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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes same here . But amazing how people can think it means whatever suits them when you have chat and they suddenly start to discuss condoms and not same room .  |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"I suppose it could be that but they not get the chance to get that far if they make you uncomfy with chat even before first meet .  "
Indeed, the very first couple we intended to meet when we joined along time ago got the old alarm bells ringing. We were going to go down the soft route to see how we felt about it etc etc but the couple kept saying you cant say you will only do soft lets just see how it goes, or , no point in that just get it over with  .... needless to say we never met them but as it turns out we never did do "soft" either! What works for you is the main thing x |
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Swapping and doing everything and anything short of fucking, although some people think it means sex with your own partner alongside another couple and no swapping at all, but you can touch and maybe kiss the others. We don't agree with that description!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us soft swing means, no penetration..however, we have been once told by a couple - soft swing for them means sex with condom and hard swinging is without condom....  |
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"Swapping and doing everything and anything short of fucking, although some people think it means sex with your own partner alongside another couple and no swapping at all, but you can touch and maybe kiss the others. We don't agree with that description!
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Agree with your description ....Everything(poo/pain etc excepted)apart from penetrative vaginal(and anal)intercourse as 3sum/4sum or more sum!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we are a soft swing couple still at the moment only thing don't do is intercourse (penetration) with other couple,do everyfing else."
yes thats the same with us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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NO penetration other than with own partner is our take. But we have spoken to couples who think that it just means fem on fem play and in one case that it meant that crystal (the female half of us) would play with both of them while I only played with her. |
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We remember our first meet, it was supposed to be soft swing but that all went out the window once the naughty stuff started we were both eaten alive and throughly rinsed out by the end of the meet.
Just goes to show you can never guarantee anything if you go with an open mind and a dirty one at that too.
Got us into the swing of swinging very quickly , no regrets at all just the "did that really happen " looks at each other on the drive home |
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