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"You are going at the wrong time. I have never been to Phuket, or slept with a katoey, but here are some of the problems that you will be faced with: In Thailand, masks in public and indoor groups are still mandatory. And the law is enforced. If you find a katoey on the street, you won’t see the bottom half of her face until you get her to your room The foreign tourist industry is dead. Most of the people who work in it, e.g. katoeys, have gone home. Your choice on the streets will be minimal. All “night entertainment” venues are closed – this includes all sorts of bars, so you’ll not have the security of hiring a katoey from a bar. “Street” katoeys are notoriously dishonest. This will be much worse because of the prevalent poverty. You will almost certainly have to resort to the internet to find a partner. And what you will see on the dating websites will most likely not be what you’ll subsequently find on your doorstep. Many of the people are desperate for money. Before your date arrives, lock everything of value in your room safe: computer, phone, passport, credit and debit cards, money (except her fee), everything. ETIQUETTE If she looks OK, pay her on arrival. This will reduce her anxiety level. In your hotel room: Take your shoes off at the door. Offer her a drink, and food if possible, e.g. a plate of mixed chopped fruit. Not ice cream because many Easterners lose the ability to break down lactose, the main sugar in milk, by their teens. It gives them the runs, like dysentery. This lack of milk in the diet is major cause of the high incidence of osteoporosis in Thailand. Turn the room’s air-conditioning down or off. She lives in a hot country, and goose bumps aren’t a turn-on. You both shower. Make sure she has a clean dry towel. She will keep it on in bed. Wet! It’s how you cool down if you don’t have air conditioning. Buy shower hats at the local 7/11 if necessary. Don't let her see the soles of your feet. Don't touch her head. Don't talk about politics or the Royal Family. Have a condom or three handy, some lube, and a toilet roll. If you make a date to meet at a specific time and place, don’t expect her to turn up on the dot. She may well live far away where rents are lower. She could spend three or four hours trying to get to you by bus. Allow her at least half an hour leeway. Give the maid who does your hotel room B100 every day. Accidents happen. " I thought I had read everything there was to comprehend on the fab forum but a guide to hiring a sex worker takes the biscuit! The worrying thing is that it’s a serious post! | |||
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" I thought I had read everything there was to comprehend on the fab forum but a guide to hiring a sex worker takes the biscuit! The worrying thing is that it’s a serious post!" What is worrying about a serious post giving another member tips he's asked for that will help him to enjoy his holiday? The sex industry exists, it always has done, and may always do. Quite a few Fab members work in the industry, one way or another. | |||
" I thought I had read everything there was to comprehend on the fab forum but a guide to hiring a sex worker takes the biscuit! The worrying thing is that it’s a serious post! What is worrying about a serious post giving another member tips he's asked for that will help him to enjoy his holiday? The sex industry exists, it always has done, and may always do. Quite a few Fab members work in the industry, one way or another. " Can you prove your last sentence? | |||
"I'm flying to phuket Thailand on sunday. I've wondered about sleeping with a ladyboy. I don't know but there is something about fucking one then getting fucked back. Has anyone else got any stories or tips on how to go about this thank you." The last I heard, there is no alcohol being served in bars but you can but it in the supermarket and drink in your hotel room. Clubs are shut too!  | |||
" Can you prove your last sentence?" I can prove that two female members in my (small) area are prostitutes, and assume that they are far from unique. And no, they aren’t “looking for business” with other members. Can you answer a question without changing the subject, which was your worries about my previous post? | |||
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"You are going at the wrong time. I have never been to Phuket, or slept with a katoey, but here are some of the problems that you will be faced with: In Thailand, masks in public and indoor groups are still mandatory. And the law is enforced. If you find a katoey on the street, you won’t see the bottom half of her face until you get her to your room The foreign tourist industry is dead. Most of the people who work in it, e.g. katoeys, have gone home. Your choice on the streets will be minimal. All “night entertainment” venues are closed – this includes all sorts of bars, so you’ll not have the security of hiring a katoey from a bar. “Street” katoeys are notoriously dishonest. This will be much worse because of the prevalent poverty. You will almost certainly have to resort to the internet to find a partner. And what you will see on the dating websites will most likely not be what you’ll subsequently find on your doorstep. Many of the people are desperate for money. Before your date arrives, lock everything of value in your room safe: computer, phone, passport, credit and debit cards, money (except her fee), everything. ETIQUETTE If she looks OK, pay her on arrival. This will reduce her anxiety level. In your hotel room: Take your shoes off at the door. Offer her a drink, and food if possible, e.g. a plate of mixed chopped fruit. Not ice cream because many Easterners lose the ability to break down lactose, the main sugar in milk, by their teens. It gives them the runs, like dysentery. This lack of milk in the diet is major cause of the high incidence of osteoporosis in Thailand. Turn the room’s air-conditioning down or off. She lives in a hot country, and goose bumps aren’t a turn-on. You both shower. Make sure she has a clean dry towel. She will keep it on in bed. Wet! It’s how you cool down if you don’t have air conditioning. Buy shower hats at the local 7/11 if necessary. Don't let her see the soles of your feet. Don't touch her head. Don't talk about politics or the Royal Family. Have a condom or three handy, some lube, and a toilet roll. If you make a date to meet at a specific time and place, don’t expect her to turn up on the dot. She may well live far away where rents are lower. She could spend three or four hours trying to get to you by bus. Allow her at least half an hour leeway. Give the maid who does your hotel room B100 every day. Accidents happen. " Just have a wank | |||
" Can you prove your last sentence? I can prove that two female members in my (small) area are prostitutes, and assume that they are far from unique. And no, they aren’t “looking for business” with other members. Can you answer a question without changing the subject, which was your worries about my previous post? " You have lost me? | |||
"I think you need some manners and show them some respect. The way you describe ‘fucking one’ isn’t nice. Im sure you can arrange this out there by visiting the right bars and asking the girls/boys Themselves " I don’t really see it as a lack of manners or respect. Are you one of these people who gets offended on other peoples behalf? I’m sure the sex workers themselves call it fucking or something equally matter of fact or deadpan. It’s a business transaction after all. So long as you’re nice about it, who cares. You’re surely not making love to them? | |||
"You are going at the wrong time. I have never been to Phuket, or slept with a katoey, but here are some of the problems that you will be faced with: In Thailand, masks in public and indoor groups are still mandatory. And the law is enforced. If you find a katoey on the street, you won’t see the bottom half of her face until you get her to your room The foreign tourist industry is dead. Most of the people who work in it, e.g. katoeys, have gone home. Your choice on the streets will be minimal. All “night entertainment” venues are closed – this includes all sorts of bars, so you’ll not have the security of hiring a katoey from a bar. “Street” katoeys are notoriously dishonest. This will be much worse because of the prevalent poverty. You will almost certainly have to resort to the internet to find a partner. And what you will see on the dating websites will most likely not be what you’ll subsequently find on your doorstep. Many of the people are desperate for money. Before your date arrives, lock everything of value in your room safe: computer, phone, passport, credit and debit cards, money (except her fee), everything. ETIQUETTE If she looks OK, pay her on arrival. This will reduce her anxiety level. In your hotel room: Take your shoes off at the door. Offer her a drink, and food if possible, e.g. a plate of mixed chopped fruit. Not ice cream because many Easterners lose the ability to break down lactose, the main sugar in milk, by their teens. It gives them the runs, like dysentery. This lack of milk in the diet is major cause of the high incidence of osteoporosis in Thailand. Turn the room’s air-conditioning down or off. She lives in a hot country, and goose bumps aren’t a turn-on. You both shower. Make sure she has a clean dry towel. She will keep it on in bed. Wet! It’s how you cool down if you don’t have air conditioning. Buy shower hats at the local 7/11 if necessary. Don't let her see the soles of your feet. Don't touch her head. Don't talk about politics or the Royal Family. Have a condom or three handy, some lube, and a toilet roll. If you make a date to meet at a specific time and place, don’t expect her to turn up on the dot. She may well live far away where rents are lower. She could spend three or four hours trying to get to you by bus. Allow her at least half an hour leeway. Give the maid who does your hotel room B100 every day. Accidents happen. " Thank you for posting this, the majority of it I didn’t know and wouldn’t have considered before reading that. Hopefully I’ll remember it all and one day will be in a position where I’ll need to recall it as it’s a dream of mine to go to Thailand some day and sleep with a Ladyboy...preferably one who prefers to be a top to bottoms like me. Can I ask why we shouldn’t talk about The Royal Family though and do you mean our Royal Family or theirs....or both. To be honest, it’s not something that I’d consider discussing in that situation but it’s good to know I need to stop myself if do feel the urge to mention them haha. | |||
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"Their royal family. Covered by strict Lèse-majesté law that has no admissible defence. Longest sentence I heard of this year is 43 years in the Big Tiger, reduced from something like 90 years for pleading guilty. Rare for foreigners to get indicted unless they were way out of line. ??????????? Thrng phra ceri?" So it’s illegal to talk about their Royal Family? | |||
"You are going at the wrong time. I have never been to Phuket, or slept with a katoey, but here are some of the problems that you will be faced with: In Thailand, masks in public and indoor groups are still mandatory. And the law is enforced. If you find a katoey on the street, you won’t see the bottom half of her face until you get her to your room The foreign tourist industry is dead. Most of the people who work in it, e.g. katoeys, have gone home. Your choice on the streets will be minimal. All “night entertainment” venues are closed – this includes all sorts of bars, so you’ll not have the security of hiring a katoey from a bar. “Street” katoeys are notoriously dishonest. This will be much worse because of the prevalent poverty. You will almost certainly have to resort to the internet to find a partner. And what you will see on the dating websites will most likely not be what you’ll subsequently find on your doorstep. Many of the people are desperate for money. Before your date arrives, lock everything of value in your room safe: computer, phone, passport, credit and debit cards, money (except her fee), everything. ETIQUETTE If she looks OK, pay her on arrival. This will reduce her anxiety level. In your hotel room: Take your shoes off at the door. Offer her a drink, and food if possible, e.g. a plate of mixed chopped fruit. Not ice cream because many Easterners lose the ability to break down lactose, the main sugar in milk, by their teens. It gives them the runs, like dysentery. This lack of milk in the diet is major cause of the high incidence of osteoporosis in Thailand. Turn the room’s air-conditioning down or off. She lives in a hot country, and goose bumps aren’t a turn-on. You both shower. Make sure she has a clean dry towel. She will keep it on in bed. Wet! It’s how you cool down if you don’t have air conditioning. Buy shower hats at the local 7/11 if necessary. Don't let her see the soles of your feet. Don't touch her head. Don't talk about politics or the Royal Family. Have a condom or three handy, some lube, and a toilet roll. If you make a date to meet at a specific time and place, don’t expect her to turn up on the dot. She may well live far away where rents are lower. She could spend three or four hours trying to get to you by bus. Allow her at least half an hour leeway. Give the maid who does your hotel room B100 every day. Accidents happen. Thank you for posting this, the majority of it I didn’t know and wouldn’t have considered before reading that. Hopefully I’ll remember it all and one day will be in a position where I’ll need to recall it as it’s a dream of mine to go to Thailand some day and sleep with a Ladyboy...preferably one who prefers to be a top to bottoms like me. Can I ask why we shouldn’t talk about The Royal Family though and do you mean our Royal Family or theirs....or both. To be honest, it’s not something that I’d consider discussing in that situation but it’s good to know I need to stop myself if do feel the urge to mention them haha. " Their Royal Family, in the Cinema just before a film started I had to stand up when their National anthem played with a picture of the king on screen. When it comes to the Royals Thais as very respectful and expect you to be as well. | |||
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" Can you prove your last sentence? " Just look at 'updates' on the homepage, it won't be long before you find 'private' parties being advertised, some of these have a paid entrance fee, and are videoed for upload to some porn site or another. | |||
"Their royal family. Covered by strict Lèse-majesté law that has no admissible defence. Longest sentence I heard of this year is 43 years in the Big Tiger, reduced from something like 90 years for pleading guilty. Rare for foreigners to get indicted unless they were way out of line. ??????????? Thrng phra ceri? So it’s illegal to talk about their Royal Family?" Illegal to criticise or show disrespect. Just don't get involved. | |||
"You are going at the wrong time. I have never been to Phuket, or slept with a katoey, but here are some of the problems that you will be faced with: In Thailand, masks in public and indoor groups are still mandatory. And the law is enforced. If you find a katoey on the street, you won’t see the bottom half of her face until you get her to your room The foreign tourist industry is dead. Most of the people who work in it, e.g. katoeys, have gone home. Your choice on the streets will be minimal. All “night entertainment” venues are closed – this includes all sorts of bars, so you’ll not have the security of hiring a katoey from a bar. “Street” katoeys are notoriously dishonest. This will be much worse because of the prevalent poverty. You will almost certainly have to resort to the internet to find a partner. And what you will see on the dating websites will most likely not be what you’ll subsequently find on your doorstep. Many of the people are desperate for money. Before your date arrives, lock everything of value in your room safe: computer, phone, passport, credit and debit cards, money (except her fee), everything. ETIQUETTE If she looks OK, pay her on arrival. This will reduce her anxiety level. In your hotel room: Take your shoes off at the door. Offer her a drink, and food if possible, e.g. a plate of mixed chopped fruit. Not ice cream because many Easterners lose the ability to break down lactose, the main sugar in milk, by their teens. It gives them the runs, like dysentery. This lack of milk in the diet is major cause of the high incidence of osteoporosis in Thailand. Turn the room’s air-conditioning down or off. She lives in a hot country, and goose bumps aren’t a turn-on. You both shower. Make sure she has a clean dry towel. She will keep it on in bed. Wet! It’s how you cool down if you don’t have air conditioning. Buy shower hats at the local 7/11 if necessary. Don't let her see the soles of your feet. Don't touch her head. Don't talk about politics or the Royal Family. Have a condom or three handy, some lube, and a toilet roll. If you make a date to meet at a specific time and place, don’t expect her to turn up on the dot. She may well live far away where rents are lower. She could spend three or four hours trying to get to you by bus. Allow her at least half an hour leeway. Give the maid who does your hotel room B100 every day. Accidents happen. " never been or used one yet expert in every aspect haha. | |||
"You are going at the wrong time. I have never been to Phuket, or slept with a katoey, but here are some of the problems that you will be faced with: In Thailand, masks in public and indoor groups are still mandatory. And the law is enforced. If you find a katoey on the street, you won’t see the bottom half of her face until you get her to your room The foreign tourist industry is dead. Most of the people who work in it, e.g. katoeys, have gone home. Your choice on the streets will be minimal. All “night entertainment” venues are closed – this includes all sorts of bars, so you’ll not have the security of hiring a katoey from a bar. “Street” katoeys are notoriously dishonest. This will be much worse because of the prevalent poverty. You will almost certainly have to resort to the internet to find a partner. And what you will see on the dating websites will most likely not be what you’ll subsequently find on your doorstep. Many of the people are desperate for money. Before your date arrives, lock everything of value in your room safe: computer, phone, passport, credit and debit cards, money (except her fee), everything. ETIQUETTE If she looks OK, pay her on arrival. This will reduce her anxiety level. In your hotel room: Take your shoes off at the door. Offer her a drink, and food if possible, e.g. a plate of mixed chopped fruit. Not ice cream because many Easterners lose the ability to break down lactose, the main sugar in milk, by their teens. It gives them the runs, like dysentery. This lack of milk in the diet is major cause of the high incidence of osteoporosis in Thailand. Turn the room’s air-conditioning down or off. She lives in a hot country, and goose bumps aren’t a turn-on. You both shower. Make sure she has a clean dry towel. She will keep it on in bed. Wet! It’s how you cool down if you don’t have air conditioning. Buy shower hats at the local 7/11 if necessary. Don't let her see the soles of your feet. Don't touch her head. Don't talk about politics or the Royal Family. Have a condom or three handy, some lube, and a toilet roll. If you make a date to meet at a specific time and place, don’t expect her to turn up on the dot. She may well live far away where rents are lower. She could spend three or four hours trying to get to you by bus. Allow her at least half an hour leeway. Give the maid who does your hotel room B100 every day. Accidents happen. " I thought this was very informative. I’ve certainly learned something new. Thanks  | |||
" never been or used one yet expert in every aspect haha." Oh yes! But only compared with the OP. Why don’t you give him a few tips? For example: What happens in a katoey massage parlour. The number of katoey go-go bars in Bangkok’s Nana Plaza, pre-Covid. The number of the nearest skytrain station exit. Where he could have found himself a post-op katoey. I don’t claim to be any sort of expert, but I do know more than a lot of people in the U.K. And, more to the point, I will take the time to pass on my knowledge to help people get the most from their expensive holidays. | |||
"PS Katoeys take female hormones. They consider themselves to be women. They think like women, they act like women, so treat them like women. It isn’t hard! The most beautiful woman I have ever seen was a Katoey in Bangkok. One glance literally stopped me in my tracks! Good luck. " the part you forget is for some if it acts looks and speaks like a woman but has a cock its still no woman. sorry to be blunt but you place your convictions on everyone else which is unfair me couldn't give a hoot favorite Thai saying .....up to them...ie it don't concern me leave it be | |||
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" Just remember to stay safe and ALWAYS rubber up if you Top or Bottom. " The risk of acquiring H.I.V from oral sex, either way, is about the same as from penetrative sex. But there is an H.I.V. prophylactic (protection) pill available over-the-counter in any Thai pharmacy. As soon as possible after arrival, go to the nearest one and buy a bottle of 30 “Ricovir” tablets (also known as “Emtricitabine / Tenofovir”, “Truvada”, and “PrEP”). A daily pill should kill the virus on entry, but may not in rare cases. Consult your doctor before taking them if you have any sort of medical problem. If the pills have been made “prescription only” again, ask the pharmacist for directions to the nearest doctor / clinic, who will oblige. | |||
