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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"Calling Fab a fuck site is why single males don’t get the respect you take about "
Just what we were going to post. We are swingers Mrs is not a fuck toy on a fuck site. You have answered your own OP m. Absolutely no respect from us OP. However we give the utmost respect to ALL respectful people no matter what the gender   |
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
Respect is earned, never given.
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
Oh dear  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
I'm going to have to totally disagree with your opinion.because since joining all those whom I've chatted with,met even. has been very pleasant so it's not all, maybe a fair few so could this be down to their own approach..... |
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
And that is why single men get no respect.......Wow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just change your strategy OP.
If your difficulty is the same on other platforms. Maybe be more critical about your outbound messages for initial contact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
Fuck sites really??
Not a term the genuine single male swingers who embrace this lifestyle and communities would ever dream of using. 
If you you want equal opportunityfor all sexes instead of having at least 100 single male accounts for every single female or couple account which is the current situation maybe try the following -
For every 100 single females and 100 couples on the site it then allow 100 single males to sign up.
That way there will be an equal balance of the account tyoes. A new single lady or couple signs then a spot opens for a single guy.
Obviously you would beed a waiting list for the 99% of single guys unable to get a spot to sign up under that system.
Would that be be better OP  |
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites.
Respect is earned, never given.
LvM"
In this particular case, I can see why you say that but I have always been of the view that respect should be the default position in life, and given until actions prove it is no longer warranted, which admittedly didn’t take long in this case! |
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Lol you better delete this thread ASAP if you don't wanna bring all the hate on you haha just a friendly advice! You can't earn respect if you're not giving any also you need to put yourself in everyone's shoes  |
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
Are you blaming women for your lack of wet cock???!!!
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I think we have to remember this site to here to hopefully fulfil people’s fantasies, not quite sure how just being a single male dose that.
Yes it can be very frustrating, but such is life. In my casein think I should maybe be more honest with my fantasies and hopefully find the one person/couples that have the same mindset and hopefully one day my luck will change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites.
Respect is earned, never given.
LvM"
Respect should be given until it is lost otherwise how do you ever respect anyone you don’t know? Or do people start off in a place where you give them zero respect?
Sounds a little privileged that they have to earn your respect or they aren’t worthy of it |
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites.
Respect is earned, never given.
LvM
In this particular case, I can see why you say that but I have always been of the view that respect should be the default position in life, and given until actions prove it is no longer warranted, which admittedly didn’t take long in this case!"
Touché. Though I suppose I more mean the respect above basic human decency then 
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
Hmmm as you've put we all know why we'll like myself I'm still yet to understand why or why you think so not every single guy is similar to another and everyone has a different experience like on any site so could you please elaborate... |
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites.
Respect is earned, never given.
LvM
Respect should be given until it is lost otherwise how do you ever respect anyone you don’t know? Or do people start off in a place where you give them zero respect?
Sounds a little privileged that they have to earn your respect or they aren’t worthy of it "
See above
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There is equal opportunity, its up to the individual to take those opportunities. An opportunity NOT taken would include a message such as "meet today?" "Meet now" "I have a big cock ready for you"....etc etc
"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
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Struggling to understand what opportunities the OP thinks that females or couples have over males? I’m pretty sure there are no areas of the site that exclude males. If individuals choose to not allow males to message them, that is their choice. It’s also a choice that is open to all, including males. So where again is the lack of equality opportunity? |
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
Punished in what way? Everyone is responsible for their own actions. Also as above, I don’t class it as a fuck site either. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
How are you being punished? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites.
Respect is earned, never given.
LvM
In this particular case, I can see why you say that but I have always been of the view that respect should be the default position in life, and given until actions prove it is no longer warranted, which admittedly didn’t take long in this case!"
Totally agree with this reply. Everyone has my respect and trust. Its yours from me. Your choice if you want to keep it. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
No one is owed anything on here op,
I treat those with respect who do the same for me.
Some don't have any idea what swinging is, there are men and couples who don't do themselves any favours here (don't meet women so can't comment). |
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The reality is and always has been that solo guys have to try harder than any other on here to get anywhere.
(It was the same with the old contact magazines).
Realistically, yes solo guys offer something but bear in mind that there are far more such guys messaging couples and solo women than they can cope with.
A better approach is to write a clear, pleasantly worded profile, attach some good photos and with for couples and women to come to you.
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
Can’t see there being an opportunity for you after that statement op , let alone an equal one . Some guys know how to play the fab game and some clearly don’t have a clue |
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
Oh dear 
Please close the door on your way out Op  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
Wow… just fucking wow!
This alone makes me want to leave fab because it’s full of arrogant men like OP. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yea because I’m concerned about what all the Brits from the UK think while I’m based in the US. ?????? this isn’t even my main acc so everyone getting all butthurt over a statement is hilairous. |
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"Yea because I’m concerned about what all the Brits from the UK think while I’m based in the US. ?????? this isn’t even my main acc so everyone getting all butthurt over a statement is hilairous. "
He said, whilst crying into his bowl of sugar coated sugar |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So you have more than one account and struggling?
I'd look at the successful guys in the USA then and ask them what you are doing wrong.
Hopefully they can help you out! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Who said anything about struggling???
I voice an opinion and the UK get all up in arms ??????
I’m happily married and have our main account and do very VERY well.
Irish man in NY is like kid in a candy store.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The amount of single males that think I'm a piece of meat is probably the reason why I don't bother talking to many, sure we know that not every guy on here sees women this way but my block list is very long and I don't find it fair on hubby that he's treated like he doesn't exist, we both read the messages and sure he laughs but he wouldn't dream of talking to anyone the way these morons do. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"I’m happily married and have our main account and do very VERY well.
Irish man in NY is like kid in a candy store.
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So why does your profile say you are single?
Dishonesty is not a great look.
But then neither is your OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea because I’m concerned about what all the Brits from the UK think while I’m based in the US. ?????? this isn’t even my main acc so everyone getting all butthurt over a statement is hilairous. "
Who do you think is going to comment when the majority of the site is from the Uk? |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Yea because I’m concerned about what all the Brits from the UK think while I’m based in the US. ?????? this isn’t even my main acc so everyone getting all butthurt over a statement is hilairous. "
It's hilarious that you are able to think about every single guy but your only making every single guy look bad if anything |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
Posts like this are the exact reason why single men generally have a bad reputation.
Well done OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say and this is just my personal opinion that really which ever way you look at it or whatever you call it respect is the upmost paramount thing that anyone should be giving to each other whether it’s single males single females couples or whatever at the end of the day we are all only human and surely respect is just something that should be given naturally maybe I’m wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well said.. too many people misunderstood what this site is about…
But ultimately everyone should be respectful to each other’s wants and needs and understand everybody is different and that not every person is compatible with everybody else..
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By *mtasticCouple
over a year ago
Coventry |
"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
Tool…. |
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sounds like you have given yourself the problem..
My 1st ever visit to a club an older guy gave me the best advice.. be yourself, dont expect anything and be friendly and you will have lots of fun.
I stuck to that advice and have had 5 years of good times. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Who said anything about struggling???
I voice an opinion and the UK get all up in arms ??????
I’m happily married and have our main account and do very VERY well.
Irish man in NY is like kid in a candy store.
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Yes of course you do lol. Sounds like sour grapes to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sounds like you have given yourself the problem..
My 1st ever visit to a club an older guy gave me the best advice.. be yourself, dont expect anything and be friendly and you will have lots of fun.
I stuck to that advice and have had 5 years of good times. "
exactly that it’s not hard really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites.
Respect is earned, never given.
LvM"
absolutely well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These are the kind of guys that give us well mannered and respectful men a very bad name,there is no place here for disrespectful and I'll mannered and abusive men,off you fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These are the kind of guys that give us well mannered and respectful men a very bad name,there is no place here for disrespectful and I'll mannered and abusive men,off you fuck"
no no no they ruin it for themselves nobody else its not there fault your not getting anywhere thats down to you ... see this all the time oh they ruin it for us lol own your own stop blaming others
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These are the kind of guys that give us well mannered and respectful men a very bad name,there is no place here for disrespectful and I'll mannered and abusive men,off you fuck
no no no they ruin it for themselves nobody else its not there fault your not getting anywhere thats down to you ... see this all the time oh they ruin it for us lol own your own stop blaming others
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actually I'm ok,I'm happy in my fab life,I was trying to make the point that you actually written,they only ruin it for themselves,I have a great circle of close fab friends,and most certainly not having anything ruined by these idiots |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites.
Respect is earned, never given.
LvM
In this particular case, I can see why you say that but I have always been of the view that respect should be the default position in life, and given until actions prove it is no longer warranted, which admittedly didn’t take long in this case!"
This ^^^ |
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This thread has turned on into a single male gossip thread! Sm sf or couple they all are the same(people) and everyone can be an idiot or a good person, it's only up to them to decide what they wanna be ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
Posts like this will get you zero respect. We swing to have fun and socialize in this great community this isn't a "fuck site"
Respect earns respect  |
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites. "
For a start this isn't a fuck site...its a swingers site..most single males don't want to swing..they just like you..want a fuck...and to be honest...if you messed me I'd delete it without reading it because there is just nothing to go by on your profile. |
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"For far to long these site have inadvertently punished the single male for seeking fun.
We all know why.. but is it fair.!???
There should be equal opportunity for all sexes on fuck sites.
Are you blaming women for your lack of wet cock???!!!
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Hahaha...this is the best...I'm sitting here with my jaw on the floor at the sheer cheek and disrespect.. I'd also love to know what he means by punished..lol |
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"TL:DR most posters think because OP doesn't think the same as them he is scum and should be hung from the rafters, let alone be met. You're welcome."
Em no...thats not the case...its his sheer disrespect and he thinks he should be respected because he is a single male... |
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"What makes fab not an equal opportunity site for single guys?"
If your on fab genuinely to.join the world of swinging..then great, but there are to many single guys like OP that think this is a fuck site which makes a name for single guys..its called fab swingers for a reason. |
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"I would say and this is just my personal opinion that really which ever way you look at it or whatever you call it respect is the upmost paramount thing that anyone should be giving to each other whether it’s single males single females couples or whatever at the end of the day we are all only human and surely respect is just something that should be given naturally maybe I’m wrong "
Absolutely not...if a man messages us with no pictures, no profile pic and very little text and one has the nerve to ask us for a face pic...or a man who msgse US but only assumes its me online so addresses me and sends loads of duck picks and a really disrespectful message like...do you do deepth throat, or do you want me to come and fuck you hard in front of your hubby...nothing else in the message.. are you telling me that we should be respectful to him?? After clearly not reading or even looking at our profile where he would see all the pictures he needs of us..including face..and not even knowing that its a couples profile...so yes in answer to your question..respect is earned not given away. |
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"Who said anything about struggling???
I voice an opinion and the UK get all up in arms ??????
I’m happily married and have our main account and do very VERY well.
Irish man in NY is like kid in a candy store.
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So as well as the total lack of respect in your OP you are married but the profile says single. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This attitude is one of the reasons I ignore single males ,yes I know not all males are this up themselves but there is getting more and more of this type of thinking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The little boy has been back on here for 3 months, had no joy and thrown his dummy out of his pram. This is predominately a UK site and he's in the USA. What did he expect? Women to get on a plane and flock to him? With the attitude he's showing us all, I'm pleased he's not still over here. One less person to avoid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say and this is just my personal opinion that really which ever way you look at it or whatever you call it respect is the upmost paramount thing that anyone should be giving to each other whether it’s single males single females couples or whatever at the end of the day we are all only human and surely respect is just something that should be given naturally maybe I’m wrong
Absolutely not...if a man messages us with no pictures, no profile pic and very little text and one has the nerve to ask us for a face pic...or a man who msgse US but only assumes its me online so addresses me and sends loads of duck picks and a really disrespectful message like...do you do deepth throat, or do you want me to come and fuck you hard in front of your hubby...nothing else in the message.. are you telling me that we should be respectful to him?? After clearly not reading or even looking at our profile where he would see all the pictures he needs of us..including face..and not even knowing that its a couples profile...so yes in answer to your question..respect is earned not given away."
I think you slightly misunderstood where I was coming from with what I was saying that’s probably my fault to be honest for not reading it through correctly before sending it I actually agree with what you have said because I I’m not that kind of person that would send silly or rude messages If it’s a couple I always address as a couple |
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. Just for context there is a certain lady on here that often does a “ Piers Morgan”! 
