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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Joining a couple for their first threesome especially a bi threesome - big responsibility or not?
My first ffm threesome was mildly awkward. They were super lovely, but i just could not get over my nerves, what to do or say. Now, having been a part of the swinging world for a few years, meeting couples feels more natural.
Also it was me as a single newbie, joining an ‘experienced’ couple. Roles reversed, is it harder? I suppose there needs to communication, and making sure everyone is happy and comfortable. What say you good people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first (and only, so far) 3some was with an older couple , this was about 15 years ago. I was quite nervous as i was unsure of the dynamics being with someone else's wife while the husband was there watching and participating. Thankfully they were super friendly, the husband also like to lead so it was less awkward after a while. Had a great time. |
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Our first was a ffm and Mrs only met her that night for a few drinks. Hadn’t planned for it to go any further.
We already discussed what we were looking for so that helped keep things going smoothly. |
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Our first mff was a it awkward just because it was the 1st time. The 2nd was perfect. Mrs and the 'other' woman were chatting in the lounge - which was a turn on in itself. Then into the bedroom and they started kissing and it was like they had known each other for years. They were complimenting each other on their figures, how they were tuning each other on etc so communication was great throughout. I joined in and it was all seamless and just an amazing expertise. I guess think less and just go with the flow! Hope that helps and wishing you the best time xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ahhhhhh such fond memories of my first mff...NOT! We met without much chatting/socialising. We all felt awkward,nervous and tense,and in hindsight I should have walked away but at the time felt obliged to try. It was a first for all of us,we didn't really know what we were doing,spent too much time faffing with positions etc and it wasn't that great.
Sometimes the reality doesn't live up to the fantasy 
About a month later we all bumped into each other on a night out, got drinks together and had a giggle over how aweful it was 
We danced/drank and had a good time...then went back to a hotel and literally fucked all night. It was a much more natural, fluid and relaxed experience which we all enjoyed very VERY much 
Taught me to only meet after a bit of socialising/chatting and banter, forced nervous sex is shit sex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our 1st threesome was totally unexpected . But what a experience I never thought I would go through with hubbies fantasy. But everything fell into place and opened a new world for us both. I would say it's brought us even closer together  |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
Our first FFM was with a woman from Fab who was much more experienced than us…not hard really as it was our first meet together! But we weren’t nervous, it was something we both wanted and had discussed, and we had an amazing time. Probably helped that we didn’t have time to over think it either, we put a meet up on here and met the woman who contacted us a couple of days later.
The story of that first meet is on here, there’s a link at the end of our profile. What a night we had!  |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Joining a couple for their first threesome especially a bi threesome - big responsibility or not?
My first ffm threesome was mildly awkward. They were super lovely, but i just could not get over my nerves, what to do or say. Now, having been a part of the swinging world for a few years, meeting couples feels more natural.
Also it was me as a single newbie, joining an ‘experienced’ couple. Roles reversed, is it harder? I suppose there needs to communication, and making sure everyone is happy and comfortable. What say you good people? "
Don’t think you got any advice here, just people’s firsts!
Don’t think it should be any harder with the roles reversed, and there’s no need to assume the other couple will be nervous as you were yourself the first time, but being aware of it as a possibility is sensible preparation. If you are prepared to take the lead it’s helpful, but it may not be needed or wanted either.
Hope you all have a brilliant time! |
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Our first ffm was slightly awkward in the sense that it was all parties firsts. It was nice in a way as we were learning together but there was a lot of checking in to make sure we were all OK with each step as sometimes fantasy can be different to reality. This slowed the flow a little but in some ways it was nice as it was a slow pace and we weren't bull dozed or felt we were holding anyone up.
We have now had a few and good communication in advance usually means it flows a lot easier but that Is also because we truly know our own boundaries now vs learning our way.
For us, being with more experienced would have been a bit intimidating because we would have felt slow. On the counter, we would now happily be with a woman whether experienced or not as we have been new. |
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Unfortunately, I've not yet had the pleasure of 'breaking in' a newbie couple - although I've had approaches from a number of first-timers over the years, none have led to an actual meet...
....the pandemic put paid to the most recent prospect - plans originally made for last year had to be postponed to this, but subsequently got cancelled due to a change in their circumstances...
....and sadly for me, at least, someone else has since had privilege of being the wife's first 'other' man... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My one and only time was great. It was basically a trap sprung by a bi fem couple (I think that's right). I was in bed with one of them, and the other 'accidentally' walked in on us in the throes and joined in. I became pretty much their plaything for about 6 months before my course was over. They were both a bit older than me, and taught me a lot about a womans body. |
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Our first threesome was with a close female friend of both of us.
It was unplanned and just happened. It was great at the time...but awkward afterwards.
The awkwardness wasnt helped by the fact that Mr and the friend had an obvious mutual crush at the time. |
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"Wow…that sounds like a bit of a recipe for potential disaster. Hope it all worked out."
All worked out fine thanks..more than 2 decades later and we're still mates (and the mutual crush is in impact distant past) |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Wow…that sounds like a bit of a recipe for potential disaster. Hope it all worked out.
All worked out fine thanks..more than 2 decades later and we're still mates (and the mutual crush is in impact distant past)"
A lot of water under the bridge! |
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Ours was with an experienced girlfriend of Mrs Lux who came round one evening and after way to much wine seduced her before Mr Lux’s eyes. It was actually our first swinging experience. Her boyfriend was also a friend of Mr Lux. We never knew if they discussed it but we suspect they probably did. |
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My first 3sum wasn't planed or spoken about it was spontaneous I think that helped with nerves as well with my ex and a female friend of ours and maybe a few drinks as well lol our first mfm was the same as our ffm I think if it was spoke about or arranged might have made us anxious |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Wife wanted to be with another woman.
Happened at a club with me semi involved.
The dungeon kind of attracted other ladies in to play.
Lead to a Mfff.
After that fMf came very relaxed and easy and fantastic fun.
Also helps my wife is bubbly and great fun, oh and stunning looking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Joining a couple for their first threesome especially a bi threesome - big responsibility or not?
My first ffm threesome was mildly awkward. They were super lovely, but i just could not get over my nerves, what to do or say. Now, having been a part of the swinging world for a few years, meeting couples feels more natural.
Also it was me as a single newbie, joining an ‘experienced’ couple. Roles reversed, is it harder? I suppose there needs to communication, and making sure everyone is happy and comfortable. What say you good people? "
I think it's a big responsibility on them. Newbie couples often haven't thought it through and one or both can get jealous during the sex.
We met newbie men as an experienced couple. I think it mostly went ok and they had some fun. We are told we're good at putting people at ease. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My first (and only!) ffm was just before Covid. Us females were extremely nervous so sent the guy out for a bit so we could relax together. Turned out absolutely great. I definitely enjoyed |
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My wife and I were asked by a female friend to fuck in front of her as she was curious. We went to her house where my wife dressed in basque, hold ups and heels.
We went up to her bedroom and left the door open, and we started to play. It wasn’t long before our friend was standing at the door watching, in her underwear wanking herself off.
Eventually she sat next to us and started to play with my wife’s nipples as I fucked her and then she gradually joined in.
This led to us playing with her and her husband for a number of years, and with multiple other couples. Happy days! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mine was with my first wife (both of being Bi) and when we joined another site to meet up we had a meet on same day MMF - the ex watched and was playing, then we had a MFF meet the following day, with me say watching - an unbelievable first experience , but ones that are etched in my memory
J xx |
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