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Do girls in couple actually want to ?
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That's a personal choice question. Some will and some won't.
Slot of the couples I have met in a club environment are male driven.
But there are a lot of profiles that are female driven on the site.
There will be couples who also jump together as a couple.
So as I say. Personal choice.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it the case that girls here actually want to meet or is it driven by the male half of the couple ?"
I have a couples profile on here. I wasn’t 100% in to it. But now I manage it 99% of the time and end up having more interaction. |
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Mr started it and suggested it so it was male led. That said, I am now enjoying it all and making my own suggestions. He Manages most of the messaging but I am into it. I just prefer to get involved when it gets more real. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over 30 years ago Tom suggested a 3sum and after a little persuasion and a lot of fantasy scenarios we did it. I loved it and it got better every time we met someone. Now we both love and want it, which is why I'm on here now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was the husband who started it by telling me his fantasies. But as things progressed it was was a joint decision to start playing. Now I am the one who as taken the lead. But it is still mutual consent were and what we do. |
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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago
NOTTINGHAM |
Definitely a mutual decision here.
Sometimes one or the other of us will be wanting to organise a meet more, but this can sometimes be due to what we're looking to arrange.
That said, anything suggested by one is pretty much always supported by the other. |
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"Totally down to both of us. We feel if things were being done just to keep one of us happy we'd be doing it for the wrong reasons.
Dog"
Agree completely here.
No judgement to anyone else but our situation is in full control of both of us at all times |
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I definitely actually want to meet! Everything is a joint decision for us, if one of us doesn’t feel it, then we don’t do it! I send all the messages, post on the forums, take the photographs etc, but both always involved  Miss pc |
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"Is it the case that girls here actually want to meet or is it driven by the male half of the couple ?"
I met Milf at a sex party and we have now been together for 9 years. She definitely decides who's going to fuck her, it's her body. So she always has the final say in who we meet. |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"Is it the case that girls here actually want to meet or is it driven by the male half of the couple ?"
Yes I actually want to meet, I set the profile up.
Dick and I agree together on who or whom we meet or don't meet.
He has never tried to make me do anything and I certainly would not 'take one for the team!' |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
It's about how both feel comfortable to me have chatted with few whereas the female has permission to play alone as well as together which I think is great that everyone feels comfortable with... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really interact with couples on here but based on observations, I reckon there are a fair few where the woman doesn't actually know she is part of a couples profile  |
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"Is it the case that girls here actually want to meet or is it driven by the male half of the couple ?"
I personally would never want Anita to do something that she didn't want to. It would sadden me to be responsible for that.
We discussed at length what we wanted out of swinging and the majority revolves around Anita's fantasies.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We jointly run the couples account..Mr tends to do most of the day to day browsing (more idal time on my hands) but any messages, photo updates or contact is done together..in fact this is where Mrs tends to take the lead  |
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"I don't really interact with couples on here but based on observations, I reckon there are a fair few where the woman doesn't actually know she is part of a couples profile "
Easily done … I was part of a profile (not on here) that I had no knowledge about and I barely knew the chap ( met him twice at parties as we have friends in common )
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"Is it the case that girls here actually want to meet or is it driven by the male half of the couple ?"
Why would you assume men are the main drivers?
I didn't lose my body autonomy, sex drive or mental capacity when I got married.
There are couples where one or the other is clearly not keen. Thankfully, in my experience this is relatively rare.
I my (our) case, although my husband set up our couple profile, we started swinging initially for me to explore my bisexuality. If anything that makes me the driving force. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about the single ladies here, are they driven by a man in the shadows?"
No I'm here for myself to meet girls alone but if couples are interested then I will get my husband involved to begin with as my safety is important. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"Is it the case that girls here actually want to meet or is it driven by the male half of the couple ?"
What a strange question? Why do you think that females should be any less keen than men, or that they're being dragged into swinging? Don't you think that women have sexual fantasies that they'd like to fulfill too? |
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