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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I don't have a problem getting hard but once I've cum(within the matter of minutes) I feel like a let down is there anything you can take to help delay?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Find yourself an understanding partner who can tease and delay you. I've had the same problem in the past and its nothing to be ashamed of, just means you're very 'on edge' sexually. Some people would take it as a compliment...and then make you go again soon after

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By *offiaCoolWoman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I have heard of some type of delay cream mentioned in here ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There’s always round 2 in 10 minutes time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Try playing alone, bring yourself to the edge then stop. Wait a short while and continue.

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Have a technical wank - 20-30 minutes before a meet. 2nd time round should be longer.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have heard of some type of delay cream mentioned in here ?"

Yes numbing jells

But it’s hard to work with

Ie if they put it on before a bj then the person mouth is going numb

Also if they get it on the other person parts or on the outside off the condom then there gose the other person fun they go numb and not feel anything at all

Best method I can say is re load and go agein in 10 minutes

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple  over a year ago

Cumbria

Viagra will slow you down keep your hard lots of people go I'm not going to take pills but it's better than feeling like a failure

On occasion will take them when playing with protection on as after a while the feeling can go when you wrapped in rubber.

Just make sure you follow the instructions don't drink or in combination with other drugs legal or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Would a cock ring help?

Never tried but heard they delay

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By *partharmonyCouple  over a year ago

Ruislip

How about spending longer on foreplay and don't be in a hurry to go in?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Think of Janet Street Porter

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It’s a problem I’ve had in the past. Getting over excited can turn you into a hair trigger.

Numbing creams have the opposite effect and will likely cause your erection to fade away because you feel nothing.

An understanding playmate, loads of foreplay, taking breaks when you feel you’re at the point of no return, etc.

Also, don’t put pressure on yourself to ‘perform’ or ‘repeat’. Let whatever happens, happen.

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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"How about spending longer on foreplay and don't be in a hurry to go in?"

How did you get that from his post?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

My partner is not interested in foreplay Ive been trying for years she has no kinks just put it in and have done once every few months if I'm honest

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