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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.
Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.
Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Female half here. It's always me on here, he never has time and I'm the one that likes to pick lol and chat
I book the clubs, sort the meets, do everything. He's there when told  |
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We very much discuss and view profiles together before messaging but it's me the male who runs the account because she can not be bothered with the mountain of dick pictures and stupid messages we reserve. |
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It's either or with us, we both like to chat on here before (hopefully) moving to WhatsApp for a group chat, although lately Alyson has been doing a lot of the winking/replying/messaging....
....she's just a natural little flirt and has a knack of keeping a conversation going! At some point tho if a chat is going well then the other one will jump in to say hi  x x |
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Plenty of pics of me (Harry ) on our profile , we’ve recently created it ., Sarah winks at folks and I message them …seems to be the pattern at the moment … but we look at profiles together before chatting to them .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.
Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.
Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "
Yes, I’ve been having a lovely chat with the female half of a couple over the last week or so. She’s looking for an F for an MFF and can’t find one! But luckily, though not currently interested in a M, she happily chats with me and I enjoy our conversations. |
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"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.
Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.
Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "
Yes us...  I Nilly have much more perving time than Willy... he ll message if replying etc  |
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We both use the site and message.
If one of us message someone we let each other know or check sent messages.
We both like to get involved in chats as it’s going to be both of us playing.
I quite enjoy logging in and seeing C flirting with someone 
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"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.
Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.
Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "
Dave does most of the actual messaging but we both do talk on forums and both decide what to say. Sammi is just bored easily by typing. I mean, there’s only so much typing can be done whilst watching TikTok, right? |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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Plenty of pics of both me n my partner on our couple profile,
It's my partner who usually does any fabbing or messaging.
Tbh there's usually not many profiles nearby, that have pics of both people and that aren't specifically looking for other bi fem couples.
Hence why we meet alone on our individual profiles. |
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By *alcandJueCouple
over a year ago
Merthyr Tydfil |
Jue does 99% of our messages as i don't have the time normally although we both read everything.
It's normally me that jumps in to end a chat though when things don't seem or look right normally followed by the block button |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We both use the site and message.
If one of us message someone we let each other know or check sent messages.
We both like to get involved in chats as it’s going to be both of us playing.
I quite enjoy logging in and seeing C flirting with someone
K"
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Our profile is led by me and all messages are done by me. Mr reads them all but very rarely responds. He is very interested but leaves that side of it to me, he says I'm so good at it 
We like to think we have a good mixture of photos of us both on our profile too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate guys on here who kid on that they are a couple. There wife's always are never in x they usually are sleeping or working. The guys talks about him and his wife and asks for any horny pics or videos. I've been taken on before but now i can spot a fake couples profile a country mile away |
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"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.
Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.
Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "
Yes there is one here   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The majority of couples that have messaged me have obviously been just a male pretending to be a couple, they normally say that the female is either out or asleep but always say she’ll be there if we meet. It’s normally pretty easy to spot the fakes but I did get fooled a few weeks ago. I went to meet what I thought was a couple that I’d been chatting with for a few days, they had pictures of them together on their profile and they sent me more pictures of them together and when we were chatting it really felt like 2 different people messaging me. The only suspicion thing was that they wouldn’t do a video call but I know some people are wary of doing them until after they’ve met so I could understand that.
When I went to meet what I thought was going to be a couple it ended up being a single male, and he wasn’t even the man in the pictures. He apologised straight away and as he seemed like a nice man and was good looking I stuck around. We ended up having amazing sex so it turned out alright in the end... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.
Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.
Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "
My joint one with Sir is more often than not me replying with His permission. |
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This is such a good thread. Why is it that although this is a couples profile at least 98 % of messages are from guys assuming they are talking to the fem. Even couples that contact us its always the male chatting assuming it's the female online.!!!!! |
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"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.
Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.
Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "
I would go further and say how many couples profiles does a female actually exist ??! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is such a good thread. Why is it that although this is a couples profile at least 98 % of messages are from guys assuming they are talking to the fem. Even couples that contact us its always the male chatting assuming it's the female online.!!!!! "
All the pics are of a woman. |
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"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.
Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.
Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "
I read the messages, but it is only Anna that generates any replies that we send to anybody.
It is very much a joint profile, but the messages it is just Anna. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm quite surprised by this to be honest. If/when my partner joins me on here then I'd like to think she will be happy to lead the way. I assumed most profiles were "managed" by the better halves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both read all the messages on here but 9/10 it's me that does the replying (female) I tend to say which guys I like but always a joint decision when we do arrange a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both E and I chat and message - often inappropriately!
We're still quite new to this so suspect we're both quite cautious. So often how we interact can be led by one and then the other joins in
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both E and I chat and message - often inappropriately!
We're still quite new to this so suspect we're both quite cautious. So often how we interact can be led by one and then the other joins in
G"
If they want sex chat it's usually a man wanking. Once he's cum he will disappear.
Cool if you're into that though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm quite surprised by this to be honest. If/when my partner joins me on here then I'd like to think she will be happy to lead the way. I assumed most profiles were "managed" by the better halves"
Never assume anything on fab! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The Mrs always does the messaging for us when it comes to organising meets and socials. Whereas I tend to do most of the forum interaction. But if needed I will pop into messages to show I exist
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We both love having a chat on here and we will sign off with our name too. Lou is great with striking up conversation and I love catching up and reading her chats. I tend to ramble a little bit lol.
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
We fall into the "bloke does most of the messaging" camp. We both have access to the account and we discuss everything and Char has the final say on all meets, but her tolerance for idiots means she'll get us banned within hours if she did the replies. She's also got an online business to run so her screen time is very much taken up with that.
Unfortunately she also suffers from fatigue as an after effect of chemotherapy so I'm always having to say that she'll see messages when she wakes up! Figure it makes me sound like a lone wanker, but can't do anything about it. Hopefully our veris show that we're real and there's two of us.
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We both chat and look at separate times but most of the time you are quite correct it's always the male and they always want to talk about the female very difficult to find genuine couples to chat and have fun with..
Single males making out there couples and single males being pushy.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think when chatting with couples it’s not usually clear who you are talking too not that you would say anything untoward but I think chatting to the male is different to chatting to the female or chatting to both and would help if knew within message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our profile is mainly run by Mrs Fun, and we try to remember to add our name after every message so the receiver knows who sent it. Admittedly most of our pictures are of her, as in my opinion she is a very sexy lady and deserves to be the focal point and are very clear in our profile what we are. we will always send face pictures after we have chatted for a while or agreed to meet. |
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They do exist , I run our profile! I take all the images, send the messages, post on the forums etc. Mr obviously messages once we start chatting to a lady, and is involved, it works well for us! Miss pc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us, James usually looks after messages/replies to single guys, Marie to single girls and it could be either of us with other couples.
We both enjoy browsing on here and making contact with people we'd like to meet together! X |
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For the first 4 years Mrs ran the account, however after the pretenders and pic collectors non meeting profiles rude people demanding more than we are prepared to do worn her down. It was either we left or I took up the account.
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"For the first 4 years Mrs ran the account, however after the pretenders and pic collectors non meeting profiles rude people demanding more than we are prepared to do worn her down. It was either we left or I took up the account.
Simple"
We can relate to this Miss pc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For the first 4 years Mrs ran the account, however after the pretenders and pic collectors non meeting profiles rude people demanding more than we are prepared to do worn her down. It was either we left or I took up the account.
Simple"
Is it any better now? Or do you just find it easier (than Mrs did) to delete all the bad ones and forget them? |
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"This is such a good thread. Why is it that although this is a couples profile at least 98 % of messages are from guys assuming they are talking to the fem. Even couples that contact us its always the male chatting assuming it's the female online.!!!!!
All the pics are of a woman. "
:not if you look through then they arnt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is such a good thread. Why is it that although this is a couples profile at least 98 % of messages are from guys assuming they are talking to the fem. Even couples that contact us its always the male chatting assuming it's the female online.!!!!!
All the pics are of a woman.
:not if you look through then they arnt"
Nah. I've got a life. |
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So I am the male half and I do all the messaging etc, mainly because my wife is absolutely rubbish at communicating!
If its more than one message she cant grasp it so decides to ignore. If I left it to her no one would get a reply! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.
Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.
Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "
Its generally me (Mrs) that does most of the winks/messages and Mr is always in the pics, I find it better that way, people can see us both.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both access the profile constantly, to the point we are both logged on at the same time now on different phones ha.
Mrs L does most of the messaging to couples and ladies, unless it's just the male of a couple that's chatting, then I will take over and get to know him.
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Every couples profile that has contacted me here in 5 years has been run by the woman apart from one.
Some of them I have chatted to for many months and they have never once mentioned their male partner and often change the subject if I ask about him.
Some of them chat and everything is going smoothly until the man decides to get involved in the conversation and it ends shortly after because of demands, instructions or a refusal to accept that I only meet socially first.
The one occasion that a male led profile got in touch he didn't even take the time to introduce themselves.
He immediately told me in the opening message that being male and straight on here meant I would never have options and if I agreed to play bi or guarantee a sexy lady they would consider putting me on their to do list.
These were all well verified couples and the last one had 100+ verifications so apparently it was my loss for refusing their kind instruction manual. |
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We're both in our profile photos, both access and use the account (and our solo ones) but I, male, do most of the talking on here. Wife just isn't that into chatting to people online as it takes forever to type anything. She would rather talk face to face to people.
I always inform people of this fact and if they don't like it, so be it. No reason for us to change what suits us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So to date I have arranged 3 meets with couples on here, 2 looked nothing like their pics (why bother) on my 3rd attempt just the male turned up when it was supposed to be the female half. Very annoying that this kind of thing happens on here  |
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we never let on who is returning a reply, as we like to be messaged as a couple and not one or the other..,as what tends too happen is some guys see posts on the forum from the female,and then we get bombarded with messages,we tried the theory once, it rang true.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am the chatty one on here (F) on mine & our couples profile. I find people on our wavelength then swap pics, show them to Beau, then we'd ask them to meet for a coffee or see them in a club. Boss is just as social & easy going in person, but doesn't like to text/call, generally.
I hear you on the couples profile with scarce male shots (if any) though! Only makes sense if he's not present, but then a single female profile would seem more logical ?!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So to date I have arranged 3 meets with couples on here, 2 looked nothing like their pics (why bother) on my 3rd attempt just the male turned up when it was supposed to be the female half. Very annoying that this kind of thing happens on here "
Omg that’s horrendous - Just the male turning up, I’ve heard of that happening before  |
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It's a constant annoyance for most people on Fab. If the couples profile is of a couple who come as a set there should be photos of both because we all like to see if we're physically attracted or not. Not just single ladies, ladies in couples, bi men in couples (if applicable) but also straight men want to see if the guy would be right for their partner. That's why we always have pictures of both of us on our profile. So many the time we've been approached by a couple and we've just not bothered chasing it up because we can see the guy. It's a bit sad how on one side men are kind of ignored and on the flip side women are just expected to accept any guy because he come with the hot lady. We believe both men and women deserve a better attitude and approach. |
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We both use the profile and both respond to messages. Deciding to meet or not is a mutual decision.
We also have photos of us both, though they do need updating.
It's rare that we meet through Fab, as we find clubs work better for us. No issues with time wasting or people not matching their photos.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a constant annoyance for most people on Fab. If the couples profile is of a couple who come as a set there should be photos of both because we all like to see if we're physically attracted or not. Not just single ladies, ladies in couples, bi men in couples (if applicable) but also straight men want to see if the guy would be right for their partner. That's why we always have pictures of both of us on our profile. So many the time we've been approached by a couple and we've just not bothered chasing it up because we can see the guy. It's a bit sad how on one side men are kind of ignored and on the flip side women are just expected to accept any guy because he come with the hot lady. We believe both men and women deserve a better attitude and approach."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In fairness M normally messages the women first, but we will both reply to all messages at some point. We have photos of both of us on our profile.
We have just agreed that from now on we won't reply to messages until we've both read them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.
Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.
Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "
Yes I the female half do the majority of the messages, that’s if we get a message from genuine people who actually want to meet up & not chancers |
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"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.
Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.
Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "
We both use fab but, yes it’s normally me (The Boy) that messages. However we do have a fair few pics as a couple and of me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mostly the male half especially in the forum. BB is a self confessed luddite that doesn't even have a computer and has to erase everything off her phone all the time as her kids regularly pick it up.
Once the conversation moves off this platform onto WhatsApp or other messenger she takes over. Mostly voice messaging as she has quite acute dyslexia. |
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"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.
Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.
Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "
We do all messaging kind of together, but it's mostly me using the profile.
I do find it cringy when men hide behind women's photos and do all the texting.
Special mention worth profiles are where highly opinionated men, who hide behind their women are active on forums
Missus |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"When a couple contact me its nearly always the male half that sends the messages.
Unfortunately there are not usually any pics of the male on the profile.
Just wondered if any female led profiles exist on fab where the lady does the messaging? "
Unfortunately we don't have many pics of Mr Choir on our profile though we are attempting to remedy that. We do a fairly even divide of messaging between us though
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both read messages but it’s me ( f) that mostly does and 99 percent of the messaging back. Our pics are me heavy as that’s what most people seem to want to see! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We make sure that we have both of us in our pics as this is also an issue Mrs has when looking at couples profiles...after all..it is a couple!!!!
Mr tends to browse the account more regularly but any response to messages will be done by Mrs..she definitely pulls the strings |
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