Am I the only one who finds this frustrating?
As you can see from my profile I do have face pictures, and have also been photo verified. So you can be assured it’s me and that is my face.
I totally understand that many don’t want to show theirs, and that’s fine.
What bugs me is, when I ask for a face picture in return (after they have sent a message), I’d actually like to see your face!
-Not a body pic, with you covering your face.
-Not a photo that’s been taken in the distance.
-Not a photo where is blurred.
-Not a photo of only half your face.
I want to see a FACE picture.
Am I alone In getting frustrated when this happens??
Maybe you’re one of these people? Why do you do this?
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We only share a face pic after a fair bit of chat when we feel like we might actually meet the other profile. We would love the freedom to post up face pics publicly or send them with the first messages but it would likely be career-ending if they got out.
We've had people send theirs in the first message and ask for ours before we've even really spoken. It's nice that they're so open but we find it pretty pushy early on. |
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By *oulivCouple
over a year ago
Newtown |
We don't show our faces online, we live in a very quiet place and one of us works with kids and those parents who don't understand swinging would get upset about it... small minded I know. But if we are talking to someone we always share a pic of both our faces, its weird not to! |
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"Am I the only one who finds this frustrating?
As you can see from my profile I do have face pictures, and have also been photo verified. So you can be assured it’s me and that is my face.
I totally understand that many don’t want to show theirs, and that’s fine.
What bugs me is, when I ask for a face picture in return (after they have sent a message), I’d actually like to see your face!
-Not a body pic, with you covering your face.
-Not a photo that’s been taken in the distance.
-Not a photo where is blurred.
-Not a photo of only half your face.
I want to see a FACE picture.
Am I alone In getting frustrated when this happens??
Maybe you’re one of these people? Why do you do this?
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I wholeheartedly agree with this! Especially when it’s someone who messages you first. I have no public face pics for privacy reasons but more than happy to send them with a message. If a person doesn’t respond then I delete them as soon as I see the message has been read |
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I appreciate if people don’t show face pictures publicly.
This thread relates to private messaging, to someone who has a face picture on their profile, and photo verified (like mine), who don’t show their entire face or poorly taken photo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a bit of a cop out to try and pass off a partly obscured face pic as a valid one.
If you’re not happy sharing one, just say; if there’s no problem, send a clear one.  |
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"Am I the only one who finds this frustrating?
As you can see from my profile I do have face pictures, and have also been photo verified. So you can be assured it’s me and that is my face.
I totally understand that many don’t want to show theirs, and that’s fine.
What bugs me is, when I ask for a face picture in return (after they have sent a message), I’d actually like to see your face!
-Not a body pic, with you covering your face.
-Not a photo that’s been taken in the distance.
-Not a photo where is blurred.
-Not a photo of only half your face.
I want to see a FACE picture.
Am I alone In getting frustrated when this happens??
Maybe you’re one of these people? Why do you do this?
I wholeheartedly agree with this! Especially when it’s someone who messages you first. I have no public face pics for privacy reasons but more than happy to send them with a message. If a person doesn’t respond then I delete them as soon as I see the message has been read "
 that’s all I ask lol.
As for deleting the picture after it’s been read, that’s cool, how would you feel if weeks later you were asked to send it again? If they forgot what you looked like? |
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Or they send you one that you're a bit dubious of off their profile and you ask for a real time selfie and they won't?? Just makes us major suss especially after being stalked by people on here... Just send a damn selfie! Saves time over all.... |
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"Am I the only one who finds this frustrating?
As you can see from my profile I do have face pictures, and have also been photo verified. So you can be assured it’s me and that is my face.
I totally understand that many don’t want to show theirs, and that’s fine.
What bugs me is, when I ask for a face picture in return (after they have sent a message), I’d actually like to see your face!
-Not a body pic, with you covering your face.
-Not a photo that’s been taken in the distance.
-Not a photo where is blurred.
-Not a photo of only half your face.
I want to see a FACE picture.
Am I alone In getting frustrated when this happens??
Maybe you’re one of these people? Why do you do this?
I wholeheartedly agree with this! Especially when it’s someone who messages you first. I have no public face pics for privacy reasons but more than happy to send them with a message. If a person doesn’t respond then I delete them as soon as I see the message has been read
that’s all I ask lol.
As for deleting the picture after it’s been read, that’s cool, how would you feel if weeks later you were asked to send it again? If they forgot what you looked like? "
I’d have no problem with at all. I’d just send it again for me I need to know what someone looks like to be attracted to them and I’m sure it goes the other way also |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"We only share a face pic after a fair bit of chat when we feel like we might actually meet the other profile."
Do you not find yourself wasting a lot of time chatting to people that you then find you have no physical attraction to?
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
Hi kitty, we are the same, our faces are all over our profile, and we have adked guys to attach a face pic with their messages so we know if there is going to be a connection......do we get one attached?? Nope.
In fact I don't know about anyone else , but recently when we have asked for a face pic to be attached, the guys have immediately BLOCKED us.
Why do they do that? |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"Hi kitty, we are the same, our faces are all over our profile, and we have adked guys to attach a face pic with their messages"
That involves people reading the profile....which in our experience is unusual.
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"Hi kitty, we are the same, our faces are all over our profile, and we have adked guys to attach a face pic with their messages
That involves people reading the profile....which in our experience is unusual.
(Bry)"
Hi Bry.... yeah I know lol. We have been here over 8 years now, but it's only recently guys are blocking us when we ask for a face pic. It's very bizarre,  |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"As for deleting the picture after it’s been read, that’s cool, how would you feel if weeks later you were asked to send it again? If they forgot what you looked like? "
That happens to us so often. Someone sends us a face pic as asked, I am on here all the time so I get to see it. By the time Char logs on (Fabmin is very low on her list of priorities) it's been deleted or auto removed after twenty-four hours and we have to ask for it again
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"Hi kitty, we are the same, our faces are all over our profile, and we have adked guys to attach a face pic with their messages so we know if there is going to be a connection......do we get one attached?? Nope.
In fact I don't know about anyone else , but recently when we have asked for a face pic to be attached, the guys have immediately BLOCKED us.
Why do they do that? "
Possibly as a convenient way to remind themselves not to message you again.
Not a technique I have used on here but on PoF I hit the 'Like' button to flag up unsuitables that otherwise look appealing. |
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By *andy KTV/TS
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Am I the only one who finds this frustrating?
As you can see from my profile I do have face pictures, and have also been photo verified. So you can be assured it’s me and that is my face.
I totally understand that many don’t want to show theirs, and that’s fine.
What bugs me is, when I ask for a face picture in return (after they have sent a message), I’d actually like to see your face!
-Not a body pic, with you covering your face.
-Not a photo that’s been taken in the distance.
-Not a photo where is blurred.
-Not a photo of only half your face.
I want to see a FACE picture.
Am I alone In getting frustrated when this happens??
Maybe you’re one of these people? Why do you do this?
I don’t understand either I can understand not having face pics on profile …but can always send privately
I feel your frustration x
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