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Is there a place in swinging scene for the inexperience
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There is a similar post from a 29 year old virgin. Most people think not. People on here are looking for some one to play with not teach. Most people will admit that there is always something to learn, however learning a new tip etc is different from teaching the basics. Further more, are the inexperienced ready emotionally? |
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"There is a similar post from a 29 year old virgin. Most people think not. People on here are looking for some one to play with not teach. Most people will admit that there is always something to learn, however learning a new tip etc is different from teaching the basics. Further more, are the inexperienced ready emotionally? "
Indeed!
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"There is a similar post from a 29 year old virgin. Most people think not. People on here are looking for some one to play with not teach. Most people will admit that there is always something to learn, however learning a new tip etc is different from teaching the basics. Further more, are the inexperienced ready emotionally? "
I'd imagine trying to learn the basics 'in the deep end' in a high pressure environment would detract from the enjoyment and maybe skew the way you see sex.
Make love to a real partner before you try and meet people on here looking for simple, non-emotional sexual connections. That's my advice dude |
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I find many swingers are not actually that experienced. An experienced man usually has spent many hours taking the time to explore a woman and knowing what he likes too, more often than not the swinging scene is very full on and nothing more than just shagging. Don't be put off by those swingers who say they are experienced, maybe on this scene but sexually maybe not.
Anyone who wishes to meet in person and challenge that please send your CV .........  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"is the a room or is the swinging scene a place for the sexual inexperineced "
of course there is... we all use to be new once....
fear of the unknown isn't a bad thing... but sometimes what is on the other side of the barrier isn't actually that scary after all....
for example... clubs.... the most scary bit is walking thru that door for the first time....
how you then decided to act is very much up to you... if your own hands....
but it is the fear of the unknown that stops people from trying |
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"There is a similar post from a 29 year old virgin. Most people think not. People on here are looking for some one to play with not teach. Most people will admit that there is always something to learn, however learning a new tip etc is different from teaching the basics. Further more, are the inexperienced ready emotionally? "
It strikes me that if the experienced were to try to guide / shepherd / advise the newcomers into the scene more, there would be far less dysfunctional behaviour - something which is taking over the swinging community.
All too often people come into the scene ill prepared or with the wrong view of what its all about - and there are't exactly guide books available in Waterstones. |
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"There is a similar post from a 29 year old virgin. Most people think not. People on here are looking for some one to play with not teach. Most people will admit that there is always something to learn, however learning a new tip etc is different from teaching the basics. Further more, are the inexperienced ready emotionally?
It strikes me that if the experienced were to try to guide / shepherd / advise the newcomers into the scene more, there would be far less dysfunctional behaviour - something which is taking over the swinging community.
All too often people come into the scene ill prepared or with the wrong view of what its all about - and there are't exactly guide books available in Waterstones. "
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"There is a similar post from a 29 year old virgin. Most people think not. People on here are looking for some one to play with not teach. Most people will admit that there is always something to learn, however learning a new tip etc is different from teaching the basics. Further more, are the inexperienced ready emotionally? "
Spot on. Specially the last line...
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"I find many swingers are not actually that experienced. An experienced man usually has spent many hours taking the time to explore a woman and knowing what he likes too, more often than not the swinging scene is very full on and nothing more than just shagging. Don't be put off by those swingers who say they are experienced, maybe on this scene but sexually maybe not.
Anyone who wishes to meet in person and challenge that please send your CV ......... "
I agree with what you are saying it takes all sorts. The thing is people will spend time getting to know their partner/fb. Days, weeks, years to learn what that person wants. In swing it's often only a few hours. I would think you would want the basics in place so you only need to add higher, harder faster... We all are new and need help but you wouldn't buy a super car to take your first driving lesson. There are exceptions to every rule so I wish the op luck, but still not sure this is the right place to start..... |
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