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Has any wife, husband or partner slept with a below average opposite number in a swap so that their wife/own husband could enjoy the better looking half of the other couple? So have they taken one for the team? Reply here or private x |
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over a year ago
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No... When we started out on this journey, we agrred that no matter how much the other person wanted it, if we both weren't feeling it we wouldn't go ahead... |
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"No... When we started out on this journey, we agrred that no matter how much the other person wanted it, if we both weren't feeling it we wouldn't go ahead... "
Exactly this.
We never take one for the team. Ever.
We both have to be 100% on all partners, even if meeting separately. |
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It is quite rare to have same level of attraction amongst all fours so our approach is a pragmatic one. It is quite possible one of us may really fancy one half of a couple while the other may just fancy a little. We don't call it taking one for team just adjusting and playing to the situation and making best of it. Key here is that there is still a level of attraction, yes if there was no attraction at all for one of us then it will be a no. |
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We had a social with another, way more experienced couple over the weekend, that was one of the first bits of advice they gave us. NEVER take one fir the team. Its both of you or neither of you that's attracted. Makes sense really, though... I probably still would if I knew it would make Mrs happy. |
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"No... When we started out on this journey, we agrred that no matter how much the other person wanted it, if we both weren't feeling it we wouldn't go ahead... "
This exactly
For us it's something we do together and we are open and honest enough to say no without worries |
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No, never taken one for the team. I think it would be extremely disrespectful to the person I was having sex with. Also I'd be devastated to discover that someone had only had sex with me so their partner could enjoy themselves. We've had a couple of meets where the guy very clearly wasn't interested in me and it's not a nice feeling. |
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By *akie32Man
over a year ago
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"No... When we started out on this journey, we agrred that no matter how much the other person wanted it, if we both weren't feeling it we wouldn't go ahead... "
same for us, if we both dont feel it, then its not happening |
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"So has it ever happened where say one person just watched so no one felt like they were taking one for the team? This is something I’ve considered "
Yes but it wasn't agreed before hand. The guy in a couple we met neglected to mention that he only wanted to watch his wife with other people. Given that I'm straight it was a very awkward encounter until we realised. |
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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago
Suffolk - East Anglia |
Take one for the team?
No No No.
We take seriously the swinging fun and happiness to be enjoyed by all present. There must to be a desire by every one in a sexual situation to enjoy themselves as they wish and only as they wish. No coercion, no feeling "well I ought to to keep so and so happy." NO! It's not right.
Play with whom you wish to play and enjoy. Full stop. If you don't desire someone, do not feel obliged.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nope never we both agree or nothing happens and at anytime one decides not today or anything thing else then we act as one thas always been the case and always will be the case ... nothing is bigger or better than us |
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With my friend of the female persuasion, "taking on for the team" is an expression we've used where the deal for one of us hasn't been good but we've continued for the benefit of the other one.
So yes, that term is recognised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So has it ever happened where say one person just watched so no one felt like they were taking one for the team? This is something I’ve considered "
I've done that a few times. Prefer to watch anyway. |
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