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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m married but just get abuse "
Same here, I want and give total discretion but it seems some are so embedded in the lifestyle that they judge, criticise and seem to feel it is ok to verbally abuse. Surely we should all simply accept person choice and decision making. There is a potentially rich and rewarding playtime for us all but we also need to accept when we are aren’t the right fit for others too. |
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By *heerFlirtMan
over a year ago
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"I’m married but just get abuse
Same here, I want and give total discretion but it seems some are so embedded in the lifestyle that they judge, criticise and seem to feel it is ok to verbally abuse. Surely we should all simply accept person choice and decision making. There is a potentially rich and rewarding playtime for us all but we also need to accept when we are aren’t the right fit for others too. "
Hits the nail on the head 
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One of reasons we stick to singles is because it can be hard to know if they are single or not.
What cheaters have to understand is that the majority of us don't want the risk of possibly being dragged into a domestic and have to understand that trust and honesty is a important thing when is comes to swinging and being a cheat shows they don't have either.
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"Those of you who are married should state that on your profiles"
If your married and your on here without your partners permission , you should just become single .
The ones that make me laugh are the ones that boast about their honesty about being married but can’t be honest with the one person they should always be honest with !
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"Some very judgmental people this thread "
But what do you expect? Can't go expecting randomers to trust and believe whatever sob story they have for being on here as if they aren't honest and truthful with their own partner they aren't exactly going to be honest and truthful with randomers on here!
Don't care if that sounds judgemental, but cheaters have to see it from honest folks point of view.
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"I only do if their wife is fully aware they are on here.
Otherwise no thanks
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What if her exact words are go out and sort yourself out as long as I don’t hear about it or know about it ?"
Sorry I wouldn't meet as I'd need confirmation from the lady (I am half a couple and confirm to others that my partner meets with consent).
Others will meet though if you're upfront with them. |
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“SoMe VeRy JuDgEmEnTal PeOpLe”
Grow up. You made a vow to your spouse that you will be together through sickness, and in health, rich or poor, till death do you part.
You’re making a mockery of vows. Disgusting. |
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"We prefer men that are in a cpl situation and there other half doesn’t mind husband playing away.. "
That’s me. It doesn’t make any difference. Must couples just don’t believe it. I guess they’ve been burnt by liars previously |
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"“SoMe VeRy JuDgEmEnTal PeOpLe”
Grow up. You made a vow to your spouse that you will be together through sickness, and in health, rich or poor, till death do you part.
You’re making a mockery of vows. Disgusting. "
Vows also state "and keep you only unto him/her"
Not you can shag others with permission.
So if you want to get picky lots of you are breaking your vows.
Married couples on here just just choose which vows they want to follow?
Everyone has their own reason for being on here. Just because you don't approve does not give you the right to abuse them when you don't know their situation. |
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"“SoMe VeRy JuDgEmEnTal PeOpLe”
Grow up. You made a vow to your spouse that you will be together through sickness, and in health, rich or poor, till death do you part.
You’re making a mockery of vows. Disgusting.
Vows also state "and keep you only unto him/her"
Not you can shag others with permission.
So if you want to get picky lots of you are breaking your vows.
Married couples on here just just choose which vows they want to follow?
Everyone has their own reason for being on here. Just because you don't approve does not give you the right to abuse them when you don't know their situation. "
You do have the right to an opinion and the right to express it though , I have not seen anyone being abusive on this thread .
You don’t need to know someone’s situation to know that cheating is wrong and can end in catastrophe. |
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"“SoMe VeRy JuDgEmEnTal PeOpLe”
Grow up. You made a vow to your spouse that you will be together through sickness, and in health, rich or poor, till death do you part.
You’re making a mockery of vows. Disgusting.
Vows also state "and keep you only unto him/her"
Not you can shag others with permission.
So if you want to get picky lots of you are breaking your vows.
Married couples on here just just choose which vows they want to follow?
Everyone has their own reason for being on here. Just because you don't approve does not give you the right to abuse them when you don't know their situation. "
was going to say the exact same thing. A load of twaddle this "making a mockery" commentary. Folk have their own reasons for being on here,fair enough,but some of the nonsense you read on hear for excuses to denigrate people is laughable. Dont want involved in a domestic being another. Well unless you are meeting at yours or their home and have coughed up your phone number then how are you going to get dragged into it? |
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We will play with men in a club setting and we don’t ask or want to know their personal circumstances.
I see a lot of married or attached guys commenting on such posts why not put your efforts in to getting an actual meet, always club nights and socials you can attend to get verified and show people your genuine !! Live the lifestyle not try to meet while your wife is at work or you home alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cracking post.
Good to debate the whole married / swinging thing.
I personally (and it is just my opinion) don't care if people that I meet are married or not, it's their choice and are mature enough to sign upto this site. Let's face it, we're all animals and in it for one thing only.
Crack on I say... |
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I’m married, she’s fully aware and supportive.
In past she’s enjoyed hearing about it afterwards.
She’s had thoughts of wanting to join fab but is very much in the nervous shy camp.
Plus as a switch have tried to find sub space on here too, as she isn’t keen on switching.
I’m open and honest on profile, out of my control that way if people like/dislike.  |
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"“SoMe VeRy JuDgEmEnTal PeOpLe”
Grow up. You made a vow to your spouse that you will be together through sickness, and in health, rich or poor, till death do you part.
You’re making a mockery of vows. Disgusting.
Vows also state "and keep you only unto him/her"
Not you can shag others with permission.
So if you want to get picky lots of you are breaking your vows.
Married couples on here just just choose which vows they want to follow?
Everyone has their own reason for being on here. Just because you don't approve does not give you the right to abuse them when you don't know their situation.
You do have the right to an opinion and the right to express it though , I have not seen anyone being abusive on this thread .
You don’t need to know someone’s situation to know that cheating is wrong and can end in catastrophe."
My point is you have no idea of their situation.
My partner was terminally ill and passed away 3 years ago. We couldn't have a physical relationship for 4 years prior to his death. He told me to find someone else to have sex with but he wanted to know nothing about it if I did. I had his blessing although I never did it.
Others could be in a similar situation. I don't judge simply from a sentence on a profile where the person is being honest about being married.
You have a choice not to meet them but you don't have the right to judge without the facts. |
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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago
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"Some very judgmental people this thread "
Not necessarily judgmental.... But if someone is going to lie to the person they are supposed to love, then why would they be honest to complete strangers on here? |
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"“SoMe VeRy JuDgEmEnTal PeOpLe”
Grow up. You made a vow to your spouse that you will be together through sickness, and in health, rich or poor, till death do you part.
You’re making a mockery of vows. Disgusting.
Vows also state "and keep you only unto him/her"
Not you can shag others with permission.
So if you want to get picky lots of you are breaking your vows.
Married couples on here just just choose which vows they want to follow?
Everyone has their own reason for being on here. Just because you don't approve does not give you the right to abuse them when you don't know their situation.
You do have the right to an opinion and the right to express it though , I have not seen anyone being abusive on this thread .
You don’t need to know someone’s situation to know that cheating is wrong and can end in catastrophe.
My point is you have no idea of their situation.
My partner was terminally ill and passed away 3 years ago. We couldn't have a physical relationship for 4 years prior to his death. He told me to find someone else to have sex with but he wanted to know nothing about it if I did. I had his blessing although I never did it.
Others could be in a similar situation. I don't judge simply from a sentence on a profile where the person is being honest about being married.
You have a choice not to meet them but you don't have the right to judge without the facts. "
I don't think anyone has a problem with people who have permission or consent from their other halves to be here, it's the dishonest ones that people like to avoid.
If there are people that are in a similar situation to you but instead choose to cheat without them knowing or without their blessing then we'd class them as absolute scum and they need to have a long look at themselves as a human being.
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This is a great and passionate conversation. Do people have the same feeling if the wife is meeting couples without the husbands knowledge?? The obvious answer is yes.. but do we? If a pretty lady messages you saying she would like to come and spend a few hours with you are you going to interrogate her as much as men are?? Just a thought.. |
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"One of reasons we stick to singles is because it can be hard to know if they are single or not.
What cheaters have to understand is that the majority of us don't want the risk of possibly being dragged into a domestic and have to understand that trust and honesty is a important thing when is comes to swinging and being a cheat shows they don't have either.
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Totally agree, this is our view as well. Don't really want an irate wife causing problems. Sex in a club scene is different to in someone's home where their wife could come home unexpectedly or find out what's going on and turn up on our doorstep.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well men and women can cheat on there partners there is always a reson why they could be in a lovless marriage or a sexless marriage but who knows
we should not condemed there choice as log as you or the other person don't hurt eachother and enjoy the time together what is wrong with that |
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I was very fortunate back where we used to live in having a playmate for whom my being married and 'playing away' was a huge turn-on...
....doubly so because she was also playing with me behind her husband's back...  |
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"“SoMe VeRy JuDgEmEnTal PeOpLe”
Grow up. You made a vow to your spouse that you will be together through sickness, and in health, rich or poor, till death do you part.
You’re making a mockery of vows. Disgusting.
Vows also state "and keep you only unto him/her"
Not you can shag others with permission.
So if you want to get picky lots of you are breaking your vows.
Married couples on here just just choose which vows they want to follow?
Everyone has their own reason for being on here. Just because you don't approve does not give you the right to abuse them when you don't know their situation.
You do have the right to an opinion and the right to express it though , I have not seen anyone being abusive on this thread .
You don’t need to know someone’s situation to know that cheating is wrong and can end in catastrophe.
My point is you have no idea of their situation.
My partner was terminally ill and passed away 3 years ago. We couldn't have a physical relationship for 4 years prior to his death. He told me to find someone else to have sex with but he wanted to know nothing about it if I did. I had his blessing although I never did it.
Others could be in a similar situation. I don't judge simply from a sentence on a profile where the person is being honest about being married.
You have a choice not to meet them but you don't have the right to judge without the facts. "
Difference is that your partner knew and was supportive of you doing it , lying to your partner about it is not on . |
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"This is a great and passionate conversation. Do people have the same feeling if the wife is meeting couples without the husbands knowledge?? The obvious answer is yes.. but do we? If a pretty lady messages you saying she would like to come and spend a few hours with you are you going to interrogate her as much as men are?? Just a thought.. "
Yes . |
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"Some very judgmental people this thread
I make no apology for it , it’s a swingers site not a cheaters site .
Say it louder, for the ones in the back  "
Here for this
And that applies to any sex before the men start the woe is me, if it was a woman it’d be different moan ha |
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"well men and women can cheat on there partners there is always a reson why they could be in a lovless marriage or a sexless marriage but who knows
we should not condemed there choice as log as you or the other person don't hurt eachother and enjoy the time together what is wrong with that "
I will always condemn those choices , along with people who are happy to be the other man/ woman .
There are always other choices than cheating , it’s just a lot of people are too weak minded to take them . |
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"Some very judgmental people this thread
I make no apology for it , it’s a swingers site not a cheaters site .
Say it louder, for the ones in the back
Here for this
And that applies to any sex before the men start the woe is me, if it was a woman it’d be different moan ha"
So glad there are a few others on here with some morals and a heart , anyone who has felt the pain of being shit on by someone you love , should never want to inflict that pain on others . |
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most of the guys we played with where also married , everyone has there excuses, we are not her to judge what others do is up to them, but for me the husband i rather liked the thought of them cheating on there wife to be with mine , there was never any chance of them leaving there wives , for us its about fun , and if we could put some fun into others lives to then thats good, mind you it did feel good saying good night to them , knowing they had empty balls |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably most the single people you meet are married lol. How will you ever know unless you get someone knocking at you door? "
Soon as they say the can only do daytime meets during the week I instantly think they are cheating on a partner maybe just the way my mind works!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"much prefered. they are safer
Safer how?
I’ve only had drama on here once and that was with a married man who lied ha!
(I obviously showed all evidence to said wife and confirmed everything  ) "
Why would you do that?
And how would you even get the opportunity? |
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"much prefered. they are safer
Safer how?
I’ve only had drama on here once and that was with a married man who lied ha!
(I obviously showed all evidence to said wife and confirmed everything )
Why would you do that?
And how would you even get the opportunity?"
Because she made contact with me after she found out (I didn’t/ wouldn’t go looking, should have clarified that!)
I’m not lying to her and covering for him, why would I? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably most the single people you meet are married lol. How will you ever know unless you get someone knocking at you door?
Soon as they say the can only do daytime meets during the week I instantly think they are cheating on a partner maybe just the way my mind works!!"
Or maybe they work night shift, with overtime I can work 6 or 7 nights a week. I'd rather be open to overtime than letting a potential meet down because of work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wives who like other wives husbands !!!!
As long as everyone is aware, why not."
Because ‘Fab Judgement’, where other people decide on your martial situation and dynamic on your behalf, without even knowing you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on the guy.
One messaged mine and hubby's couples profile claiming to be a "bad boy".
When asked what made him a bad boy he told us it was because he liked to fuck other women then make his wife suck his cock when he got home, without him knowing he had met.
Instant block.
However marriages are complicated.
Meeting a single guy who is already married could take out some of the complications of meeting a guy as a couple. Mostly of the single guy getting to needy or wanting more than sex with myself.
So it really depends on the guy, his attitude. Myself and Mr have both been in sexually unsatisfying relationships, and although not proud of it, both played away while in these. |
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Not sure if we fit in the category but as you will see on our profile, Mrs likes watching mr with other people's Mrs and joining in when she likes. She gets a kick out of other women wanting to have me but ultimately I'm hers. Kind of like a opposite of hotwife. |
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