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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see a lot of men discussing their attraction to bbw/plus size/bigger built women, but I don't see as many women say the same.
Is it a fair assumption that more men than women like bbw?
I am well aware that attraction is subjective and individual, I like curvy women but that doesn't mean I am automatically attracted to her because she's a size 18. I don't know if it's my imposter syndrome or a Fab observation but I feel like finding women who aren't adverse to bbw/larger women is harder than finding men who aren't.
Maybe I'm rambling after two bottles of wine, answers on a postcard please  |
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It's an odd thing, isn't it? I do think a lot of it is just to do with the sheer number of men to women on here.
I don't have a physical type when it comes to men but when it comes to women I like them well rounded and luscious, all soft curves. I can appreciate the beauty of a slim woman and love to see some of the photos on here, but that's not who I tend to message! |
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It’s definitely an interesting one! I do know that the curvy/bbw related threads on the forum fill up very quickly, whereas the petite threads take a while! For me, I do have a natural attraction to ladies up to a size 14, they seem to catch my attention. I’m a size 8 and have definitely noticed a lack of attention from ladies on my single profile looking for ladies only! Obvs it could be a lot of factors, but I really do think my size may have a lot to do with it? It will be interesting to see what other ladies say on this thread, but I see a lot of love for the sexy curvy ladies that’s for sure Miss pc |
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I think women look for more in a women than men initially do. Equally I have to have a physical attraction, but even when initially meeting I need to feel a wider connection / attraction. So would I like a larger lady than myself…yes if we were attracted, can I tell that from a picture…no (but will still fab some of those sexy curves!). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think because I don't like my body, I expect others (especially women) to feel the same about it.
I also see most women as more attractive than me which feeds my insecurities.
It's likely the main reason I've not explored my sexuality as much as I might have wanted to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think because I don't like my body, I expect others (especially women) to feel the same about it.
I also see most women as more attractive than me which feeds my insecurities.
It's likely the main reason I've not explored my sexuality as much as I might have wanted to. "
You have no reason to feel insecure. Your obviously very intelligent and physically very sexy.
Be positive and live in the moment. |
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"I don't know if it's because I'm bbw myself but I love a larger lady, all curves, softness and squishy bits  "
Very much the same for me as a plus size woman. Absolutely love a soft tummy, big bum  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think because I don't like my body, I expect others (especially women) to feel the same about it.
I also see most women as more attractive than me which feeds my insecurities.
It's likely the main reason I've not explored my sexuality as much as I might have wanted to. "
I can understand where you're coming from.
I tend to think that females will never find me a attractive, especially if she has a fantastic body herself.
I am on Fab to meet women and couples but I'm held back from doing so as I find it hard to believe there's women put there who'd like someone who's a size 24! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think because I don't like my body, I expect others (especially women) to feel the same about it.
I also see most women as more attractive than me which feeds my insecurities.
It's likely the main reason I've not explored my sexuality as much as I might have wanted to.
I can understand where you're coming from.
I tend to think that females will never find me a attractive, especially if she has a fantastic body herself.
I am on Fab to meet women and couples but I'm held back from doing so as I find it hard to believe there's women put there who'd like someone who's a size 24!"
I think that’s certainly a common feeling, I know I feel that way all the time and it puts me off from messaging people so often.
I promise you though that there are women and men will take no notice of a size number and see you for the attractive lady you are.
(Now the challenge begins to convince myself of the same thing  ) |
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I am a big woman who is attracted to bigger plus sized women!
Best times of my swinging life have been with ladies with a little/lot extra. They're so tactile.
I just find it incredibly difficult to make my feelings known half the time. It's like I'm star struck by them, so just admire from afar!  |
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