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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We never realised how difficult it would be to either arrange or have an arranged gang bang..
Dawn enjoys multiple guys at clubs, but instead of having to travel many miles we thought perhaps having one nearer home..
Not as easy as thought lots of guys talk the talk but then back out just do not show up..
anyone else have this problem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had the same problem two weeks ago. 22 guys confirmed they were coming. How many showed?
Three.
The rest when very quiet while remaining online..incredible how many arses fall out when you say yes to a single guy!! To get 10 you’ll need 50 that say yes. |
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I have arranged and attended a fair few.
But its always been the case that you need to add 30-50% more guys than you actually want.
I did have a group of reliable guys but they all drifted off and found long term partners, damm shame really.
Do love a nice sticky GB |
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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago
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"Use to be quite easy want 6 cocks invite 8 possibly get 5 now want 6 invite 20 4 might turn up "
Be carefully what you wish for, we wanted MMMF session so told to invite 5 and all 5 turned up. |
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"We had the same problem two weeks ago. 22 guys confirmed they were coming. How many showed?
Three.
The rest when very quiet while remaining online..incredible how many arses fall out when you say yes to a single guy!! To get 10 you’ll need 50 that say yes. "
We invited 6 one time.
Nobody turned up. Lol
Went for a pizza and a movie instead. |
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In my experience you have to invite the guys who either you know or who have proper veris to prove they turn up. I know a few couples who try to organise gb’s or parties and they all say the drop off in numbers is crazy - which kind of makes a mockery of all those guys who complain that they can’t get a meet.
If people have proven they are reliable then you can probably rely on them to turn up. |
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"I love a good gangbang but it's these profiles that charge £100+ to attend a gangbang puts me off. "
I went to one at VA years ago, didn't expect to get charge so heavy at the door, about £100, I travelled, so paid, but found i out why once inside, as the club had rented it out to a woman from Birmingham, who had 4 other girls there.and 50 paying guys, plus a few burly minders. Clearly hookers, get 1hr of blow job's then 30 minute break, then an hour of fucking/gangbang.
But rules, rules,rules. Felt ripped off. Then got asked to leave, only to find another bunch of men waiting to get in for the evening shift. |
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"In my experience you have to invite the guys who either you know or who have proper veris to prove they turn up. I know a few couples who try to organise gb’s or parties and they all say the drop off in numbers is crazy - which kind of makes a mockery of all those guys who complain that they can’t get a meet.
If people have proven they are reliable then you can probably rely on them to turn up."
You would thinks so, but nothing is guaranteed. We organised a small group gathering a few months ago. Had loads of guys with verifications say they were “in” so we chose a select few, ones who had been messaging for ages and had good verifications (apparently) gave time and location and still had to call on some stand ins last minute as 4 guys all with more than 15 veris each went quiet and ignored messages. Felt like just because they had loads of veris, that gave them the right to mess people about. Annoyingly, we and the guy hosting had put so much effort into arranging the evening which is something these timewasters have no consideration for. Total lack of respect. |
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It’s really annoying for us guys who will turn up if invited. I would say contact my veris to see what kind of person I am, but what would promote trust that someone will actually turn up? I’d love to participate but understand the hesitation when you get so many no shows. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The main reason that I gave up on arranging a gangbang was how hard it was. It not just you having to invite more than you want but it's the number of messages that you get from guys asking if they can come early or ask if it would be a one on one.
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I think the easiest way to organise it is to do it at a club on a night when single men are welcome, and then just use you would like an invite them to your selected area.
You already have a choice of people, the venue and the atmosphere. |
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"In my experience you have to invite the guys who either you know or who have proper veris to prove they turn up. I know a few couples who try to organise gb’s or parties and they all say the drop off in numbers is crazy - which kind of makes a mockery of all those guys who complain that they can’t get a meet.
If people have proven they are reliable then you can probably rely on them to turn up.
You would thinks so, but nothing is guaranteed. We organised a small group gathering a few months ago. Had loads of guys with verifications say they were “in” so we chose a select few, ones who had been messaging for ages and had good verifications (apparently) gave time and location and still had to call on some stand ins last minute as 4 guys all with more than 15 veris each went quiet and ignored messages. Felt like just because they had loads of veris, that gave them the right to mess people about. Annoyingly, we and the guy hosting had put so much effort into arranging the evening which is something these timewasters have no consideration for. Total lack of respect. "
I am sorry to hear that. I didn’t say it was guaranteed but in my experience I tend see couples meet the same people so maybe they know they can generally trust them?
I can imagine that if everyone was a new invite (verified or not) then that makes it more likely to be a no show. |
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For the ones I have helped organise it is usually a 50% drop out or no show from the guys... so be prepared to invite twice the amount that the lady at the center of attention would be happy with. |
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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago
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"We never realised how difficult it would be to either arrange or have an arranged gang bang..
Dawn enjoys multiple guys at clubs, but instead of having to travel many miles we thought perhaps having one nearer home..
Not as easy as thought lots of guys talk the talk but then back out just do not show up..
anyone else have this problem?"
Yes tell me about it. We've tried arranging it but not successful so far |
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"We never realised how difficult it would be to either arrange or have an arranged gang bang..
Dawn enjoys multiple guys at clubs, but instead of having to travel many miles we thought perhaps having one nearer home..
Not as easy as thought lots of guys talk the talk but then back out just do not show up..
anyone else have this problem?"
You've got more chance of getting a wank from the pope than you have of all the blokes turning up as arranged. We've given up trying to get one sorted |
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“how hard to get a gangbang” Discuss!
All I can say is when I attend a gangbang the ladies are superhot and consequently us males get very hard indeed. If we weren’t it wouldn’t end up a gangbang but more like a masonic lodge with a visiting nun!  |
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"We never realised how difficult it would be to either arrange or have an arranged gang bang..
Dawn enjoys multiple guys at clubs, but instead of having to travel many miles we thought perhaps having one nearer home..
Not as easy as thought lots of guys talk the talk but then back out just do not show up..
anyone else have this problem?
You've got more chance of getting a wank from the pope than you have of all the blokes turning up as arranged. We've given up trying to get one sorted "
The current Pope has very liberal views so I think your chance of getting a wank from him is probably fairly good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been to a couple of gangbangs. One of the organisers said that older men were more reliable, and that men around my age were much more likely to turn up. |
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I would imagine it's maybe much easier to just accept the travelling and go the club route The atmosphere is there from the start and there's a ready supply of willing guys. The more house party type of events tend to be better or so we've found. |
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Noted. I was considering setting one up for my FB (it's number #1 on her Fuck-it-list) but after reading the above comments I may not bother, I'm sure all manner of chaos and random car trouble would ensure! |
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As a couple who loves Gb's, they can be very frustrating to organise. So many talk the talk, time wasters and limp dicks. Not to mention the ones thats just want to come and watch. Ones that want to meet before for a 1 on 1.
We also get the cold callers after saying let them know the next one and they will turn up. Or if they'd of known about it, they would of been there.
So very frustrating, when everyday you see status saying they can't get meets.
Theres no answer to it. It's got worse over the years. But that's the luck and excitment of swinging. You never know what your gonna get. We're old school swingers. We never do the same type of meet in a row. If we go doggin today. We're go clubbing next ect. Mix it up keep it fresh and exciting. And if we don't meet others, we still have an amazing time between us.
Ps, I'd love to have 50 guys for my 50th next Nov. That won't happen, but a girl can dream. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Stop cry that nobody meet you when you look on the other part of the wall "
I am sure you may have all of the words in there somewhere but any chance you can put them into some sort of coherent sentence?
Either that or your pissed |
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"As a couple who loves Gb's, they can be very frustrating to organise. So many talk the talk, time wasters and limp dicks. Not to mention the ones thats just want to come and watch. Ones that want to meet before for a 1 on 1.
We also get the cold callers after saying let them know the next one and they will turn up. Or if they'd of known about it, they would of been there.
So very frustrating, when everyday you see status saying they can't get meets.
Theres no answer to it. It's got worse over the years. But that's the luck and excitment of swinging. You never know what your gonna get. We're old school swingers. We never do the same type of meet in a row. If we go doggin today. We're go clubbing next ect. Mix it up keep it fresh and exciting. And if we don't meet others, we still have an amazing time between us.
Ps, I'd love to have 50 guys for my 50th next Nov. That won't happen, but a girl can dream. "
Love your tent pics. Yes mixing up experiences keeps it fresh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d love one but really fussy and the groups around here do nothing for me ( sorry! )
However I did arrange one myself perhaps 8 yrs ago via Fab. 11 turned up, over 7 hrs 
Those were the Fab days  |
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By *al kalMan
over a year ago
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only chat to people here who are user verified for a start. Otherwise the suggestion's mentioned before of going to venues and clubs and exchanging contact details with people you get along with, like, think you can trust. Or simply do it in the clubs there and then spontaneously.... |
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I really think you need several preparatory meets, leading up to a gangbang. Include socials potentially in check compatibility. Having smaller groups is good too, just 2 or 3 people - helps check they are OK with others and perform.
Some men like to hide in groups, so you can filter those out.
These also help you to gauge reliability too, of course.
Typically the most unreliable are a group of unknowns. It can work but often causes disappointment. If you're not relying on available men at clubs and that spontaneity, increasing the reliability and compatibility factors in advance, is the surer way. And meeting up front is also a lot of pleasure too. I also find these friends endure and can evolve into more action in future. You learn as you go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is not my type more than threesome is not good for me.. I want to feel her and enjoy her completely....not intrested in enjoying only a little bit part of her ! |
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"You need to find an established, reliable group of guys.
Such as mine."
Sadly, no reliable established groups that I have found down our way. Therefore, have to arrange it myself.
Hopefully Saturday will be a success. 3 of the 10 are guys we have met before and then there is the host (if he doesn’t turn up we are all fucked …. Or not as the case may be!) The rest have all been meet verified, so we will have to wait and see! |
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"I love a good gangbang but it's these profiles that charge £100+ to attend a gangbang puts me off. "
Its the £100 contribution you need to put in for the £68 a night Premier Inn they are staying in.
I always find that somewhat difficult to get my head around  |
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"I love a good gangbang but it's these profiles that charge £100+ to attend a gangbang puts me off.
I went to one at VA years ago, didn't expect to get charge so heavy at the door, about £100, I travelled, so paid, but found i out why once inside, as the club had rented it out to a woman from Birmingham, who had 4 other girls there.and 50 paying guys, plus a few burly minders. Clearly hookers, get 1hr of blow job's then 30 minute break, then an hour of fucking/gangbang.
But rules, rules,rules. Felt ripped off. Then got asked to leave, only to find another bunch of men waiting to get in for the evening shift."
There are definitely profiles on here that advertise too regularly for meets. All of which are paid meets. Definitely sex workers and not swingers  |
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"Use to be quite easy want 6 cocks invite 8 possibly get 5 now want 6 invite 20 4 might turn up
Be carefully what you wish for, we wanted MMMF session so told to invite 5 and all 5 turned up. "
That doesn’t sound like a problem! |
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