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Any bald men struggle on here
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That one always stings lol. I just find it strange as I never struggle in real life. Fully known as a ladies man to my social circle, but on here I find it's a completely different world and I am trying to figure out what it is I am doing wrong lol |
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Can't see your original post but gym and Greek bodies aren't everyone's cuppa, they're not really mine  it screams too much time in the gym and too much muscle just turns me off... Hair or no hair I don't care lol x it's how you are who you are and how you treat me x |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"That one always stings lol. I just find it strange as I never struggle in real life. Fully known as a ladies man to my social circle, but on here I find it's a completely different world and I am trying to figure out what it is I am doing wrong lol"
What you're doing wrong is equating this to real life, it isn’t.
When face to face with someone you can judge the attraction, your personality is easier to display.
On here you are just another person, who may or may not be what they say they are, talking to someone else who may or may not be who they claim to be.
If you have more success in person you may want to stick to that, swinging and/or fab is not tinder, bumble, pof or match. |
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By *eo_72Man
over a year ago
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"That one always stings lol. I just find it strange as I never struggle in real life. Fully known as a ladies man to my social circle, but on here I find it's a completely different world and I am trying to figure out what it is I am doing wrong lol"
Your probably not doing anything wrong mate
Just the sheer amount of men on here, your a little fish in a big ocean  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get nothing on here 
But I don’t expect anything either….I just keep active (more recently than before) and someday someone might just take a fancy to me….if it happens it happens!
All I’d say is keep trying if it’s something you want to stick to!!
And getting a body of a god is far too much hassle and too much dieting ha! |
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Never had a a problem with being bald, in that nobody has ever told me they don't do bald.
Had a huge confidence boost in my 40s when a blind date from the local newspaper opened her door to me with the words: Oooh! You're tall and you're bald! Come on upstairs!
Plenty like, probably plenty don't. If you leave the opening approach to them you might never meet a don't. |
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"So OP, every rejection you've had has told you it's because you are bald?
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Not at all, as I stated in an earlier post on this thread. I have never struggled in real life, so I am theorising potentials of what the lack of response could be down to on here. An educated guess was maybe it's because I am bald.
I also understand that a woman's mind works far different to a mans when it comes to arousal. For example, suggestion, intrigue a good body are all things I know a lady to like. It is very rare they want to see a massive cock with a message saying "fancy a fuck".
Yet I know if most blokes got the female equivalent, they would be over the moon. We are a simple breed on the whole, but if like to think we mean well hahah |
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I quite like bald guys and there are certainly a good number of women on here who do too, judging by my recall of past threads.
It could be a whole host of reasons, OP, including timing and ratios.
Stay positive and maybe get yourself along to an organised social, if you feel you do better in person
C |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bald men with beards are my weakness  or someone with full on Brian May hair  PHWOAR, However it totally depends if the guy underneath the baldness seems like a lovely chap or not. Definetely drawn to a bald man / shaved head though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That one always stings lol. I just find it strange as I never struggle in real life. Fully known as a ladies man to my social circle, but on here I find it's a completely different world and I am trying to figure out what it is I am doing wrong lol"
Maybe they think you are attached.
Don't take it personally, many men struggle. Maybe try socials. Online can be much more difficult than face to face. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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What were your expectations op?
My own personal experience some state they won't meet bald men, same as any other preference, i don't find that stated on many profiles.
There could be 000's of reasons why.. if it is because you're bald not a lot you can do about it. Find those that include focus your energies on those folks.
If you meet lots of ladies in the real world use this as an addition to that..
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To be fair I've never seen my boldness as a barrier. And I've also seen a fair few other bold men who do very nicely on scene. For some it maybe a turn off but for most the lack of hair is not a significantly important feature in my experience.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a certain fondness for bald guys but it never trumps everything else. Can’t have the personality of a wet fish and a bald head and expect to get in my knickers (not suggesting you are wet fish however !! )
I’m sure for a few it has been the issue but I think the odds are just stacked against guys generally and that is the bigger problem…. |
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, that's the irony LOL
I didn’t know I’m so bad looking 
