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"How got you in to it and who was it with"
I (Old fart) just progressed into it in the 70s and 80s. Milf has only been involved in the scene for about 12 years. We actually met at a sex party 9 years ago and haven't been apart since |
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"How got you in to it and who was it with
I (Old fart) just progressed into it in the 70s and 80s. Milf has only been involved in the scene for about 12 years. We actually met at a sex party 9 years ago and haven't been apart since" did your wife know you was a swinger when you meet |
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"How got you in to it and who was it with
I (Old fart) just progressed into it in the 70s and 80s. Milf has only been involved in the scene for about 12 years. We actually met at a sex party 9 years ago and haven't been apart since
did your wife know you was a swinger when you meet"
Obviously, as it was a sex party not a Tupperware party |
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"I responded to a social media (!) post and had no idea I'd just got myself invited a a lady's surprise birthday gangbang - organised by the husband I'd corresponded with.
F**k I was so innocent.." What did you think was happening !? |
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About 25 years ago, on a chatline and arranging to visit a woman who casually asked if would be OK if her husband watched - hadn't even realised she was married...
....threw me to start with as that was new to me, but she was very re-assuring - visited the next evening as arranged, soon forgot he was even there, and the rest, as they say, is history!
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
My GF (at the time) and I were getting erotic photos developed. We asked the guy if he knew someone who would take the photos for us and it went from there!
Gbat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and my previous partner introduced a mate to join us. Partner was so wet as it was a new experience. She has been swinging ever since and sometimes asks me to join her with her current partner, which is always an enjoyable meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How got you in to it and who was it with"
I got started with an Ex about 8-9 years ago with the sole purpose of being watched . We went to a club and agreed to stay for at least an hour . Ended up being last ones out and playing on huge orgy bed with many people watching ! It was Epic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me being 3 months pregnant sat at work horny sent a pic to him and telling him I been having naughty dreams of me with other men and sent link to swingers club
2 days later we went to club x |
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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"How got you in to it and who was it with
I (Old fart) just progressed into it in the 70s and 80s. Milf has only been involved in the scene for about 12 years. We actually met at a sex party 9 years ago and haven't been apart since
did your wife know you was a swinger when you meet
Obviously, as it was a sex party not a Tupperware party "
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I like to go out dressed up and just like the Fetish scene it’s another place to go. Pick the right night and it can be a great place to meet others socially, have a dance, get a bit tipsy and occasionally….well I’ll leave that to your imagination ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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Back in 2000 a much older Client took me aside me and told how how his wife cuckold him, and that she fancied me. He invited me to fuck his wife when he left for work, and said that if I liked it they would offer free board, lodging, and as much sex as I wanted.... I lived with them for over a year and by the end of it I was fucking both of them and, was hooked on MMF 3sums and the swinging lifestyle ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By *wifterMan
over a year ago
lancaster |
Thanks for sharing all these experiences. Really horny. Interesting how some just fell into it and some planned it. Just for info I was quite reserved in earlier life. Got into porn sites and found Swinging Hvn. Chatted to a couple who invited me round. Loved it and had a few more meets before I got fed up with people lying and messing me around which led me to trying clubs about 10 years ago. Love naturism too now. |
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Via a contact magazine in the 1970s when I was in my 20s. Photos were all black and white and you corresponded by letter to a box Office address who forwarded it to the potential contact. Laborious but incredible exciting. |
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By *andy2Man
over a year ago
Ealing |
Came across a contact mag in the early 80s as a teenager
It really turned me on, real men and women not paid models
Also found pictures of my father with other women
So horny I was a teenage wannabe swinger |
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Hosting a French couple who were over for a rugby International. In the evening after the game, and via one of their female friends who spoke good English, they said they wanted to swop. What a great evening we had! Also enjoyed several holidays with them. |
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"How got you in to it and who was it with
I (Old fart) just progressed into it in the 70s and 80s. Milf has only been involved in the scene for about 12 years. We actually met at a sex party 9 years ago and haven't been apart since
did your wife know you was a swinger when you meet
Obviously, as it was a sex party not a Tupperware party "
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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago
Cambridgeshire |
back in the days of MSN messenger and chat...I got chatting to a local married lady who's hubby was away in the week..we met, fucked in all sorts of ways...then he found out, liked the scenario and every day he was due home...he wanted to come back for sloppy seconds..worked great until they moved away...since then I have a thing for married ladies and couples... |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
About 18 years ago in a car buying magazine at the back personal service section the was a ad for a swingers party in the Barons Court West London area I called the number and I attended a midweek party.It was only after about a hour I realised it wasn’t a swingers party but a sex party.I attended a few more where occasionally real swingers turned up and after talking and playing with some of them I was advised to go to Raquels spa in Walthamstow , Rios spa in Kentish Town or Sunset cinema in Soho if I wanted to meet real swingers.I attended all of these places and eventually found my way on to Fabs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to the local park and tried out the equipment. Scuffed my knees on the concrete piping in the mound, otherwise enjoyed myself for an hour. Slide was my fave![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
Was always into the idea of it used to look at the old contact magazines before the Internet. I actually had my first encounter through aa couple answering an ad I out in one.
Went and met them on a whim because they invited me over anytime and had the most amazing time and was hooked.
Sadly after far ro long with no real results I feel maybe it's time to stop now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was about 17 years ago. Always been an avid porn site viewer. Ended up on a swinging site, which had various clubs advertising on it. Found a greedy girls night was going on that day, got in my car and went.
A couple of hours later I'm walking naked through a club in Croydon with a hard on, chatting to people and getting involved. I thought to myself at the time, this is the life for me |
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We spoke about fantasies one night in bed, both said mmf threesome. Started on a different kind of site but then the wife of a couple recommended fab and eventually offered us her husband so we dived straight in. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My late wife and I often fantasied whilst we played about having someone else joining us, both really got turned on at the thought. Then we took the plunge with a message to a younger guy on a different website, and the rest they say is history.
The first night it happened was amazing and things just went from there, single guys, couples and then on to the occasional club then finally onto the cuckold scene…..many happy memories ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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We had often fantasises during our lovemaking. The Mrs Lux was seduced by a girlfriend one boozy evening. Mr Lux looked on amazed, was invited to join them in front of the fire and the rest is history. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like lots of others,my first wife and I had fantasies, discovered porn (this was the 80's), realised we fgncied other people, gave it a go, moved on to 3somes....I've never looked back. Threesomes still my fave and I've developed my bi side too so life is better than ever. |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
London |
Was massively into wanting to be practicing bull hotwife/cuck fantasies and then on a Friday night in the City after work about 3 years back I bumped into a bi-woman who told me of her sex club exploits in Germany. That night in the early hours I signed up as a member to fab and felt like I'd walked through the stage curtain.
Been a member since and to be frank, quite a liberation. Love the community too; many friends made here. |
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Charlotte admitted that she was turned on by the thought of being made love to by multiple men at once. I said “Well if you want to, we can fo that.” I had never thought about that, and was surprised by how turned on I was.
Charlotte replied “No we can’t - you would be too jealous,” and it took me six months to convince her I wouldn’t be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Genuinely went for a massage for a thigh strain, innocent first and second session.
The therapist who was a qualified sports therapist offered a full body deep tissue massage which I took up the offer.
As is the way when I turned onto my back I was tenting and she noticed but made comment and professionally carried on. Just as she was finishing she subtly asks if I would like that dealt with. I was 22 innocent and sheepishly accepted. Asking about wouldn’t her husband mind. (Photo of them both and wedding ring) she went into detail explaining about swinging and clubs and they actively swap and encourage each other.
She took me under her wing and I was her BF for two years and never looked back. |
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"Vicar warned me about it during pre-marriage pep talk, so had to try it ASAP. (27 years later)"
Shame he didn’t give you a list of clubs to avoid and telephone numbers that you absolutely mustn’t call. |
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"Vicar warned me about it during pre-marriage pep talk, so had to try it ASAP. (27 years later)
Shame he didn’t give you a list of clubs to avoid and telephone numbers that you absolutely mustn’t call." do you have a list and telephone numbers lol |
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"Vicar warned me about it during pre-marriage pep talk, so had to try it ASAP. (27 years later)
Shame he didn’t give you a list of clubs to avoid and telephone numbers that you absolutely mustn’t call. do you have a list and telephone numbers lol"
If I did, I wouldn’t be posting on forums of a Saturday night. |
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"Vicar warned me about it during pre-marriage pep talk, so had to try it ASAP. (27 years later)
Shame he didn’t give you a list of clubs to avoid and telephone numbers that you absolutely mustn’t call. do you have a list and telephone numbers lol
If I did, I wouldn’t be posting on forums of a Saturday night." I know what I’d like to be doing on a Saturday night ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was in my late teens (ahem ) I started posting naked photos of myself on exhibitionist forums. Not my finest moments looking back but there you go.
Anyway, I soon ended up meeting mature couples.
Had a break for over 10 years as I had a normal, mundane life. Got back into this about a year ago.
Once kinky, always kinky.
Message me if you want to here about my “adventures” until I was about 23. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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Ex wife was 'playing away'so I decided to treat myself to a visit to my closest naturist club one Saturday night, obviously not thinking with proper brain until I realised the what 250 naked dancing party goers were up to, so it felt rude not to join in with the fun, that was over twenty years ago ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By *estlo-mMan
over a year ago
west lothian |
I was 18 and babysat for a woman, 9 years my senior, a couple times each week. After about 6 weeks we started having sex, one year later her husband found out and decided we should all play together. Unfortunately we grew apart before I found fab, I think they would have been great on here. |
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About 12 years ago I was camming on another webcam site and a couple liked what they saw and asked if I would join them. I did that weekend, then another couple the following week, and then another couple the following week. That last couple told me about fab. I havent looked back. |
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