This is the worst part for us, praying there isn't someone from our normal life in the club to bump into.
It's happened once, our sons friends parents 
We know they are there for the same reason, just makes it uncomfortable. They also watched us for a bit in one of the rooms 
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"This is the worst part for us, praying there isn't someone from our normal life in the club to bump into.
It's happened once, our sons friends parents
We know they are there for the same reason, just makes it uncomfortable. They also watched us for a bit in one of the rooms
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Wow I can see why that’d make you anxious. It could led to something beautiful at some point but I totally get it. |
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That’s mainly the reason we go to clubs that are a bit further afield. But it has not happened (yet!). Can imagine it might cause a little awkwardness - but it cuts both ways as all there for the same reason. Shrug it off and enjoy. |
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By *aughty50sCouple
over a year ago
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"This is the worst part for us, praying there isn't someone from our normal life in the club to bump into.
It's happened once, our sons friends parents
We know they are there for the same reason, just makes it uncomfortable. They also watched us for a bit in one of the rooms
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We've twice seen people from our 'vanilla life' in a club. On one occasion we kept our heads down  on the other it worked out just fine  
Try going to a club further away from home and make a weekend of it? |
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Everyone else thinks “go further afield” too… totally pointless IMO lol.
Everyone’s made the same effort to be there, I’d rather be seen in the club than noticed on fab.
Bumped into a boss and his wife at a club bar… 2 hours from our town.
I think the nerves as you arrive are all part of it x |
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"Everyone else thinks “go further afield” too… totally pointless IMO lol.
Everyone’s made the same effort to be there, I’d rather be seen in the club than noticed on fab.
Bumped into a boss and his wife at a club bar… 2 hours from our town.
I think the nerves as you arrive are all part of it x"
yep, they went further afield as well xxx |
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We have face pics in our public pics for all to see, and if anyone recognised us from fab in our normal life..well that's because they themselves are on fab and because of that we are not fussed at all. |
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You take your chances.....
"This is the worst part for us, praying there isn't someone from our normal life in the club to bump into.
It's happened once, our sons friends parents
We know they are there for the same reason, just makes it uncomfortable. They also watched us for a bit in one of the rooms
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I rather not just "take my chances"
I would add "think positive" as well Whatever happens in the club it will stay in the club . No one who goes to a swinging club will start gossiping with the neighbours next day unless it's a neighbour full of swingers lol |
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