Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.
This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest. |
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"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.
This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest. "
If this isn't the place to indulge such a fetish, goodness knows where is. |
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"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.
This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest.
If this isn't the place to indulge such a fetish, goodness knows where is."
there is a difference between a spanking that leaves a bottom all red and lightly bruised and a spanking that can leave marks welts and possible blood
If its the latter that someone seeks then this isn't the right place. Try a, more suitable fetish /bdsm site if you are into specialist spanking techniques |
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"Have to confess it does nothing for me, either giving or receiving, wondered what folks enjoy about it?"
I enjoy receiving it because of the power exchange and also the pain and pleasure intertwine. It's highly erotic. |
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"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.
This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest. "
I would disagree, I found that here. |
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"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.
This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest. "
There are people into giving and receiving here for sure but there's kink shaming as well. Is that what you meant? |
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"Have to confess it does nothing for me, either giving or receiving, wondered what folks enjoy about it?
I enjoy receiving it because of the power exchange and also the pain and pleasure intertwine. It's highly erotic. "
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Have to confess it does nothing for me, either giving or receiving, wondered what folks enjoy about it?"
It depends what kind of spanking we are talking about.
Doing someone doggy style and slapping their buttocks can be fun, but is a totally different experience to bending someone over your knee, hiking their skirt up and knickers down and then giving them a spanking. Warming their skin, getting it to a nice rosey glow. The sound as skin hits skin. The gentle amalgamation of pleasure and pain. The sounds they make as you build it up.
You either know why you like it or don’t.
There are plenty of things others enjoy that don’t interest me. Its what makes us all unique.
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Had a gf into getting spanked. But it felt weird doing it. I didn't feel I had ownership of giving the spanking. I may have liked it with somebody else. |
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"Have to confess it does nothing for me, either giving or receiving, wondered what folks enjoy about it?
I enjoy receiving it because of the power exchange and also the pain and pleasure intertwine. It's highly erotic. "
I so wish your age restriction was a little higher. |
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"OMG, I absolutely love getting a good spanking! It takes a lot of practice to be a good spanker and spankee!!!  
Your right there when I first did it felt odd although arousing and you have to get palm of your hand to spank the skin in the right way....if you know what I mean "
Yeah, the last guy that tried to spank me failed miserably and it was so disappointing. It definitely takes a lot of practice to know how to do it so its a turn on and not just painful. |
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"Had a gf into getting spanked. But it felt weird doing it. I didn't feel I had ownership of giving the spanking. I may have liked it with somebody else. "
I think it's all about the dynamic - I have only had spankings from those I felt that dynamic with. A spanking can also be quite different things - given to reconnect, as pure pain/pleasure or as a punishment for example. |
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"Have to confess it does nothing for me, either giving or receiving, wondered what folks enjoy about it?
I enjoy receiving it because of the power exchange and also the pain and pleasure intertwine. It's highly erotic.
I so wish your age restriction was a little higher."
I prefer younger men in general, so it won't change. |
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As other people have mentioned, for me, it's all about the dynamic between the spanker and the spanker. I've enjoyed spanking and being spanked by previous partners, depending on the nature of our particular dynamic. |
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It’s the dynamic and not just through spanking. That’s just a part of it.
With my vanilla head on then it sounds weird. However when my devil comes out then it’s the most perfectly natural thing in the world to do.
It excites us both…the thought of it, the anticipation before, the spanking…it’s all a build up…C can orgasm from it, the build up, the impact…it’s mentally and physically stimulating.
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I was introduced to impact play by a FB/Master last year and I get so turned on during it! Turns out I'm actually quiet good at it from the veri he left me!!! |
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I consider myself as "enhanced vanilla" but I'm very much into this. I'm a spanker but not a 'spankee'. The intense reaction and behavioural response from a sexually-receptive playmate is an extreme turn on for me. |
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"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.
This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest.
I would disagree, I found that here. "
That’s good. Was referring to my own experience over the years. I’m more at home with it on FL. |
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"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.
This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest.
There are people into giving and receiving here for sure but there's kink shaming as well. Is that what you meant?"
Sure. What I meant really, was there are other places that are more heavily populated by spankos and thus better for indulging the fetish. |
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"Have to confess it does nothing for me, either giving or receiving, wondered what folks enjoy about it?"
I had an FB that used to gush when I spanked her. It was that fine line between pleasure and pain that drove her wild |
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We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha |
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"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha "
All of this. Would love to find a guy who can give a good spanking like this. |
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over a year ago
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"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha
All of this. Would love to find a guy who can give a good spanking like this."
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"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha "
Show us instead!!!  |
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"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha
Show us instead!!! "
We tried to upload the pics but they got knocked back  it's like a crime scene to be fair haha |
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"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha
Show us instead!!!
We tried to upload the pics but they got knocked back it's like a crime scene to be fair haha "
Have you tried fetlife.com? |
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Love it OTK or TYT there is nothing like having a suitably attired subslut or hotwife over your knee - I think it is the warming sensation of the heat spreading from chastised cheeks to other lower regions that has the desired effect or that’s what some of the women I have spanked have told me - I look for little signs that my hand is having the desired effect it’s fun as part of a role play / my favourite is a bailiff calls on a naughty hotwife who has run up some parking fines lol -  |
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"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha
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We tried to upload the pics but they got knocked back it's like a crime scene to be fair haha
Have you tried fetlife.com? "
Was going to say the same thing, but didn't think such pointers were A-OK here. |
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"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha
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We tried to upload the pics but they got knocked back it's like a crime scene to be fair haha
Have you tried fetlife.com? "
Cheers one pic has been accepted, its a couple of days later so not toooo bad |
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"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha
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We tried to upload the pics but they got knocked back it's like a crime scene to be fair haha "
I think it's one of those not-allowed things and people can get very fired up about kink. |
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"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha
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We tried to upload the pics but they got knocked back it's like a crime scene to be fair haha
I think it's one of those not-allowed things and people can get very fired up about kink. "
Where newish to this site so wasn't sure |
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"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.
This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest. "
It’s hot! Not too hard though |
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"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.
This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest.
It’s hot! Not too hard though "
It's not entirely sexual for me, but I 'get off' on the spankee getting off, so hard, sensual, both ... if it floats your boat, it floats mine. |
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"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.
This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest.
It’s hot! Not too hard though
It's not entirely sexual for me, but I 'get off' on the spankee getting off, so hard, sensual, both ... if it floats your boat, it floats mine. "
I get that |
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A few years back my much younger partner of the time loved being spanked bare hand, paddle & riding crop! Nothing to cause any scaring or done to aggressively, just gentle to firm. She loved it & would get soaking wet. |
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