry that’s fine, but seems only right to even things up a bit.
Each to their own I guess but meh?
If I’m not interested, I won’t send a face pic back. I don’t have to, and nobody should do anything they don’t want to on here.
Yeah I get that and accept it but still Meh? Sharing a face pic when we all have private lives is just a bit more decent in our opinion. Nothing to be done about it. Just think it’s a little off personally.
Why? What makes it decent? It seems a bit people please-y to me, I’m not going to do something to make someone else happy. It’s my face pic to share, or not, as I choose."
Yeah each to their own I guess. But if we were asking for someone’s face pic I think it’s the decent thing to do to send one in return. You not feeling that way is up to you of course. We just find that a bit odd. But nothing can be done about it so…. Meh |
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over a year ago
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"We just wanted a rant. Refusal to send face pics.. why?!?? If you’re on a site like this and you get spotted by someone you know, then guess what? They’re on here too. Do people really think that people will go into work yelling “YOU’RE ON A SWINGERS SITE” at you?!? And do you think you’ll lose your job or lose contracts because you’re on here? Give your heads a wobble!!
I absolutely would lose my job, plus I really don’t want my kids finding out I’m on here.
I’ve heard more than one story about people being bl*ckm*iled on here.
Everyone can run their profile as they wish.
This - absolutely this
Public service roles & jobs are not supportive of this lifestyle. So yes we can lose our jobs & those that don't believe that obviously don't work in our kind of jobs
My son is on here & I don't think he needs to come across our profile. And yes we blocked him. Fair play to the lad but we don't need to have anyone making connections between us "
Totally agree with reply. I could lose my professional licence over it. Do you remember the NI minister caught in cupids many years ago |
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over a year ago
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Devils advocate here (as per usual)
It's a little uncomfortable to be outed at work, whilst work head is in motion.
I don't like mixing the two at the best of times and those at work, can mind their own business - but saying that, I have been in an uncomfortable situation from a colleague who spotted me without a face pic 
Still I send them in a message but only just before meeting. If that doesn't suit the one I'm talking to, then that's their choice. |
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