I always read the bio first to get an idea of what they’re interested in, what they’re looking for and what they’re not looking for. Normally I’ll see that they’re only interested in men with big dicks or that they’re submissive or they’ve said they aren’t interested in bi men or hairy men so I’ll know then that I need to move on as I’m not what they’re looking. If after reading their bio I think we could be a match then I have a look at the pictures, if there are any, but that’s only out of interest as I don’t judge anyone on their physical appearance and tend to be attracted to everyone in some way. The only reason I’d be put off by someone’s pictures is if they seem fake in any way (I’m always a bit suspicious if I see studio quality pictures of someone who looks like an absolute God/Goddess). I’ll then quickly check that our age ranges match and that we don’t live too far apart and if after all that I feel that it’s not inappropriate for me to send them a message then I’ll do so.

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By *ir SupremacyMan over a year ago

Bolton

Their verifications....who they been associated with

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman over a year ago

WSM

Location

Public photos (I like an idea of who I’m talking to not fussed if they hide face pictures as I do myself)

If they meet smokers

If they can accommodate

What they write, is it semi intelligent/interesting

Verification

Pretty much in that order

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

decent photos

intelligent words written in the intro

people who can communicate well

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By *revaunanceCouple over a year ago

Exeter

Something worth reading, proving they actually care about the impression they make.

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By *sm265Woman over a year ago

Shangri-la

Read the bio first to see if their personality appeals to me , if it does then I check the pics to see if there is any physical attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We always read the profile first. If they take time and care writing a good profile then they will probably be the same in real life.

Some pictures are a real turn on but often pictures can turn us off. A "cock" shot has never done anything for us and photos that look like a full dental extraction gone wrong are not our thing.

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple over a year ago

on the move

That they're real

Nice bio with information

Some pictures that give an idea of their body shape, kinks perhaps and personality, not just extreme close ups.

And most recently any evidence that they believe covid is a conspiracy, the earth is flat etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Photos first the bio

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