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"Which is your preferred meeting places, hotel meet or meets to take place in your own home? What are the pros and cons?"
I wont meet at either. Hotel as to much risk.. home as I live with my kids and dont want people to know where I live. I just use clubs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Club meets or hotel if we've met before.
No way I am bringing anyone to my home. Fab and home life are separate. "
 you go back to your life, they go back to theirs till the next time. |
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We would have to really connect with somebody for us to invite them round, we do a lot of digging and ask very straight forward questions…as we have found a lot of “single ladies” have a couples account, which a lot of the time is male lead and he’s communicating not her.  |
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Happy at home with people i already know and trust.
Main thing they need to know is we won't be sitting around watching telly because I haven't got one. If they want a telly then it's their place or a hotel! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hotels all the way. No tidying up to do, no going to strangers houses, no having guys in my family home so they don't know where I live, no cleaning up afterwards, the anonymity, the extra naughtiness... so many benefits I wouldn't really do fab meets any other way |
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Hotel for definite. I can’t have anyone at my house anyway it’s my kids home and safe space. Even if I didn’t have kids I would want it at my home. I don’t think I would feel comfortable at the other persons home either. Neutral ground suits me better and it adds something else |
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We do have hotel meets - but only when we're staying in one, as we'd rather spend the money going to a club than hiring a room, knowing there's a chance the meet won't turn up.
We prefer to meet at home (when the kids are away) as we've not lost anything when people don't turn up.
We were asked by one guest if we felt safe inviting strangers round, so we pointed out all the reenactment weapons hanging on the walls, and that we're both proficient in their use, so, yes we feel safe enough. |
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We've only had home meets but only when the kids are out or on a sleep over.
S finds she relaxes more in her own surroundings. Not against club or hotel meets as and when the scenario presents itself. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
We’ve had home and hotel meets.
Home meets are better in a way as we have access to all our toys, where as hotel meets we are limited to what we take with us.
So far we have been lucky that none of the people who have been to our home have turned out to be bunny boilers! |
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"Learned my lesson the hard way with meeting at my home....never ever again x"
It is something we've discussed the pros and cons over. Fortunately we've not experienced any issues but very aware there could be reprocutions and something we might change when we resume meeting. |
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There's a lot to be said for meeting at home but for us none of that outwighs the risk of the potential hassles in all sorts of situations. All great until it goes pear shaped. We experienced this first hand - never again, ever, for anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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never used a hotel for meets unless someone is already in one looking for a meet (rare as i dont see myself as a escort for the buisness man) alway met from home even on my singles account and over 28 years only ever really had one real problem with a stalker that the police sorted ...mind you we did fit cctv to cover the whole house after that ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We always do home meets
Do you do a social first, Just to get a feel the person/couple?"
We tend to just play now if we feel sure about them, if we are undecided we may meet for a social first. |
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"Definitely worth having a social meet and many conversations with anyone you are thinking of inviting into your home just to be on the safe side"
I've always had social meets first (sometimes more than one) |
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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago
NOTTINGHAM |
We've had plenty of hotel meets and had an absolute ball with them. Loads of fun and a good time had by all.
We recently had a meet at our home with a well known and trusted single male we'd met a number of times prior and it felt like it actually heightened things for us
Bringing that into our "safe space" with the risk of neighbours seeing something (the 3 of us had a splash in the hot tub!) was definitely a turn on.
Having another man fuck my wife in my house was very enjoyable  |
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By *ugehandsMan
over a year ago
Fife/ Newcastle |
I would always prefer hotel meets unless it was a more regular meet. Where if there is a trust and understanding then I would invite them to my home.
It's a very risky decision inviting relatively unknown strangers know where you live. |
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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago
Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat |
Hotels every time for me.
So much more relaxing and don't feel like invading others private space.
Travel a bit mainly up north so always stay in a nice comtable hotel with walk in shower.
For a clean friendly start/finish to a awesome hour/nights sex.
Some great hotel contacts local aswell.
Fancy some hotel fun just private message saying
**LuvHotels**
I'll pay BigT |
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Never home for us (maybe if kid free and freinds we know well). Although can see the advantage to price, travel (if its your home) and convenience.
Clubs for us 95% of the time for us. Plus it's fun meeting new people and enjoying a nice variety of people and opportunities all in one night under one roof.
We have/will do hotels. Hotels meets good for people you already know and can reply on. But they ain't so great if the other people down show up because you've still paid for the room. We are far more likely to accept an invite to someone else's room than we are to invite them to ours (especially if we don't know them well). Not because we're entitled dicks, just because it's what we feel comfortable with and happy to trade opportunity for being more at ease. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
I do enjoy a hotel meet or going to theirs. I do have a FWB where I stay overnight which is great.
I have accommodated at mine years ago but now my kids are older and at home so I don’t have that freedom. Only ever had people I knew well at mine and that I met often.
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Prefer home meets but appreciate not everyone wants to or can accommodate in their home (myself included especially being the latter).
So for now until I get my own place, if someone I meet cannot or won’t accommodate in their home, it’s a hotel meet or we meet in a club/at a party. |
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Always a hotel or club.
No one from fab has my address that way, just find it unnecessary information they don’t need.
I prefer clubs these days as get to see the girls and socialise with them too x |
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Home preferably - I've been stood up so so many times in hotel meets and its not a cheap thing to do that I prefer to host if I can. Meet in public for a walk and chat and head to mine if all good. |
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We like to keep it seperate from our home. We don't mind other people's home. But we much prefer the neutrality of a hotel or Airbnb. Your always a bit conscious in someone's home and that can be a distraction. |
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"Always a hotel or club.
No one from fab has my address that way, just find it unnecessary information they don’t need.
I prefer clubs these days as get to see the girls and socialise with them too x"
And this. Our home is just for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread has got me thinking…
I have it on my profile that I can accommodate, and logistically, I can, but the whole aspect of keeping swinging separate from my wider life (as my colleagues, neighbours and friends don’t know) has me thinking I should move any prospective meets to hotels.
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