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how many couples have meets without socials ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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so how many couples have meets without socials are you the types who just want to get down to fun come and show yourselves ....
please this is just as it states not looking for whats right or wrong just looking to see how many meet with out socials ...
when we first started many years ago we did a few socials but we found they took up far too much time that we did not have so all thos years ago we stopped and just met quick hello if all ok then play now we know many many couple do it this way too but the forums seems to give the expression its al socials but most couples we know (its alot lol 28 years worth) dont so are you one of those who dont have socials |
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Us. Really dont have time for social only meets and on the rare occasion when we have it's been a waste of time, not leading to a follow on play meet.
To be honest, we are here to play so if we all like the look of each other,lets get on with it! |
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Always have a strictly social meet initially with a view to a play meet on a separate day if we all get on. Its all very well saying you would go the whole hog there and then, but suppose you don't fancy them? Really difficult to reject someone on the spot. This has worked well for us. We all have our own way of finding our way through this caper. |
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We enjoy the social element and we have arranged purely socials (with no play) before. That said, we have also played with couples in clubs when we’ve never met beforehand and have enjoyed the spontaneity.
Nowadays, time is scarce for us so the idea of a social first when there’s definitely not going to be play isn’t for us. We don’t want to be interviewed and we aren’t looking for endless chat and pic swapping; we’d rather meet with a view that there could be play (no obligation!) if we click. |
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"Always have a strictly social meet initially with a view to a play meet on a separate day if we all get on. Its all very well saying you would go the whole hog there and then, but suppose you don't fancy them? Really difficult to reject someone on the spot. This has worked well for us. We all have our own way of finding our way through this caper. "
This works for us too, been that way since we started.  |
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"Always have a strictly social meet initially with a view to a play meet on a separate day if we all get on. Its all very well saying you would go the whole hog there and then, but suppose you don't fancy them? Really difficult to reject someone on the spot. This has worked well for us. We all have our own way of finding our way through this caper. "
nope not differcult to say no at all we always say have a cuppa if nothing is there or change of mind then it goes no further ..... would never play if it was not right no chance of that |
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We met a couple on here once and arranged to meet them at a club. Upon arrival we realised we’d been catfished (Snapchat filters!) so we had a bit of a chat in the club and then just said that we were going for a look around the club. It was obvious what we meant and we saw them a few times throughout the night but it wasn’t awkward.
There should never be any obligation to play but the idea of not fucking (or at least being able to fuck if you want) doesn’t work for us. We rarely get time without the kids meaning it could be a couple of months between the social and the actual play which wouldn’t really work that well. |
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we are not interested in realtionship building; met for a very quick drink en route to the hotel room maybe, but otherwise we just wait for the knock on the door, man comes in, wife naked on bed. I fuck her while the man takes a wash and then he gets right into it! |
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