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Another day of no responses ….
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So my predicament here is, I message peeps I’m interested in on here… put thought in each message so not generic and always take time to read their profile…. But I’m hitting my head against a brick wall…. Delete, delete, delete…. This site can be so frustrating |
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You have 3 ways to stand out on FAB…
Your profile bio
Your pics
Your messages
Usually all 3 have to be decent or appealing to get a response.
If you aren’t getting responses then I’d look at those 3 things first and see whether they can be improved.
If you feel you’ve got them to a point that you can’t do anymore then you can get yourself known more by posting on the forums, going on cam, going on organised socials and going to clubs.
So there’s 7 elements that you can do to improve your chances on here.
I’ll guarantee that the people that moan are the ones that don’t use all the tools available that FAB provides.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While many will say "bio, pics or messages", you can only go so far with those, and if all 3 are failing (though there are many other reasons for failing to get responses besides your profile as a whole), then hang around in the forums more. Youre far more likely to get noticed and eventually strike something up especially while participating in the various forum games we play and ither shenanigans |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't respond to people I don't find attractive... If I can't tell, due to no face pic, I delete unread... If it's clear my profile hasn't been read, same... If I think they aren't really attracted to me and are just messaging out of desperation... Same |
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Unfortunately it is what it is, no one owes you a response no matter how polite you are and when the volume of single males is so high folks can afford to be picky. Try not to take it personally and just keep chipping away - you never know one day.........  |
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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago
West Midlands and West London |
"Cannot accommodate would put many off. "
If you can't change this, that's fine. But I'd say 1) more public photos, 2) make your verifications accessible/ public and 3) narrow your age range x |
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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago
Arse end of the universe |
You look like you have a great physique… try some black and white torso pictures, more pictures don’t have to mean your knob… take a picture you like and mess with some filters…. Also your profile isn’t giving me anything about you really….You say you are a sexual deviant… aren’t we all… but what do you like? What pleases you?
Also, your messages… what’s your opener? Is it kind of thoughtful but generic??
I feel for you guys to be honest, the male to female ratio on here is way out of balance… just one of those things that you have to contend with on sites like this I’m afraid… good luck OP x |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"So my predicament here is, I message peeps I’m interested in on here… put thought in each message so not generic and always take time to read their profile…. But I’m hitting my head against a brick wall…. Delete, delete, delete…. This site can be so frustrating "
You need to remember it's a two way thing not one just because you might be interested you need to respect if they're not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to admit i am close to giving up here too, I get more luck on okcupid.
My couples profile is on fire though which I don't understand.
Then again I am new to doing this as a single guy so advice is very much welcome. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"I have to admit i am close to giving up here too, I get more luck on okcupid.
My couples profile is on fire though which I don't understand.
Then again I am new to doing this as a single guy so advice is very much welcome."
Advice create your own post pal and I'm sure you'll get the helpful advice post jumping isn't allowed  |
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"I have to admit i am close to giving up here too, I get more luck on okcupid.
My couples profile is on fire though which I don't understand.
Then again I am new to doing this as a single guy so advice is very much welcome.
Advice create your own post pal and I'm sure you'll get the helpful advice post jumping isn't allowed "
BOOM!!!  |
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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago
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"I have to admit i am close to giving up here too, I get more luck on okcupid.
My couples profile is on fire though which I don't understand.
Then again I am new to doing this as a single guy so advice is very much welcome."
I won’t lie, I saw your picture and wondered why you had an image of a naan bread as your profile  |
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"Cannot accommodate would put many off. "
Many will assume that it's due to their being a partner at home. Plus the "18-99" age range. Again. Why is it that so many guys are either too lazy to change it, or are they really ready to shag their granny? |
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