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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve only met alone up to now, but my husband would love to be there to watch next time "
Is that through preference or just like a timing/availability type thing. |
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"I’ve only met alone up to now, but my husband would love to be there to watch next time
Is that through preference or just like a timing/availability type thing. "
I think it’s just how things have evolved, I’m not the most confident and just wanted to meet alone to begin with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While I love watching dee get down and dirty and joining in unfortunately Real life doesn't allow that to happen too often. I get pics and vids throughout and get home as fast as I can for reclaim sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Enjoy both but the best is when she’s out getting fucked and leaves her phone on so I can hear. She will ring me once she’s at one of her lovers, I can hear them playing and when they are done she hangs up. The best is when she plays with her ex. He always comes in her two or three times in a session. She always returns home like she’s been ravaged and then we play together. Sex doesn’t get better than that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like both watch and let her play alone but love it when she plays alone and sends me pic and videos when I'm at work"
This is hot!! How do you get any work done knowing and seeing this is going on ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our (his) thing is to let me play alone (+1) for a while and then come and join us - so a bit of both. I’m happy with a bit of both…"
This is our play preference  |
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"Looking forward to becoming one, but struggling to find the right guys. Maybe we’re being to fussy….. "
No such thing as being too fussy, we all have our likes and dislikes, what we want and what we don't want.... |
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"Do husbands prefer to be there when their wives are with their extra friends or do they get more turned on if they are provided evidence afterwards.  "
Both,its hot whens she out all night for sleepovers getting messages and pics |
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"Enjoy both but the best is when she’s out getting fucked and leaves her phone on so I can hear. She will ring me once she’s at one of her lovers, I can hear them playing and when they are done she hangs up. The best is when she plays with her ex. He always comes in her two or three times in a session. She always returns home like she’s been ravaged and then we play together. Sex doesn’t get better than that. "
Jeez! She must be dripping by the time she gets home... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For Mr the best is when at work, receiving just a photo of a facial wandering what has happened then getting the rest of the videos and then having amazing re-claim sex, not a fan of the word as I don’t own her but believe that’s the swingers term. |
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We do both...
When we find someone we trust she goes alone. Nothing like sitting at home wanking my cock knowing she is having sex with another man in a hotel. Regular texts to say what she is up to just makes my cock throb!!
She is out now as we speak with a much younger lover who is really making her pussy purr according to her texts.
Just hope she is not too worn out when she gets in to have me play with her soaking pussy!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've tried several ways.
Mr being there, in a threesome.
There to watch with very little participation.
Mrs spent the night with a trusted regular.
Mr watching over camera.
Mr enjoyed them all, so did Mrs but she much prefers Mr being there |
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My slut hotwife has her hubby help her dress to meet me then I send him pics how I’m using his wife as my toy then return her next day full of my cum and well used, then he cleans her up and has seconds. Works for us |
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We’ve done just about all variations, him watching via webcam, being present, in another room, solo overnight etc.
All scenarios have benefits and drawbacks.
Suppose it’s the fact that we can have those variations that keep things fresh…
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By *ateworkMan
over a year ago
North of the country |
Me and the Mrs have done both.
I have sat back and watched her getting fucked for hours but have to say I prefer it when she goes alone and face times me and sends pics of her getting fucked |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hubby loves me playing without him, I really struggled with that thought to begin with. Not so much now though  "
Yeah mrs was the same, we have a regular playmate who she will now meet alone but is apprehensive about others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My slut hotwife has her hubby help her dress to meet me then I send him pics how I’m using his wife as my toy then return her next day full of my cum and well used, then he cleans her up and has seconds. Works for us "
Definitely love this,worked for me and my wife...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hubby enjoys both watching or waiting at home. One day while he was at work I surprised him by sending a photo of me taking a cock that morning. He couldn't wait to get home. "
Love this , very hot.. |
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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago
Youghal |
Mr likes to watch. I've gone to a hotel room with a guy while he stayed in the bar for a while but then joined us after a bit.
We've yet to do the full on solo meet with video and pic updates but it's on the cards soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do love to watch but don't mind not been there. When my hotwife met her last bull I was at work, she compensated by sending pics and voice messages of getting fucked on WhatsApp, it was very hard to concentrate that day lol |
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I love both, but they feel very different to me. I think when I'm not there it almost seems naughtier (which I like) but I do like to see videos. Depending on what I'm doing while she's seeing someone it can be frustrating waiting for updates, but also gets me very horny letting my imagination run wild!
I'd first ever meet was without me and it was an incredibly intense time waiting at home!
On the other hand, being there and seeing her fuck and enjoy herself right Infront of me is amazing. |
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i have been there many times and the views are awesome, but there must be something so erotic and kinky sitting there watching the wife get ready , taking time to pick her underwear , knowing she is going to meet another guy and that its sexual, as she leaves or you drop her of at there desired meeting place, then the wait and the unknown, will he try it on more with her as her husband is not there will she feel more able to be more open to him, and then looking out waiting for her return |
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"Do husbands prefer to be there when their wives are with their extra friends or do they get more turned on if they are provided evidence afterwards. "
And you look like a fantastically sexy hot wife |
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Watched her many times in the past but love more than when she sends me random pics whilst at work. Or calls me put the phone by her side on the bed and let’s me listen in. Even walked in from work for her to tell me there’s a present on my bedside table when I go to look I find a used condom with the wrapper then tells me all about what she got upto in our bed |
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After she came home last night, smiling from ear to ear and looking so sexy we had the most amazing session in bed...the smell and taste of sex on her drove me crazy!!!
That is what having a Hotwife is all about.....it adds such an extra dynamic to our own sex life and relationship.
Sitting at home waiting for her is torture at times, you really have to have a very secure and trusting relationship to do this and it is deffo not for everyone.  |
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I’ve always been there and shared her so far. I step back occasionally to watch her, it’s like foreplay to us, her knowing how much it’s making me ache for her. We do have a bucket list so to speak with the odd occasion I just watch or am sent pics/vids but she’s not taken that step yet so only when she’s ready. She says she loves watching the lust in my eyes too much but I’m curious to how it would be without me and hearing the details afterwards |
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We only meet together. I always help her get ready fully aware that I may not get my hands on her until we get home. My thing is to watch and photo. Love her looking at me while she is being enjoyed. Do sometimes join in too though. And then, when I get her home …… |
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"We only meet together. I always help her get ready fully aware that I may not get my hands on her until we get home. My thing is to watch and photo. Love her looking at me while she is being enjoyed. Do sometimes join in too though. And then, when I get her home ……"
Wow would love to join in with a group as she is indeed a hot wife |
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"We only meet together. I always help her get ready fully aware that I may not get my hands on her until we get home. My thing is to watch and photo. Love her looking at me while she is being enjoyed. Do sometimes join in too though. And then, when I get her home ……"
If I'm ever in Kent I wouldn't mind joining in
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it when hubby is watching and then joins in. It's always interesting to see how long they can last without getting involved!
Also love it when hubby is on video call watching and listening
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"While I love watching dee get down and dirty and joining in unfortunately Real life doesn't allow that to happen too often. I get pics and vids throughout and get home as fast as I can for reclaim sex. "
This is us, I really get off on watching my wife being dirty and doing what she says but having to be left behind whilst she is out adds a whole new dynamic and one we both love. Plus Lucy finds she lets her inhibitions flow more freely. |
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"While I love watching dee get down and dirty and joining in unfortunately Real life doesn't allow that to happen too often. I get pics and vids throughout and get home as fast as I can for reclaim sex.
This is us, I really get off on watching my wife being dirty and doing what she says but having to be left behind whilst she is out adds a whole new dynamic and one we both love. Plus Lucy finds she lets her inhibitions flow more freely."
Pretty much sums us up |
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"Mr can answer this one
Mrs TMN x"
This might well be my favourite thing! The first time Mrs TMN met without me was a crazy mix of jealousy and excitement. Since then, it’s pure excitement. I love her so much and just adore it when she’s having fun. She just loses herself in the moment and the anticipation of a vid or a pic is intensely exciting. I also know just how she’s happiest when naked and as we all know, reclaim sex is the best. So, yeah, I quite like it! Mr TMN |
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"Mr can answer this one
Mrs TMN x
This might well be my favourite thing! The first time Mrs TMN met without me was a crazy mix of jealousy and excitement. Since then, it’s pure excitement. I love her so much and just adore it when she’s having fun. She just loses herself in the moment and the anticipation of a vid or a pic is intensely exciting. I also know just how she’s happiest when naked and as we all know, reclaim sex is the best. So, yeah, I quite like it! Mr TMN "
I couldn’t have said it better! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like both too and each has their own merits. It’s incredible to witness another man take your wife in front of you and the 3 of you are bonded together by your presence. Conversely, she relaxes more when she’s alone with him, has more intimate and rewarding sex and that look on her face as she returns home in the morning, wearing the same short dress and heels from the night before before she announces that she has come straight from his bed and there’s cleaning up to be done !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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HW had her first solo last weekend , totally diff experience but amazing , pics on profile too
I prefer to be there to take pics but HW is allowed to play separate with her fav guy , hoping to have 2/3 reliable guys in future |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
Had a FB who loved extra cock.
I’d book hotel room and we’d invite 2/3 guys to join us. Loved it when she invite to Guy during the daytime and then tell me about how he’d fucked up before I was there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do husbands prefer to be there when their wives are with their extra friends or do they get more turned on if they are provided evidence afterwards."
I don’t partake in either; for me it’s just nice to know she’s getting to do the things she likes and is happy from doing them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do husbands prefer to be there when their wives are with their extra friends or do they get more turned on if they are provided evidence afterwards. "
love to be giventhe chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (hubby)love to be in the house while the wife has a meet I do t always necessarily need to be in the room to watch I've sometimes waited In the spare room happy to just listen x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do husbands prefer to be there when their wives are with their extra friends or do they get more turned on if they are provided evidence afterwards. "
Both. At a push I'd say being there ties up watching |
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I love to join in but also sitting back and film it... It's like making porn starring the sexiest woman in my world! I watch it over and over again.  its so fucking hot watching her getting fucked, hearing her groans and gasps. |
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My wife has only played once and she went solo as she said it would be to awkward with me there so it was recorded I wish I never agreed to let her go alone it really didn't do anything for me I definitely want it to happen again tho so I can be there to watch with my own eyes |
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Tough choice. Feels naughtier to send her out solo. More taboo this way. Like proper cheating but with permission. Also love hearing what she has got up to when she gets home. She always comes back grinning. The wait can feel a bit long sometimes.
However going with her is nice too. Shared experience plus I can fuck her straight after the other guys have had their turn so I’m satisfied faster. Great question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tough choice. Feels naughtier to send her out solo. More taboo this way. Like proper cheating but with permission. Also love hearing what she has got up to when she gets home. She always comes back grinning. The wait can feel a bit long sometimes.
However going with her is nice too. Shared experience plus I can fuck her straight after the other guys have had their turn so I’m satisfied faster. Great question."
Both are very hot options and you have a stunning wife to enjoy |
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"Tough choice. Feels naughtier to send her out solo. More taboo this way. Like proper cheating but with permission. Also love hearing what she has got up to when she gets home. She always comes back grinning. The wait can feel a bit long sometimes.
However going with her is nice too. Shared experience plus I can fuck her straight after the other guys have had their turn so I’m satisfied faster. Great question.
Both are very hot options and you have a stunning wife to enjoy "
That’s kind of you to say |
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"I like both watch and let her play alone but love it when she plays alone and sends me pic and videos when I'm at work"
Yep, this for us too, with an occasional meet when I also join in to increase her pleasure . All scenarios are hot in there different ways. |
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We've only had MFM threesomes and I love to watch and join in but I'd love her to meet alone and film for us to watch together. 2=3 regular guys who she'd meet alone as well as together would be amazing!! |
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We started out by playing MMF/MFM.
Now however, Hubby very much enjoys helping our friend arouse Crimson but then withdrawing and watching her with another guy.
Playing separately isn't something that we have done in this particular dynamic though. |
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Different strokes for different folks. I've played with several couples over the years, and whilst some have wanted to be present at all times photographing or videoing, others have wanted me to be alone with their wife taking home their own selfie souvenirs of the occasion, often with a phone call in between with the phone on loudspeak. I've had others who wanted to outside or in another room where they could hear what was going on, in one case a guy wanted to do my garden while I was upstairs with his wife, a long distance lorry drivers wife used to come here on a Sunday night because, it was a turn on for him getting up at 4am alone, carrying on with his weeks work knowing his wife was with someone else, as the reclaim sex that they had on his return was mind blowing and in one extreme case he had to be tied up to a chair leaving him powerless to intervene, but thereby hangs another tale. However, in all but two cases every guy needed to meet me first before entrusting me with his wife or partner so as he could be certain that I was a safe option to play with, and that in some cases that included checking out my house! |
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I met a fantastic couple at a club some time back. We hit it off in the club which was nice.
I was then invited to visit their home during the daytime - except the husband was at work whilst the lady entertained me - or was it visa versa!
Anyway, she would take action shots on her phone and send them to hubby at work, because that was his thrill.
It seems. When he got home, he got to reclaim his wife etc. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"My husband is happy for me to play with other girls without him, I guess I'm just lucky that I'm married to someone who doesn't just see me as showgirl "
I'd happily step in for him if you'd like.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting, here for the comments. However, I've been with a few couples and most of the times the husband/bf will be in a corner watching and wanking, so maybe they get off to seeing their partners be fucked. |
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By *offee27Man
over a year ago
Wiltshire |
I did like it when my ex went out and message me about what she's done to get a free drink etc. If she was going back to someones for sex she'd always text saying 'don't wait up I'll be back in the morning' and I'd be so turned when she came home, most the time with dried cum on her face/ hair and give me a blow by blow account of what happened while we 're-claimed' |
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By *ourplusCouple
over a year ago
Near Irvine |
Great to watch, but strangely satisfying to know she's with a man or men on her own getting totally fucked without the pressure of me watching and waiting to hear what they got up too, and hearing about the size of their cocks in comparison to my small one. |
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Ive never watched mine shes only ever played alone
It is a massive weird feeling in the head and stomach when your alone wondering whats happening. Massive turn on but feeling sickly
Im desperate for the feeling again though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience, the hubbys just want to be involved in some way. Whether watching or being told after tends to differ between couples, though I think it makes the meets hotter with the hubby present! |
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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago
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"Do husbands prefer to be there when their wives are with their extra friends or do they get more turned on if they are provided evidence afterwards. "
another method is for the hubby to be in the next room just before your guests arrive. Then he can hear but not see what is going on. Only when the guests have left can he join you in the play room |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer Mrs Sexploit to go out alone. I've had one experienced where I was playing solo with a lady whose husband listened in on us via the phone from a room next door. That was hot!
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My ideal situation would be a bit of both, I find it just as horny to prepare a lady for her date, kneeling behind her and attaching her suspender straps, sometimes being lucky enough to lick her pussy and ass in preperation for a real man, other times being made to wait til she comes back used.
Love to slide a ladies knickers up as she tells me her lover will be tearing them off her the moment they meet. or seeing shes wearing crotchless ones so he can get to her easier.
Then waiting for that text to say shes on her way home and that ive got lots of cleaning up to do! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do husbands prefer to be there when their wives are with their extra friends or do they get more turned on if they are provided evidence afterwards. "
Bit of both really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have done both but of late wife plays alone. She has a regular FB which suits her. Often I will drop her off and pick her up a few hours later. Photographic evidence is generally supplied. "
Would love to play with her esp in a threesome and I live in Uxbridge aswell. |
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"Do husbands prefer to be there when their wives are with their extra friends or do they get more turned on if they are provided evidence afterwards. "
Depends on the guy that my hotwife is playing with, how long we’ve known him and what the dynamic of the friendship is, but both scenarios you have mentioned are fine for us ! |
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By *rmbtsTV/TS
over a year ago
stockport |
With my x partner like both being there and also with reg friend fucking her he would go round when I’m in work and make sure she wasn’t lonely and send me messages and pics from time to time
Horny each in there own right
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"Do husbands prefer to be there when their wives are with their extra friends or do they get more turned on if they are provided evidence afterwards. "
We were meant to meet up for an MFM meet last week, but COVID scuppered our plans. When we do meet up, I’m (Mr) hoping for the best of both worlds: the plan is for Mrs to go up to the room with the guy alone and send pics/vids to me before I then join them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my vast experience over the years its been about 50:50. Many men - whether they classed themselves as cuck/stag - loved to watch their wife's being fucked in person. But many just liked me taking their wives out and having fun, they liked the odd photo to tease them before I'd send hotwife home |
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By *fAsCouple
over a year ago
Telford |
Both work for me. Being there in person and watching A fuck ,especially the look on her face and the gasp when she first slides down onto a guy or when he first slides into her is incredibly horny. As somebody mentioned above it’s like watching a live porn movie starring the sexiest woman in the world but with the option of joining in. I also find it incredibly horny if A tells me about her adventures when she flies solo with photographic evidence a definite added bonus. Can lead to some incredible reclaim sex. |
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