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over a year ago
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Hi,
Just throwing this out there into the ether. Do people actually find partners here who they really like and develop a long term relationship? Or is it mostly just quick meets and so on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi,
Just throwing this out there into the ether. Do people actually find partners here who they really like and develop a long term relationship? Or is it mostly just quick meets and so on.
X"
I don’t have any statistics to back this up but I reckon it’s safe to say the majority of action that is initiated on this site is quick meets and one offs. I’m sure there are people who have found true love and entered into a long term relationship after meeting through this site but they are definitely very much in the minority.
It’s a swingers site, the name gives that away, why are you asking about long term relationships when it’s obvious that’s not what people here are looking for. Did you really need to ask whether it’s ‘mostly just quick meets’ that people come here for? If it was mostly long term relationships that people here were looking for it would just be a dating site with a very inappropriate name. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi,
Just throwing this out there into the ether. Do people actually find partners here who they really like and develop a long term relationship? Or is it mostly just quick meets and so on.
X"
Both. 
Some people meet and have relationships, some even get married. If people want a swinging relationship this is a great place to look.
Some just meet once and move on.
Some become FWBs and meet regularly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi,
Just throwing this out there into the ether. Do people actually find partners here who they really like and develop a long term relationship? Or is it mostly just quick meets and so on.
X"
I meet most people in clubs or tinder actually. Fab is more of a tool to learn about new things and places to visit, for me. |
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Most interactions are no strings, some are longer term and a few because romantic relationships. For most men, it is incredibly hard work needed to be invested to become established and to get what they want |
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I’m sorry, but it fustrates me when people say this is just a place for sex.
Swinging for me is a lifestyle, I’ve made greater friendships here than I ever would in the vanilla world.
I believe you can find a relationship here, especially if you’re looking to stay in this lifestyle. For me the usual dating sites are harder, because as soon you start mentioning swinging, you become the leper and they have gone off you!
Don’t get me wrong I don’t live this life 24/7, but I’d like to start dating those who understand there are times I want to enjoy this side of life.
All I’d advise is you’re home eat and upfront with what you want x |
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"There are a couple local to us on here who met through fab and got married. I wouldn’t imagine it’s very common but it does happen. "
We're are also engaged. So one day another wedding Fab is responsible for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and mr met on here and been together 7 years and been swinging as a couple from as soon as we hog together
If you are looking for a relationship that is monogamous a swinging site probably is the best place because I would imagine the reason they are looking on here is because they want the swinging lifestyle
But at the same time you never know what could happen |
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Think you are looking at this site in the completely wrong way, I would say this site is generally for the satisfaction to quench a sexual desire rather than to seek a relationship, saying that I do believe meetings could lead to a relationship but if you are looking to meet couples with the intention of stealing someone’s partner then I would say you are playing a very dangerous game. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know.. I can barely find a single partner, let alone maintain one with part of a couple but I do admire those that are able to make it work though "
Thought you would have been snapped up many times over fella!
What's up with fabber's fussy lot heh lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think you are looking at this site in the completely wrong way, I would say this site is generally for the satisfaction to quench a sexual desire rather than to seek a relationship, saying that I do believe meetings could lead to a relationship but if you are looking to meet couples with the intention of stealing someone’s partner then I would say you are playing a very dangerous game."
Swingers cheat too. If the person wants to cheat then they will. Not anyone else's fault if that partner cheats. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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relationship can happen anywhere and do however i think the numbers are way off compared to how may use the site ...
how differcult is it for guys to find swinging friends and just think how hard it would be to find a partner ...
its ok for those to say well i found one because thats just it youve found one think how many wont the numbers and percentages dont add up how many swinging couples met off the scene ? almost all we know and from the forums alone most ...
im not saying its not do - able as clearly it is ..i even agree there should be a dating section on here but clearly its a very small minority too and bearing in mind how many men % wise to women then for guys its almost impossible . |
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"Think you are looking at this site in the completely wrong way, I would say this site is generally for the satisfaction to quench a sexual desire rather than to seek a relationship, saying that I do believe meetings could lead to a relationship but if you are looking to meet couples with the intention of stealing someone’s partner then I would say you are playing a very dangerous game.
Swingers cheat too. If the person wants to cheat then they will. Not anyone else's fault if that partner cheats. "
Absolutely true that's why it's important that both partners talk about what they want to get from the meet in a upfront honest way |
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"Hi,
Just throwing this out there into the ether. Do people actually find partners here who they really like and develop a long term relationship? Or is it mostly just quick meets and so on.
X"
Yes there are many people who do this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow. Thanks for all the responses guys. I see a fair few of you have had meaningful relationships here which is surprising but great! In response to some of you, I was not looking at the site in any way, just putting a question out there . Each to their own
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We met here. Happy as can be together. Absolute total honesty, right from the start. It's refreshing!
Never looked back x"
but all relationships should be totally honest from the start ? thats the problem most are not then they split..
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"We met here. Happy as can be together. Absolute total honesty, right from the start. It's refreshing!
Never looked back x
but all relationships should be totally honest from the start ? thats the problem most are not then they split..
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Most marriages are a result of social conditioning I suppose.
Trying to be something you're not, to fit in and behave. That's the dishonest bit, and it's nobody's fault.
Neither of us are very good at that, but we're collectively awesome at misbehaving.
Which is why it works for us! |
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Stopped it when it got out of hand and she wanted to leave her husband 
