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Finding people!?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hey all

We've been on the site about a year had a few meets love showing off, but we find it hard to find new people. Are we to fussy?

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple over a year ago

Fucksville

No such thing as too fussy x you have standards clearly and that's what will keep you safe and happy x numbers don't count x x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah theres that way to look at it, we do get ghosted alot after exchanging number and that must be doing something wrong lol

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple over a year ago

Fucksville

Their loss! X x do you ever go to clubs? X so, much fun to be had there

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

No never been theres one local to us, but apparently not any goodx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No we are the same

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Nice to know it isnt just us then lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah theres that way to look at it, we do get ghosted alot after exchanging number and that must be doing something wrong lol

When people Ghost,flake,block,no show.

Their actions have fully shown do not waste any time on them.

Delete them and move on

Next please I say! Lol

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By *uenevereWoman over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Clubs are far and away the best option in my opinion.

There's the chance to dance and socialise and hopefully more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can’t be too picky in swinging. There are plenty of creeps out there, particularly on the internet!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Guess we have to keep persisting lol the right people will come along eventually thanks guys

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By *enuine MikeMan over a year ago

Guildford

I dont think fussy is the right word. I think its compatibility that most of us look to find.

We all have differences, querks and an ideology of what we are looking for.

Someone's view on attractiveness is different from another. Its finding someone with that common ground that is the key ingredient.

Im glad it's not just single guys then that struggle with meets on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We dont wanna meet with anyone and everyone lol

We know the type of people we like and want to meet!

Yeah we do struggle to find people local, we think our profile is okay get alot of people just after my boobs lol

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By *oeBiggs321Man over a year ago

Reading

This site will always have the issue of ghosting and picture collectors unfortunately its all just part of the process! But when you do find that diamond in the rough it does make it just that little bit better so keep searching you’ll find someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Have to keep searching!! We've had our share of pic collectors and fakes to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have to keep searching!! We've had our share of pic collectors and fakes to.

Saying that I can see why you’ve amassed some picture collectors!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I know, they all want boobs lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am sure you are not short of willing partucipants. You evidently know what you want and if you want to deviate (or deviant, if you wish) then that is your choice and discretion. Happy to chat by the way, like your profile

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

"Hey all

We've been on the site about a year had a few meets love showing off, but we find it hard to find new people. Are we to fussy?

As usual with fab, the problem is not the fact that you have standards which you look for (not fussy at all) but the fact that a large proportion of profiles are fantasists and fakes just look for a cheap thrill from viewing people’s pics or getting off on the chat.

I would definitely recommend trying to get to a club or an organised social meet if you want to find genuine people!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah think we are going to have to get down a club!!

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

Going to a club is by far the best thing you could do as a couple.

We've recently had our first club experience and it was a real game changer.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No such thing as too fussy x you have standards clearly and that's what will keep you safe and happy x numbers don't count x x x "

Indeed quality over quantity, plus sometimes distance does play a part

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By *addy bareMan over a year ago

lakeside

Nothing wrong with being fussy,some wierdos out there.

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