It depends on what the Domme wants from a sub and the type of domme she is, that maybe a lifestyle Domme, a Pro Domme Mistress or a bedroom slap and tickle Domme, or an escort with a whip. Then there are kinks and interests to consider. |
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The most important thing for a genuine sub to realise is that they are there to please/assist there dom/domme in any such way their superior deems fit. A well behaved sub will then often be rewarded by being indulged in a favourite fetish of his or her own. |
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"The most important thing for a genuine sub to realise is that they are there to please/assist there dom/domme in any such way their superior deems fit. A well behaved sub will then often be rewarded by being indulged in a favourite fetish of his or her own."
Oh yes! |
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"The most important thing for a genuine sub to realise is that they are there to please/assist there dom/domme in any such way their superior deems fit. A well behaved sub will then often be rewarded by being indulged in a favourite fetish of his or her own."
Sadly too many guys think they are sub but expect their Domme to do as he wants - not getting that their pleasure should come from pleasing their Domme |
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"The most important thing for a genuine sub to realise is that they are there to please/assist there dom/domme in any such way their superior deems fit. A well behaved sub will then often be rewarded by being indulged in a favourite fetish of his or her own.
Sadly too many guys think they are sub but expect their Domme to do as he wants - not getting that their pleasure should come from pleasing their Domme"
Aaaaand there's the rub lol. |
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But laying there allowing a woman to do everything he wants to him, how he wants it done, is submission, isn't it? After all, he's letting her do it.
Right? Amiright?
Whaddaya mean "no"?
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Let's not forget that the person with all the control in a s/a situation is the sub. They just give it to the dom to use. I get my kicks out of my dom doing the things to me that I enjoy. If I didn't I wouldn't be in the situation. (I want to say relationship but my dom isn't my partner, I am single and still his sub so to us its a d/s situation!)
For example I give him the power to choose my underwear for me. That's my choice to give him that power. |
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"The most important thing for a genuine sub to realise is that they are there to please/assist there dom/domme in any such way their superior deems fit. A well behaved sub will then often be rewarded by being indulged in a favourite fetish of his or her own.
Sadly too many guys think they are sub but expect their Domme to do as he wants - not getting that their pleasure should come from pleasing their Domme"
They are easy to spot and dismiss.
I don't have a one size fits all guide. My subs are individuals and each has a quality that pleases me in a unique way...and please me they do. |
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I'm right off subs at the moment. Too few good ones and too many needy, clingy or completely focused on their own wants.
Energy sinks. I can't be doing with it.
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