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BBC Superiority (actually read the post lol)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So recently I saw a profile where a white woman said she no longer wants to talk to black guys anymore because she's tired of the "bbc superiority" apparently she seemed to think black guys thought they are more superior than other guys.
Now personally I don't project myself that way on fab, but I'm asking the ladies and couples here, do you think black guys on this site come across as confident (maybe a little cocky) or do you think we come across as having a superiority complex?
Please keep the comments respectful, much thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So recently I saw a profile where a white woman said she no longer wants to talk to black guys anymore because she's tired of the "bbc superiority" apparently she seemed to think black guys thought they are more superior than other guys.
Now personally I don't project myself that way on fab, but I'm asking the ladies and couples here, do you think black guys on this site come across as confident (maybe a little cocky) or do you think we come across as having a superiority complex?
Please keep the comments respectful, much thanks."
Some do. But I've seen a LOT more non black men being cocky and/ or with superiority complexes.
I'm pretty sure that black men don't operate under a hive mind. Some are cool, some are shit, some are nice, some are dicks. 
Maybe she had a bad experience and she just doesn't want to be in that situation again, or with someone who will remind her of it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I got the feeling it happened to her quite often and I was just wondering what in terms of interactions would women classify as a black guy having a bbc superiority complex? |
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Absolutely not being offensive but to be entirely honest not all but most women’s profiles are directed towards BBC or BWC.
I don’t know about being superior but most definitely a good ego boost and slight overconfident. I don’t know I’m not black or white. But it would be interesting to hear your thoughts? |
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I’m not a woman obviously but I’ve got a few friends on fab and in my group on fab and they are all top guys. I’ve come across a few idiots in my time but that’s life nothing to do with skin colour. I would say that they on the whole they are a lot more popular than me and my white counterparts on here which btw doesn’t bother me one jot. I make my own success in my own way . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m not a woman obviously but I’ve got a few friends on fab and in my group on fab and they are all top guys. I’ve come across a few idiots in my time but that’s life nothing to do with skin colour. I would say that they on the whole they are a lot more popular than me and my white counterparts on here which btw doesn’t bother me one jot. I make my own success in my own way . "
I'll be honest since coming to the UK almost 2 years ago. Yes I do have a lot of success with women. However I still personally believe a lot of white women (and I'm not criticising here just stating something, everyone had a right to their own preferences) but I do believe most white women have a preference for white guys, (I don't know an exact percentage per se) but those who do prefer black guys are in the minority.
But sorry for digressing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Strange question OP because this post is pigeonholing black guys as one rather than individuals
There's good and bad in all people as well you know "
It's just a question that was on my mind. Like obviously I'm not even implying black guys do this, it's the first I'm hearing of it so I was curious of people's experiences with interacting with black guys.
Just a simple question. I personally don't have a superiority complex when it comes to sex (though I do like to make sure a I leave a woman satisfied) I probably have one in terms of my intelligence more than anything else haha lol but on a site like this I try to come across like a regular guy who wants to have some stress free fun in his spare time. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Over thinking it.
Keep it in perspective, she's one person with a view, respect it as you have no idea as to the background, base your opinions on a variety of profiles especially those who play as you do.
Our experience is not those of that woman, our most respectful meets and interactions have been with black men, two have been in our opinion 'idiots' and would never meet again but I wouldn't overthink it and no we've never encountered the superiority complex you speak of. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Over thinking it.
Keep it in perspective, she's one person with a view, respect it as you have no idea as to the background, base your opinions on a variety of profiles especially those who play as you do.
Our experience is not those of that woman, our most respectful meets and interactions have been with black men, two have been in our opinion 'idiots' and would never meet again but I wouldn't overthink it and no we've never encountered the superiority complex you speak of. "
Thanks and I'm not over thinking, just never saw a comment under someone's profile like that. I actually am sorry as a black guy she had such experiences that it turned her off from even wanting to msg black guys in the future.
Also I'm happy you're encounters with black guys have been positive. |
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You find whatever you are looking for, I know couples that play up to that and some not their kind of play. Why are you sorry as a black guy, one person does not represent you. That is her experience, not yours. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have no problem, everyone has a USP.
Think what I don’t like is the objectification, almost auction of dehumanising one trip wonder,
There is more to people than that.
Well in my world."
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"So recently I saw a profile where a white woman said she no longer wants to talk to black guys anymore because she's tired of the "bbc superiority" apparently she seemed to think black guys thought they are more superior than other guys.
Now personally I don't project myself that way on fab, but I'm asking the ladies and couples here, do you think black guys on this site come across as confident (maybe a little cocky) or do you think we come across as having a superiority complex?
Please keep the comments respectful, much thanks."
We don't agree with that. But the reality of fab for black guys is that a lot of the couples that actively are looking for them are in a cuckold or hotwife relationship. So in both fantasies been superior or a alpha male plays a big role.
So we believe that a lot of black guys just present themselves that way to attract more couples.
Personally we had some great meets with very humble black men and some less positive ones. But we don't judge a all group base on the behaviourof a few. But we also have to say that every time we meet a black man we need to explain that we are not looking for a cuckolding meet and that we are also not into race play. Just to make sure we are in the same page.
Also don't give to much importance to some bios or profiles and look for the ones that are your type and have the same values. We had a couple stating on their profile that they only meet British people but they still send us a message saying they will make a exception for us. So kind of them |
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I find that white me have a more superior attitude...especially the ones that think messaging a couple and saying stuff.. do you want to be fucked hard my my big thick cock..or does your hubby want to watch me pound you..that sort of attitude makes me sick..and I can only say iv had that from white guys |
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"It doesn’t matter about race, skin colour ect a cocky arsehole is a cocky arsehole…
Some people are over confident, some people are rude, skin colour has nothing to do with it!"
That is the fact...
Met some great black guys at partys that were very humble, and have met white guys that were arrogent. So really it is down to the personality, not skin colour. |
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"So recently I saw a profile where a white woman said she no longer wants to talk to black guys anymore because she's tired of the "bbc superiority" apparently she seemed to think black guys thought they are more superior than other guys.
Now personally I don't project myself that way on fab, but I'm asking the ladies and couples here, do you think black guys on this site come across as confident (maybe a little cocky) or do you think we come across as having a superiority complex?
Please keep the comments respectful, much thanks."
I'm afraid in sexual terms black men have become 'a thing', a monolithic phenomenon inspired by the porn industry and universally described through the crass term 'bbc', which has come to refer to the human being not just their genetalia! Sexually aggressive, without nuance or personality, the ubiquitous bull.
Unfortunately some black men and some white people buy into the stereotype and approach this lifestyle in that way-hence some black men believe that's what all white women want and behave as such. |
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By *idsTomMan
over a year ago
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Well I love BBC, I can’t get enough of it and if they’re a little arrogant who cares. Albeit you don’t get many arrogant black men who are Bi/Gay, they’re normally nervous of being being caught by their mates!
I’m like a kid in a sweet shop at Rio’s on an evening with the BBC that’s on view, sadly only 5% are happy to play with another bloke but at least I get a little fun at least once a week. |
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There are men, that appear to assume, that a physical trait of theirs means they should have women falling at their feet.
Whether it be a big cock, six pack etc.
In my experience those sort of men have any colour skin |
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As a guys only club, we have people of all ethnicities as members.
It’s all about the individual for us. Respectful & polite guys are what we like.
Superiority complexes like human beings, come in many shades & aren’t welcome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's superiority, it's popularity. In my experience, there's very little effort made for conversation, it's just leading with the 'bbc' title. Same with single women, they don't need to make much effort because they've got a lot of people to choose from. |
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"So recently I saw a profile where a white woman said she no longer wants to talk to black guys anymore because she's tired of the "bbc superiority" apparently she seemed to think black guys thought they are more superior than other guys.
Now personally I don't project myself that way on fab, but I'm asking the ladies and couples here, do you think black guys on this site come across as confident (maybe a little cocky) or do you think we come across as having a superiority complex?
Please keep the comments respectful, much thanks."
We've actually found the opposite. Most black guys we've spoken to seen really polite and complimentary. White guys who are bigger than downstairs tend to be the cocky ones (pardon the pun) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have so far experienced it that way for sure! The title is bbc and no conversation seems possible because ‘ I have a bbc I am in’ i find it agitating. Shame really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some black guys do play on the BBC thing many black guys don’t. Most black guys i’ve met are super normal, respectable and prefer to be humanised over fetishised. When it gets to the point of seeing people as people, rather than appendages, a fair few issues on here will stop. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some black guys do play on the BBC thing many black guys don’t. Most black guys i’ve met are super normal, respectable and prefer to be humanised over fetishised. When it gets to the point of seeing people as people, rather than appendages, a fair few issues on here will stop. "
Nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some black guys do play on the BBC thing many black guys don’t. Most black guys i’ve met are super normal, respectable and prefer to be humanised over fetishised. When it gets to the point of seeing people as people, rather than appendages, a fair few issues on here will stop. "
Absolutely agree. I find them to be great company, great fun and just normal guys.  |
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"Some black guys do play on the BBC thing many black guys don’t. Most black guys i’ve met are super normal, respectable and prefer to be humanised over fetishised. When it gets to the point of seeing people as people, rather than appendages, a fair few issues on here will stop. "
Top post Smarty!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So recently I saw a profile where a white woman said she no longer wants to talk to black guys anymore because she's tired of the "bbc superiority" apparently she seemed to think black guys thought they are more superior than other guys.
Now personally I don't project myself that way on fab, but I'm asking the ladies and couples here, do you think black guys on this site come across as confident (maybe a little cocky) or do you think we come across as having a superiority complex?
Please keep the comments respectful, much thanks."
Some do. I had a message this morning that literally said “I’m a BBC and I want fun, where are you?” as if I would just drop to my knees because they consider themselves a “bbc” (they weren’t even well endowed either).
Personally I find it a turn off when men try and play up to that stereotype. I can’t blame them for being arrogant though, because there’s thousands of men, women and couples that absolutely fawn over them and it really does inflate your ego (I know this because of my past male profile) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I much prefer ITV....hahaha I read the post I have no other input sorry
Original "
Maybe a bad pun to lighten the mood but glad it's been received so well thank you |
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