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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?"

Vaginal or anal penetration with a dick

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple  over a year ago

Broadstairs

Agree with your friend

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By *arry247Couple  over a year ago

Wakefield


"Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?"

Sex starts with looks and speech and carries on thourgh various activities right up to penetration and the exchange of bodily fluids.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?"

I think the same

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?

Vaginal or anal penetration with a dick "

Hmmm interesting - I’ve defo had sex with lots of women as a bi female !

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?"

Oral is oral sex is it not?

So yes, it's sexual contact.

Put it this way, if your partner said "but I didn't have sex with her, I just licked her fanny" you'd still consider it cheating in a sexual sense, therefore in my mind it definitely comes under "sex"

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Its like what would you count as part of your body count,

1) people youve penetrated with dick or toys

2) people youve had oral with

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Virginal and anal only

Everything else is foreplay

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By *aomilatteCouple  over a year ago

Midlands


"Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?

Vaginal or anal penetration with a dick

Hmmm interesting - I’ve defo had sex with lots of women as a bi female !"

This is a good point! Do Women have sex with each other?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?

Vaginal or anal penetration with a dick

Hmmm interesting - I’ve defo had sex with lots of women as a bi female !

This is a good point! Do Women have sex with each other?"

We sure do ! Good sex as well! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Any sort of sexual contact I would class as sex

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Blow job doesn’t count. Ask Bill Clinton.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple  over a year ago

Cumbria

Sex is penetration in my opinion.

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By *angOnBunnyCouple  over a year ago

Ipswich


"Any sort of sexual contact I would class as sex "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?"

It's called Oral for a reason lol, not sex unless penetrated In our book anyway x

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By *eyond PurityCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Whilst you’d maybe not put it on your tally oral is still sexual contact.

I don’t think you’d be impressed if a partner came home and said they’d not had sex with someone - they just blew me…

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Depends if i gave permission lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?

Sex starts with looks and speech and carries on thourgh various activities right up to penetration and the exchange of bodily fluids. "

This. Without a doubt. Sex doesn't have to include exchange of bodily fluids... Other parts of sex can be much more fun and satisfying

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By *23RouteCouple  over a year ago

Huddersfield

Yes , I think of full sex as pussy penetration , if a lad says he’s had sex with my wife , then he’s done that !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?"

Ejaculation and Orgasm not dependent on how.

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm with you OP. I class oral sex as foreplay, unless they stick their tongue right in

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By *urulovesnylonMan  over a year ago

Harrow

Oral is foreplay vaginal or anal penetration is sex.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Would fingering be classed as sex or a handjob? How about french kissing? Or breast play?

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?"

Bill Clinton comes to mind ....lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What a hand about Job off a woman ( to a guy )

And a prostate massage that's penetration isn't it ?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

I consider anything that involves intimate touching as sex. From passionate kissing to full penetration. My opinion is that trying to closely define what counts as sex stops people from enjoying a wide range of pleasures in the belief that they're not doing "it" properly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For me "sex" is the whole act. Actual penetration is just part of having sex with someone

K

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ask bill clinton..

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By *lofeldMan  over a year ago

Redhill

I would describe penetrative as full sex, if I didn't have that then I would describe it as played around, or maybe something more sophisticated when I'm feeling literate.

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By *ockosaurusMan  over a year ago

Warwick

I'd say it's all down to context and if you aren't more specific can be miss interpreted.

Personally, I count any sexual act involving genitals as a form of sex, but would clarify as penetrative, oral, etc.

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By *heerFlirtMan  over a year ago

Quite near Bath usually

My view is that it is whatever gives you and your partner(s) sexual pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?"

Yes I think the same as you..

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"My view is that it is whatever gives you and your partner(s) sexual pleasure."

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My view is that it is whatever gives you and your partner(s) sexual pleasure."

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By *rispyDuckMan  over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Any form of penetration

- sausage in mouth

- sausage in muff

- sausage in bun

- tongue in muff

- tongue in bun

And so on you filthy buggers haha

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By *reenleavesCouple  over a year ago

North Wales


"I consider anything that involves intimate touching as sex. From passionate kissing to full penetration. My opinion is that trying to closely define what counts as sex stops people from enjoying a wide range of pleasures in the belief that they're not doing "it" properly. "

This!

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By *palgMan  over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"For me "sex" is the whole act. Actual penetration is just part of having sex with someone

K"

I agree!

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By *palgMan  over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"I'd say it's all down to context and if you aren't more specific can be miss interpreted.

Personally, I count any sexual act involving genitals as a form of sex, but would clarify as penetrative, oral, etc.

"

I'd love to meet Miss Interpreted! lol

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By *orthampton jamesMan  over a year ago

Northampton

At the moment going through a very barren spell so just a look at a lady's bare ankle is sex at the min

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?"

I’m with you

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By *nt1Man  over a year ago

Allington

If the question was 'when did you first have sex?' Most people would think of the first time they were penetrated even if they had dabbled with oral or hand jobs/fingering before.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple  over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?

Vaginal or anal penetration with a dick

Hmmm interesting - I’ve defo had sex with lots of women as a bi female !"

I’ve defo had sex with lots of women as a bi female too ! No cock present...

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By *addy bareMan  over a year ago

lakeside

I think sex is what you make it,as long as you both cum at the end of whatever you do

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple  over a year ago

Broadstairs

If your partner found out that you had sucked a cock or licked a fanny behind there back what would they call it ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A second look these days!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A second look these days! "
I think you need to go to spec savers lol your stuning xx

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By *unmatt888Man  over a year ago

Duns

I guess it’s one of those things that doesn’t really need quantifying, unless you’re testifying before Congress.

Plenty of straight/gay male couplings would consider a penis going in as sex, but then where does that leave lesbian pairings? Is it a penis anywhere, or just in a vagina? In which case gay men can’t have sex either… and if a cock in an anus counts as sex then why not in a mouth?

And technically, most things are called [thing] sex, so I guess they’re all sex.

But like any other label, it probably doesn’t need a perfect definition. It is what you decide it is.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a discussion with my friend and they count oral, vaginal and anal as sex.

I dont count oral as sex, only pussy and ass penetration as sex.

Anyone think the same as me or my friend?

Oral is oral sex is it not?

So yes, it's sexual contact.

Put it this way, if your partner said "but I didn't have sex with her, I just licked her fanny" you'd still consider it cheating in a sexual sense, therefore in my mind it definitely comes under "sex""

Completely aggree...an exchange of any bodily fluid is sex..

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By *orny PTMan  over a year ago

Peterborough

Maeve, this sounds like a Bill Clinton question.

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By *orny PTMan  over a year ago

Peterborough

Legally, the law is much more stricter and precise on this regarding, age, bodily parts and consent.

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By *ockosaurusMan  over a year ago

Warwick


"I'd say it's all down to context and if you aren't more specific can be miss interpreted.

Personally, I count any sexual act involving genitals as a form of sex, but would clarify as penetrative, oral, etc.

I'd love to meet Miss Interpreted! lol"

Haha! Bloody autocarrot.

Suprised it's not a username.

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By *raggleRocCouple  over a year ago

Morpeth

Lucky

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By *orny PTMan  over a year ago

Peterborough


"I'd say it's all down to context and if you aren't more specific can be miss interpreted.

Personally, I count any sexual act involving genitals as a form of sex, but would clarify as penetrative, oral, etc.

I'd love to meet Miss Interpreted! lol

Haha! Bloody autocarrot.

Suprised it's not a username. "

It's going free! Grab it while you can girls!

Mister Boat would be good too!

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By *pertureTV/TS  over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

oral is foreplay, penetration is sex.

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By *bzcoupleCouple  over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

It depends on the context.

A blowjob behind your partners back (cheating) then that’s sex far all intents and purposes. (Giving or receiving)

Telling your mates in the pub you had sex and it was oral? Probably stretching the truth there a bit!

But does it really matter?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oral Sex is indeed Sex.

Fucking is Full Sex.

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