And I want to play, but my experiences previously were as part of a couple... And selecting someone for some one on one fun via cock pics isn't quite what I'm looking for..
I suppose I'm wondering how people can meet others sort of socially, and in a way that isn't going to scare the life out of me
I mean, don't get me wrong I'm fun when I'm in the mood, but feeling a bit shy right now |
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"And I want to play, but my experiences previously were as part of a couple... And selecting someone for some one on one fun via cock pics isn't quite what I'm looking for..
I suppose I'm wondering how people can meet others sort of socially, and in a way that isn't going to scare the life out of me
I mean, don't get me wrong I'm fun when I'm in the mood, but feeling a bit shy right now "
The group socials are a good way
Otherwise, I look for well written profiles that pique my interest then see if the conversation through messaging is engaging |
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We used to go to group socials and have found that quite a few single men are more than happy to meet socially a few times too. I think if you take the approach that you're going to do this in a way that is most comfortable *for you* you'll find that quite a lot of people feel the same way.  |
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Rosie has a ‘burner’ phone just for fab, that’s not associated with any private social media or anything else.
If a convo on here looks okay she moves onto chatting with them on WhatsApp, which filters out most of the wank chat attempts pretty quick.
Then she’ll meet for a social at a local (ish) public place. Usually a pub or coffee shop. We have a 2 hour limit too - if she isn’t interested by then it’s probably a no go.
After that she’ll arrange to play whenever she likes. |
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If you find a profile you like the look of be brave & send them a message first, you don't have to choose from cock pics lots of guys will send a face pic if you ask x |
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By *orny PTMan
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"I'll have to look out for group socials then, thanks
Do a forum search for Crowland social which is a great night and run by an absolutely lovely couple. "
Yup, I've been there as a couple and by myself. It's always packed. The killer pool is the main event of the night and everybody joins in. |
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I’ve never been to a club, do all my socialising at group socials. No pressure environment and I can chat with whomever whenever.
Bonus is being full dressed as I’m quite shy with my in between gym bod I’ve got going on.
There are always people you can meet up with at socials/clubs... find out who goes to ones near you and maybe start a chat and see how you feel?
I haven’t had a FAB meet in so long I’m not sure I’d know the etiquette now lol
Pix x |
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Hi OP.
I don’t know how you are with being on camera, but I always try and have a video call before meeting someone. Great way to break the ice first and that way, you can check if they’re a catfish. |
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By *orny PTMan
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"I'll have to look out for group socials then, thanks
Do a forum search for Crowland social which is a great night and run by an absolutely lovely couple.
Yup, I've been there as a couple and by myself. It's always packed. The killer pool is the main event of the night and everybody joins in."
That's a knockout game of pool, not a lethal hot tub. |
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