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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi why do a lot of couples use catch out questions on the end of thier profiles and make them so hard to meet?
Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!"
or you could look at it another way.....
if a profile is too long, and you can't be bothered to read it all, then you are probably not what they are looking for, and they are probably not for you either... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi why do a lot of couples use catch out questions on the end of thier profiles and make them so hard to meet?
Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!"
Because they only want to meet people that will spend an hour reading their profile.   |
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"Hi why do a lot of couples use catch out questions on the end of thier profiles and make them so hard to meet?
Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!"
Well you may not read the profiles because they are too long,but you can't speak for everyone else.
And if you haven't read all the profile then how do you know you are what they are looking for? This is why people have 'catch out' questions,for peoplewho can't be bothered to read a 'whole' profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi why do a lot of couples use catch out questions on the end of thier profiles and make them so hard to meet?
Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!"
For exactly that reason!
If they put them at the start - who would read all the important "This is what we enjoy/are looking for" information that is designed to stop those not meeting their needs from messaging!
It's exactly why they will probably not read, or read and delete without replying to, the majority of messages they get sent!
A good tool in fact!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi why do a lot of couples use catch out questions on the end of thier profiles and make them so hard to meet?
Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!
Because they only want to meet people that will spend an hour reading their profile. "
Yes thats it and you have to be a mastermind to work out what they want! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!
or you could look at it another way.....
if a profile is too long, and you can't be bothered to read it all, then you are probably not what they are looking for, and they are probably not for you either..."
Yeah timewasters!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi why do a lot of couples use catch out questions on the end of thier profiles and make them so hard to meet?
Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!
Well you may not read the profiles because they are too long,but you can't speak for everyone else.
And if you haven't read all the profile then how do you know you are what they are looking for? This is why people have 'catch out' questions,for peoplewho can't be bothered to read a 'whole' profile "
I understand that but they don't give you a chance they just block you straight away! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have long said that like attracts like. If the profiles are that long and tedious for you to read and they make you feel like needing to mastermind are you seriously going to want to meet them? So where's the problem? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi why do a lot of couples use catch out questions on the end of thier profiles and make them so hard to meet?
Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!
For exactly that reason!
If they put them at the start - who would read all the important "This is what we enjoy/are looking for" information that is designed to stop those not meeting their needs from messaging!
It's exactly why they will probably not read, or read and delete without replying to, the majority of messages they get sent!
A good tool in fact! "
Yes theres a lot of tools here! |
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"Hi why do a lot of couples use catch out questions on the end of thier profiles and make them so hard to meet?
Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!
Because they only want to meet people that will spend an hour reading their profile.
Yes thats it and you have to be a mastermind to work out what they want! "
No it doesn't take a mastermind to work it out,its usually stated quite clearly,but it also doesnt take a mastermind to work out that you do need to read all of it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You should read all of profile how will you know if you are what that are looking for,that's why we write a profile "
OK I understand that but maybe all profiles should have tick box answers lol! That way we would pass the exam!! |
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"Hi why do a lot of couples use catch out questions on the end of thier profiles and make them so hard to meet?
Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!
Well you may not read the profiles because they are too long,but you can't speak for everyone else.
And if you haven't read all the profile then how do you know you are what they are looking for? This is why people have 'catch out' questions,for peoplewho can't be bothered to read a 'whole' profile
I understand that but they don't give you a chance they just block you straight away!"
They are blocking you because they have sussed you haven't read the whole profile,why should you be given any chances if you can't even do that? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ooohhh someone mention timewaster! Hahaa im in my comfort zone at last lol "
Profiles are a waste of time! A fuck is a fuck and thats all you want sometimes!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have long said that like attracts like. If the profiles are that long and tedious for you to read and they make you feel like needing to mastermind are you seriously going to want to meet them? So where's the problem?"
No problem just pointing it out and try to block them before they block me lol  |
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If someone cant be bothered to read my profile, i assume they cant be bothered to get to know me before a meet, i would also (rightly or wrongly) that they are going to be crap in bed. Yes a lot of assumptions. But those assumptions could be changed with someone taking 5 minutes to read a profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooohhh someone mention timewaster! Hahaa im in my comfort zone at last lol
Profiles are a waste of time! A fuck is a fuck and thats all you want sometimes! "
well thats got me going |
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"Ooohhh someone mention timewaster! Hahaa im in my comfort zone at last lol
Profiles are a waste of time! A fuck is a fuck and thats all you want sometimes! "
I think you will find the majority of people will disagree, not everyone thinks like that, in fact i would say very few, especially females and couples. Even if some just want a fuck im guessing there still has to be an element of attraction.
Good luck, think your going to need it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooohhh someone mention timewaster! Hahaa im in my comfort zone at last lol
Profiles are a waste of time! A fuck is a fuck and thats all you want sometimes! "
yes in Neanderthal days i expect it once was..nowadays i would like a meal first! Lol |
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"Ooohhh someone mention timewaster! Hahaa im in my comfort zone at last lol
Profiles are a waste of time! A fuck is a fuck and thats all you want sometimes!
yes in Neanderthal days i expect it once was..nowadays i would like a meal first! Lol "
CAPTAIN CAAAAAAVVVVVEEEEEMMMMMAAAANNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a long profile, which is also full of stipulations. We do this because we are tired of being messaged by 'the wrong people'.
I agree that like finds like, and usually the ones who have read all our profile and then messaged us are indeed our kind of person.
Alas far too many people (in our experience it's single straight guys) don't bother to read all the way to the bottom of our profile and just skip to the pics. This is entirely why we've got a previso (sp?) in capitals as the first sentence on our profile. Not that it helps much really
The "a fuck is a fuck" comment warranted a block from us, as you clearly wouldn't care to read our profile and respect it either. Then you wonder why you keep getting blocked!!  |
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"If someone cant be bothered to read my profile, i assume they cant be bothered to get to know me before a meet, i would also (rightly or wrongly) that they are going to be crap in bed. Yes a lot of assumptions. But those assumptions could be changed with someone taking 5 minutes to read a profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have a long profile, which is also full of stipulations. We do this because we are tired of being messaged by 'the wrong people'.
I agree that like finds like, and usually the ones who have read all our profile and then messaged us are indeed our kind of person.
Alas far too many people (in our experience it's single straight guys) don't bother to read all the way to the bottom of our profile and just skip to the pics. "
In all honesty it's not just single blokes, we have them blocked but we get plenty of messages saying nice pics, I mean seriously if that is the most stimulating message you can muster there is no way we will reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fucking hope that like doesn't attract like... I'm an ugly fecker so am up shit creek if that's the case  "
you can join our group if you like? All uglies should stick together..lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profiles are a waste of time! A fuck is a fuck and thats all you want sometimes! "
Yeah hows that train of thought working for you in the meet situation on here?
Getting loads? |
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"Ooohhh someone mention timewaster! Hahaa im in my comfort zone at last lol
Profiles are a waste of time! A fuck is a fuck and thats all you want sometimes! "
Not everyone are here just for a quick fuck.
Some of us like to get to now a person, i am so lucky to have met 3 of the most amazing gentlemen off this site, all of whom have got to know me, making the sex brilliant.
Quick fucks with a random stranger is boring for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi why do a lot of couples use catch out questions on the end of thier profiles and make them so hard to meet?
Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!"
I think its amusing that anyone is even taking that serious!! |
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"If someone cant be bothered to read my profile, i assume they cant be bothered to get to know me before a meet, i would also (rightly or wrongly) that they are going to be crap in bed. Yes a lot of assumptions. But those assumptions could be changed with someone taking 5 minutes to read a profile.
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totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooohhh someone mention timewaster! Hahaa im in my comfort zone at last lol
Profiles are a waste of time! A fuck is a fuck and thats all you want sometimes! "
I know this is a generalisation, but I honestly thought this was a comment by someone in their late teens/early twenties ...was surprised to see it was from someone of 52 years old! It may be all you want, but the vast majority of people on here want a little more stimulation...like conversation, similar interests (both in and out of the bedroom) and a bit of respect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have long said that like attracts like. If the profiles are that long and tedious for you to read and they make you feel like needing to mastermind are you seriously going to want to meet them? So where's the problem?
No problem just pointing it out and try to block them before they block me lol "
you got alot of blocking to do..ready,steady,go!!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooohhh someone mention timewaster! Hahaa im in my comfort zone at last lol
Profiles are a waste of time! A fuck is a fuck and thats all you want sometimes!
I know this is a generalisation, but I honestly thought this was a comment by someone in their late teens/early twenties ...was surprised to see it was from someone of 52 years old! It may be all you want, but the vast majority of people on here want a little more stimulation...like conversation, similar interests (both in and out of the bedroom) and a bit of respect "
its good to see a bitter and twisted older guy tho having problems getting a meet...perhaps the single younger guys should read this and learn how not to do post crap before they too turn out like this! Lol |
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"I have long said that like attracts like. If the profiles are that long and tedious for you to read and they make you feel like needing to mastermind are you seriously going to want to meet them? So where's the problem?
No problem just pointing it out and try to block them before they block me lol
you got alot of blocking to do..ready,steady,go!!! Lol"
Ha Ha,he's just so easy to find now as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Right here is a good tip for you OP, just skip down to the bottom of their profile to get said keyword/catch out phrase, saves you all the time in the world and hey they'll be none the wiser |
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"OK everyones blocked me now, am I bothered?
GOODBYE SWINGING WORLD LOL"
If i was reading this thread and didnt know your age i would think you was about 15 well actually if my son behaved like that at 15 he would have been told.
I think you need to find out what swinging is although it means different to different people i dont think your attitude is working in the swinging world, well its obvious it isnt by this thread |
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"We have a long profile, which is also full of stipulations. We do this because we are tired of being messaged by 'the wrong people"
"He's" Gay, I'm Bi, which is why we have a long, detailed profile.
Any messages we receive clearly indicate whether the sender has read our profile, those that haven't get binned |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ooohhh someone mention timewaster! Hahaa im in my comfort zone at last lol
Profiles are a waste of time! A fuck is a fuck and thats all you want sometimes! "
Nice NOT |
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Everyone goes on about male time wasters - and some may say that's the sad truth about 30% of men on here however. That's not exclusive to men - I've had two failed female meets and one couple time waiters in as many weeks
Manners and the odd phone call can go a long way .... So red the profile make contact before if you can - check feedback ... We can all limit the amount of losers we try and meet -) |
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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago
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wow someone is a happy chappy arent they lol as part of a couple that have instructions on how to contact us it is for the purpose of singling out guys like you that will send a message saying fancy it when they dont meet our criteria and who will try to persude us that they do even tho they dont know what our criteria is as they havent read our profile which is only a paragraph long. Congratulations tho you have now achieved even more limited chances of finding a meet on here with your mature intelligent comments |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In all honesty it's not just single blokes, we have them blocked but we get plenty of messages saying nice pics, I mean seriously if that is the most stimulating message you can muster there is no way we will reply."
My deepest apologies, Damned predictive text... the message was supposed to say...
Nice TITS |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking as a single male who chooses to omit a profile pic, (and therefore effectively lower in the food chain than plankton). I am often astounded at the requirements of many profiles, but perhaps if faced with an avalanche of hopeful messages, I would feel the same.
Should anyone wish to make this happen, please feel free..... Surely this site is about a bit of fun. Ladies and gentlemen, surely even the Neanderthal among us are entitled to their own unique mating signals. Now, anyone fancy a shag?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OK everyones blocked me now, am I bothered?
GOODBYE SWINGING WORLD LOL
If i was reading this thread and didnt know your age i would think you was about 15 well actually if my son behaved like that at 15 he would have been told.
I think you need to find out what swinging is although it means different to different people i dont think your attitude is working in the swinging world, well its obvious it isnt by this thread"
What is it then?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is my favourite thread of the week
Loving your comment about your 15 year old being more mature too lol!! "
Thats another question AGE? what does that mater? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Speaking as a single male who chooses to omit a profile pic, (and therefore effectively lower in the food chain than plankton). I am often astounded at the requirements of many profiles, but perhaps if faced with an avalanche of hopeful messages, I would feel the same.
Should anyone wish to make this happen, please feel free..... Surely this site is about a bit of fun. Ladies and gentlemen, surely even the Neanderthal among us are entitled to their own unique mating signals. Now, anyone fancy a shag?
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Well said m8 , I don't take it seriously to many people here do! Lets have FUN people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I don't take it seriously to many people here do! Lets have FUN people "
erm... I'll think you'll find we are having 'FUN' .... it's you who's not
na na nana na |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been sending out a lot of polite messages lately to winks messages and friend requests...our profile isn't massively long, it's clear and states our preferences...and yet we still have to keep messaging...sorry we don't meet smokers...sorry you.re outside of our age range...sorry we're not looking for straight couples...straight single men...now we know we can use filters but don't always...however, we have preferences which we are fully entitled to...and the inevitable rejection wouldn't be such a blow to your obvious sense of entitlement if you just took half a minute of your time before messaging people who will clearly never be interested in you... |
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Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!
or you could look at it another way.....
if a profile is too long, and you can't be bothered to read it all, then you are probably not what they are looking for, and they are probably not for you either..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To the op. Maybe because people are fed up with messages from people who haven't read what they are looking for and obviously dont fit the bill. Anyway why worry. They can do whatever they like. So suck it up be a man and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They say the camera never lies, but surely a bit of good natured dishonesty?"
Judging by every photo I see of myself there is no camera that has the sensitivity to lie and be kind !!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They say the camera never lies, but surely a bit of good natured dishonesty?
Judging by every photo I see of myself there is no camera that has the sensitivity to lie and be kind !! "
oops answered that on our couples profile..confused myself let alone anyone else |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Ooohhh someone mention timewaster! Hahaa im in my comfort zone at last lol
Profiles are a waste of time! A fuck is a fuck and thats all you want sometimes! "
Find somewhere with just pictures and no profile text? Only approach those with one liner profiles? Just read the first and last lines and hope for the best?
If all fucks were equal then I would be a happier woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi why do a lot of couples use catch out questions on the end of thier profiles and make them so hard to meet?
Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!
Because they only want to meet people that will spend an hour reading their profile. "
SO IF MY PROFILE WAS SUDDENLY ANGRY IN CAPSLOCK MODE EVERY 5 LINES WOULD THAT MAKE YOU WANT TO PUT EFFORT IN AND MESSAGE?
Me personally? I laugh and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We didn't have a 'catch out' line in our profile, but due to all the morons that just skip to the pictures we have had to add one. It's early days, but not one person that has replied to us in the last Week has even bothered to read the entire profile.
My view is; If they can't be bothered to spend 2 minutes reading our preferences and limits then we can't be bothered to reply to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Grrrr, just wrote a whole Tolstoy epic on how it makes me chukle with these 'catch out questions' or requests to put something in the subject....unlike the OP I can obviously see why these are included, what I don't understand is why they are put right at the bottom of the profile?!
I've skipped loads of profiles (when in picture perve mode!!) and the number of 'please put blah blah blah in the subject' you come across is laughable!
Surely including it in the main body of text would sort out those who have read a profile and those who haven't!! |
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Actually that's not a bad idea... to catch out people who just jump to the end to find the secret word you could put a fake 'quote this word in the subject' but somewhere in the middle of the profile explain that the 'gotcha' at the end is to be ignored and the real word is something else.
Personally it's way too much effort for me to even consider implementing and I'd probably forget what the real word is anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think about it from a couple's perspective.
Why should they take the precious time to respond to someone who can't be bothered to read their profile in full? It screams of being lazy and not that interested if they can't be bothered to read the full text!
If a profile is a little bit ambiguous, then it is perfectly ok to politely message them and strike up a conversation just like one would do in a real life context.
How happy would you be if someone who was the opposite of what you were looking for messaged you without reading your profile? Yep, thought so! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think about it from a couple's perspective.
Why should they take the precious time to respond to someone who can't be bothered to read their profile in full? It screams of being lazy and not that interested if they can't be bothered to read the full text!
If a profile is a little bit ambiguous, then it is perfectly ok to politely message them and strike up a conversation just like one would do in a real life context.
How happy would you be if someone who was the opposite of what you were looking for messaged you without reading your profile? Yep, thought so!"
Theres doing it right and being what they want and then there is being deleted because you either made 1 little spelling mistake when they're no better or you get sidelined because of sheer numbers.
One time I sent a message, it got read and wasn't deleted but no reply.
Fair enough but they had someone else lined up so i left it.
Next day I see a "NO MORE SINGLE GUYS AS WE HAD ANOTHER TIMEWASTER!" on their profile.
I guess the special person they chose was not so special afterall. I had a laugh and never looked at their profile again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just laugh now. You can't force people to like you. I just find it a nice taste of karma when they've blatantly chose someone over you and said 'mr perfect' ends up being a complete time-wasting twatbag.
It's even funnier when said twatbag has no pics and like two lines on his 3-day old profile. Some people just ask for their time to be wasted with the people they pick when they bleat on in their own profile about people having pics and in-depth profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think about it from a couple's perspective.
How happy would you be if someone who was the opposite of what you were looking for messaged you without reading your profile? Yep, thought so!"
I'd actually be happy to receive messages from people regardless!
And as for this hang up on reading profiles, surely having some 1-2-1 interaction with that person is a better way of establishing compatibility!
When you apply for a job you dont get offered it based on your CV now do you!!!
Yep, thought so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi why do a lot of couples use catch out questions on the end of thier profiles and make them so hard to meet?
Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!"
Our profile is not long, yet three quarters of the mail we receive does not comply with whats on our profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why should anyone who isn't willing to read a little get any chances, especially if you're not what their looking for?
Honestly, it's not primary maths!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think about it from a couple's perspective.
How happy would you be if someone who was the opposite of what you were looking for messaged you without reading your profile? Yep, thought so!
I'd actually be happy to receive messages from people regardless!
And as for this hang up on reading profiles, surely having some 1-2-1 interaction with that person is a better way of establishing compatibility!
When you apply for a job you dont get offered it based on your CV now do you!!!
Yep, thought so"
You'd not get the interview unless your CV was interesting & appropriate for the role which the employer has read before offering you an interview
And you'd not get the job if you didn't do your research on the company/position you are applying for
Yep thought so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Correct, the CV will only every get you an interview, assuming you meet the requirements of the role!!!
Tah Dah!!!
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And after the interview, if there's no rapport, you're rejected, making the 'requirements' null and void!
Tah patronising Dah!!!
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" I don't take it seriously to many people here do! Lets have FUN people
erm... I'll think you'll find we are having 'FUN' .... it's you who's not
na na nana na "
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So am I because I can be bothered.
OP - couples and single fems get loads of messages and this is an easy method of cutting out the time wasters. The logic works like this if you cannot be bothered to read a profile even if it takes a few minutes, can you be bothered to turn up? I know its not fool proof but saves time. You need to look at it from their perspective. |
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If people can't be bothered to read a profile then it's more about their wants than what they can do for you or with you.
Smacks of childish selfishness so it's a no thank you from me.
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"Hi why do a lot of couples use catch out questions on the end of thier profiles and make them so hard to meet?
Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!
Well you may not read the profiles because they are too long,but you can't speak for everyone else.
And if you haven't read all the profile then how do you know you are what they are looking for? This is why people have 'catch out' questions,for peoplewho can't be bothered to read a 'whole' profile
I understand that but they don't give you a chance they just block you straight away!"
If you're not what someone is looking for why would they give you a 'chance'? it's like going to Tesco for kitchen towel, but on your way down the aisles a tin of soup bounces in front of you and says give me a chance...not much use when you wanted kitchen towel! |
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"Hi why do a lot of couples use catch out questions on the end of thier profiles and make them so hard to meet?
Nobody reads all the profile especially when they are to long!
For exactly that reason!
If they put them at the start - who would read all the important "This is what we enjoy/are looking for" information that is designed to stop those not meeting their needs from messaging!
It's exactly why they will probably not read, or read and delete without replying to, the majority of messages they get sent!
A good tool in fact!
Yes theres a lot of tools here! "
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And as for this hang up on reading profiles, surely having some 1-2-1 interaction with that person is a better way of establishing compatibility!
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But why would we waste our time in 1 to 1 interaction if it isn't going to achieve what all of us want and are here for?
You're a straight single guy and you smoke, we're never going to be interested in meeting you no matter how great we get on in our 1 to 1 interaction...if we met you at a party and we got on like a house on fire, we'd really enjoy it-we're friendly, sociable people, but no matter how much we like you, we're never going to fuck you...you're not what we want and no amount of 1 to 1 interaction is goign to change that...we'd rather spend our time on here interacting 1 to 1 with people we're likely to meet |
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"Correct, the CV will only every get you an interview, assuming you meet the requirements of the role!!!
Tah Dah!!!
And after the interview, if there's no rapport, you're rejected, making the 'requirements' null and void!
Tah patronising Dah!!!
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