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Do we chat first or just fuck?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By *ootprints1629Couple  over a year ago

somewhere in moray


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It's shocking how many men we have msg us with nothing on their profile..no pics or profile pic and just ask...do you wanna fuck...yeah course..even though we have no clue who you are, what you look like etc...even with just a couple of pics we do socials first.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Does anyone just fuck? Even the quick ones surely would like a little bit of a connection.

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By *elboy64Man  over a year ago

weston

Need to chat and get to know each other, plus a bit of flirting.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman  over a year ago

all loved up


"Does anyone just fuck? Even the quick ones surely would like a little bit of a connection. "
yes I've done so at clubs but I do prefer to have chatted. Its rare I know names though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Does anyone just fuck? Even the quick ones surely would like a little bit of a connection. yes I've done so at clubs but I do prefer to have chatted. Its rare I know names though. "

Fair enough. Would argue clubs completely different though.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman  over a year ago

all loved up


"Does anyone just fuck? Even the quick ones surely would like a little bit of a connection. yes I've done so at clubs but I do prefer to have chatted. Its rare I know names though.

Fair enough. Would argue clubs completely different though. "

even back when I did private meets. The only chat was to agree the when and the where and that it was safe sex with a bukkake finish not one for small talk sexually

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan  over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


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It's shocking how many men we have msg us with nothing on their profile..no pics or profile pic and just ask...do you wanna fuck...yeah course..even though we have no clue who you are, what you look like etc...even with just a couple of pics we do socials first."

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Its called BRAINLESS

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By *AYENCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Are you asking specifically, or 'in general' OP?

There's a massive spectrum, and you need to work out where you and he/ she/they fit within it.

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By *onnyh19Man  over a year ago

leeds

Depends who's asking

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By *xydadbodMan  over a year ago

Milton keynes

I do prefer chatting first though. It gives us both an idea what the other is like beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hahah 99% of our inbox

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have done this once while blindfolded in a hotel. Left it to husband to sort was a big turn on. Not knowing and seeing

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By *andb69Couple  over a year ago

leeds

I'm not looking for a 'connection'. I have that with my partner. I also swing to fulfill my sexual fantasies, and those don't include discussing the weather. I prefer anonymous sex with another guy (or guys) and that's why we play almost entirely in clubs.

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By *sBlueWoman  over a year ago

Up North

It’s no wonder some people can’t get to meet anyone on here

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

Seven play meets in five years is probably the best way to describe my approach which is probably not the norm for most.

Maybe it qualifies me for a timewaster badge?

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By *wakers14Man  over a year ago

burgess hill

Send enough messages And you will get a yes at some point.

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By *orthern StarsCouple  over a year ago

Durham

We like to chat and get to know people a little first. However, in some fantasy situations, no chatting would take place with Mrs beforehand.

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple  over a year ago

Camberley


"Have done this once while blindfolded in a hotel. Left it to husband to sort was a big turn on. Not knowing and seeing "

Wow bet that was fun. Quite fancy this ourselves....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fill in later.

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By *ootprints1629Couple  over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"..

It's shocking how many men we have msg us with nothing on their profile..no pics or profile pic and just ask...do you wanna fuck...yeah course..even though we have no clue who you are, what you look like etc...even with just a couple of pics we do socials first.

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Its called BRAINLESS "

Yep brains in their cock.

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By *exy4youxxWoman  over a year ago

Pontefract


"Fill in later."

Yup and a year later they still filling it in later ... oh only with a added bonus of a whining status of how bad we are for not dropping our knickers to someone we don't know and how bad fab is lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"..

It's shocking how many men we have msg us with nothing on their profile..no pics or profile pic and just ask...do you wanna fuck...yeah course..even though we have no clue who you are, what you look like etc...even with just a couple of pics we do socials first."

Show a total lack of respect to anyone let alone a couple who might want to invite you into play

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman  over a year ago

at work


"Fill in later."

Laughing so hard here x

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By *andemanMan  over a year ago

bedforshire

Funny but in clubs often you dont introduce yourself until after you have fucked. Weird i know but it seams the norm. Perhaps its the fun of stranger sex?

Now as fir people you have quality sex with these you always chat to first.

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By *pottydog46Man  over a year ago

rainham

Prefer a chat first, even if it’s a quick 20 minute drink. Helps build the mood, especially if you’re in for a good few hours of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I regularly used to entertain ladies at my place, always a drink and chat first and we’d have chatted on here quite a bit before hand. The chat would

normally last 15 mins or so, a bit of life history of how we ended up here, and then a final are you happy to stay longer sort of chat and then the fun begins.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple  over a year ago

Rushden


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It's shocking how many men we have msg us with nothing on their profile..no pics or profile pic and just ask...do you wanna fuck...yeah course..even though we have no clue who you are, what you look like etc...even with just a couple of pics we do socials first."

omg this, then they get an attitude because you dont reply. I mean, give us something to work with at least lol.

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By *hilliplisa790Couple  over a year ago

Paignton

We get loads of messages from guys without profile pictures asking if we are looking to fuck right now. Guys have to understand that us women are not just sitting here naked with our legs apart waiting for the postmans special delivery

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Always have to chat first, sit down, glass of wine, talk about likes and no no's.

If you can't connect with someone on a mental level then I don't see the point. After all if all you want is sex then just head over to A.W for that, I like fab for the social side of things just as much as the Carnal. Spooning and contact along with chitchat afterwards is just as important to me and you're not about to hold someone and talk to them if there's no connection. Just my take on it, I know many will think differently

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Chat

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By *ornucopiaMan  over a year ago

Bexley


"Fill in later.

Laughing so hard here x "

Maybe it's vaginas they are thinking about, not profiles!

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