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How many of you have had this on a meet? I'm talking holding each other close, long, lingering kisses... just basically taking the time to enjoy every minute, and constantly showing your partner how much you're enjoying them.
It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters. |
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"How many of you have had this on a meet? I'm talking holding each other close, long, lingering kisses... just basically taking the time to enjoy every minute, and constantly showing your partner how much you're enjoying them.
It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."
Yes indeed for me its the best, but it rarely happens on Fab meets due to natural boundaries. This kind of sex creates a more intimate connection than most swingers are looking for i think. |
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"How many of you have had this on a meet? I'm talking holding each other close, long, lingering kisses... just basically taking the time to enjoy every minute, and constantly showing your partner how much you're enjoying them.
It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters.
Yes indeed for me its the best, but it rarely happens on Fab meets due to natural boundaries. This kind of sex creates a more intimate connection than most swingers are looking for i think."
Yeah I had a feeling it wouldn't be the norm. It usually develops over time, but I've been lucky before and clicked with someone early like this. |
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Love it both ways especially kissing and getting to know the opposite Body feeling up and down all the curves and slowly taking clothes off and then nice and gently have some foreplay with touching kissing and nice soft sex just getting all the right areas but ghem I love a good hard fuck too give it so hard grabbing and holding on for dear pleasure I love it  |
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Yeah, I love this sort of thing but yeah, is rare with NSA. Still, it you work up to the meet and set it out and both of you are into it, it can happen.
I prefer long daytime sessions for this sort of thing. |
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"How many of you have had this on a meet? I'm talking holding each other close, long, lingering kisses... just basically taking the time to enjoy every minute, and constantly showing your partner how much you're enjoying them.
It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."
Love this slow 1s but I sometimes get too carried away & do love bites Which isn't ideal loool |
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Why can't you have both 
With the best will in the world even when we were 18 going at it like rabbits for 3 or 4 hours wasn't really realistic.
So some frantic wild hard and fast sex
Then resting together kissing cuddling getting your breath back to start again
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"How many of you have had this on a meet? I'm talking holding each other close, long, lingering kisses... just basically taking the time to enjoy every minute, and constantly showing your partner how much you're enjoying them.
It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."
I think more and more guys are looking for this currently. I avoid this by not even doing 121 now. But your not on your own for looking for it. It's not for me as I am only after group fun x |
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"I dream of a meet like this. All romantic lovemaking with lots of eye contact and kissing. Making me feel like Im his girl and hes my man. "
The right guy will make you feel like that and I hope your paths cross soon x |
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This sounds more like dating than swinging - which is fine if that's what you want, but it's certainly not for me. I have all the closeness and romance I need with my partner. I swing to satisfy my sexual fantasies. |
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"This sounds more like dating than swinging - which is fine if that's what you want, but it's certainly not for me. I have all the closeness and romance I need with my partner. I swing to satisfy my sexual fantasies."
I have my Sir for the dating/boyfriend closeness, but there's another guy I meet from here who I have a level of closeness and intimacy with as well. Out of everyone I've meet, it's only those two I'm like that with. |
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"Yes I love the intimacy and passion of that kind of sex. That’s usually the meet before the one where you fuck the hell out of each other and break some furniture "
Love it. I find that slow and sensual often builds to frantic fucking in the same meet  |
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"I’m with you op .., slow sensual approach for me wham bam thanks see you later don’t leave me fulfilled "
Yeah, I find sometimes myself prolonging the sex and foreplay as I enjoy it so much I don't want it to end. |
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"This sounds more like dating than swinging - which is fine if that's what you want, but it's certainly not for me. I have all the closeness and romance I need with my partner. I swing to satisfy my sexual fantasies.
I have my Sir for the dating/boyfriend closeness, but there's another guy I meet from here who I have a level of closeness and intimacy with as well. Out of everyone I've meet, it's only those two I'm like that with. "
Oh you only have 2 guys for this?? Poor girl |
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"Yes. Something I enjoy lately. The connection has to be right though. Don't see myself enjoying it with just anyone."
Yeah you can't do it with someone who you don't click in that way with. There has to be real chemistry |
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"Why can't you have both
With the best will in the world even when we were 18 going at it like rabbits for 3 or 4 hours wasn't really realistic.
So some frantic wild hard and fast sex
Then resting together kissing cuddling getting your breath back to start again
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You can have both. ALL SEX MATTERS! |
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"Yeah, I love this sort of thing but yeah, is rare with NSA. Still, it you work up to the meet and set it out and both of you are into it, it can happen.
I prefer long daytime sessions for this sort of thing."
Yeah it's possible, when I was here before I actually arranged a meet with this in mind. We ended up having a very intimate encounter in a club. |
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"This sounds more like dating than swinging - which is fine if that's what you want, but it's certainly not for me. I have all the closeness and romance I need with my partner. I swing to satisfy my sexual fantasies.
I have my Sir for the dating/boyfriend closeness, but there's another guy I meet from here who I have a level of closeness and intimacy with as well. Out of everyone I've meet, it's only those two I'm like that with.
Oh you only have 2 guys for this?? Poor girl "
I know, it's a sad life    |
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Is there just one way? I think it varies on the situation. One fab part of this lifestyle is that be so different from one moment to another. It is being able to read the situation and what instinctively right. That variation makes this lifestyle so attractive and fun.
NB Nothing should be taken too seriously or you lose the fun and the moment. |
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Definitely prefer slow and sensual but have discovered a lot of wives won't kiss you as the stranger, which detracts a bit from the idea. Nice to start slow and end more robustly. |
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"How many of you have had this on a meet? I'm talking holding each other close, long, lingering kisses... just basically taking the time to enjoy every minute, and constantly showing your partner how much you're enjoying them.
It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."
Sloppy sex is not for me and certainly don't expect or want it on here. In fact it would put me off someone. |
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"How many of you have had this on a meet? I'm talking holding each other close, long, lingering kisses... just basically taking the time to enjoy every minute, and constantly showing your partner how much you're enjoying them.
It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."
Sounds great to me |
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"How many of you have had this on a meet? I'm talking holding each other close, long, lingering kisses... just basically taking the time to enjoy every minute, and constantly showing your partner how much you're enjoying them.
It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."
Tbh this is the type of encounter I'm aching for. Engaging feeling, intimacy and the body. |
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Variety is the spice of life! Great sex is more about the journey than the destination, however great the latter is! Taking time is an essential ingredient. The Wham Bam Thank you Maam milkman method may be satisfying and even necessary when time pressures are at play but it is not a recipe for the most fulfilling experience. Taking the time to be slow can really enhance things... and I’m not just saying that because I’m an old codger over 25! |
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I like both, only had one that was slow and intense though. Licking, sucking, stroking and very sensual kissing for over an hour before he put his cock in me and then very slow passionate sex where our tongues rarely left each others mouth. |
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"How many of you have had this on a meet? I'm talking holding each other close, long, lingering kisses... just basically taking the time to enjoy every minute, and constantly showing your partner how much you're enjoying them.
It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters.
Sloppy sex is not for me and certainly don't expect or want it on here. In fact it would put me off someone."
Sloppy sex isn't for me either! |
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"I like both, only had one that was slow and intense though. Licking, sucking, stroking and very sensual kissing for over an hour before he put his cock in me and then very slow passionate sex where our tongues rarely left each others mouth."
This sounds pretty perfect |
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I find the majority of my private (non club) meets are of the very intimate sensual erotic variety. Whereas most of my club meets are a little feisty and frantic!
It's good to mix it up. The best times are the intense sensual sessions before going to a club night. Fucking like a whore at the club. Then back to the snugglefucks when back at the hotel 
I think a lot of people confuse intimacy with 'feelings'. It doesn't work like that. They are very separate entities.
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"How many of you have had this on a meet? I'm talking holding each other close, long, lingering kisses... just basically taking the time to enjoy every minute, and constantly showing your partner how much you're enjoying them.
It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."
Really enjoy it. Being horny and rampant is great but so is being close and comfortable |
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"Yes, my first proper meet was a whole afternoon of just that. I've never felt so relaxed."
That's pretty good going for a first meet! I remember mine (about 13 years ago) being with a woman I wasn't super attracted to, but I was a pleaser and went through with it because I was too awkward to say no. I have grown a lot since then! |
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"How many of you have had this on a meet? I'm talking holding each other close, long, lingering kisses... just basically taking the time to enjoy every minute, and constantly showing your partner how much you're enjoying them.
It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."
Agreed  |
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"How many of you have had this on a meet? I'm talking holding each other close, long, lingering kisses... just basically taking the time to enjoy every minute, and constantly showing your partner how much you're enjoying them.
It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."
I prefer this over wham bam. Though you've really gotta be careful you don't catch the feels if you're repeat meeting, gotta constantly tell yourself it's just sex. |
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"I think a lot of people confuse intimacy with 'feelings'. It doesn't work like that. They are very separate entities.
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Yes and No.
I prescribe to this type of tactile sex and complement it with the hard and intense sex plus any subtle kink.
I'm looking for feelings and intimacy which are both intrinsically linked. That doesn't mean I'm looking for romance and relationships and binding love.
Because without "feelings" and "intimacy" the sex is hollow, mechanical and transactional.
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It's dependent on mood and setting. If it's first thing in morning before work you might want a quickie before a shower. At night I tend to be more sensual and not mindful of time |
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"How many of you have had this on a meet? I'm talking holding each other close, long, lingering kisses... just basically taking the time to enjoy every minute, and constantly showing your partner how much you're enjoying them.
It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."
Not had sex in a very very long time. I'd probably bust a nut as soon as I'm in her |
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"I love slow and intimate sex even though it's been a long time since the last time I had sex  x
We should play together....make up for lost time  "
Lol sorry but you're out of age range |
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"I love slow and intimate sex even though it's been a long time since the last time I had sex x"
Wow kitty I love that. Sorry you've not felt that intimacy for a long time.
Maybe have a chat if you're interested? X |
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"I love slow and intimate sex even though it's been a long time since the last time I had sex x
We should play together....make up for lost time
Lol sorry but you're out of age range "
So I am! I'd happily bribe you with wine, chocolate and flowers if you nudged the age limit.... |
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"Yes, my first proper meet was a whole afternoon of just that. I've never felt so relaxed.
That's pretty good going for a first meet! I remember mine (about 13 years ago) being with a woman I wasn't super attracted to, but I was a pleaser and went through with it because I was too awkward to say no. I have grown a lot since then!"
Yeah, he spoilt me, set the bar very high! |
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"Yes, my first proper meet was a whole afternoon of just that. I've never felt so relaxed.
That's pretty good going for a first meet! I remember mine (about 13 years ago) being with a woman I wasn't super attracted to, but I was a pleaser and went through with it because I was too awkward to say no. I have grown a lot since then!
Yeah, he spoilt me, set the bar very high!"
I hope the rest of your meets haven't been a letdown in comparison! |
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Generally it's not something I'd look for from here but I do meet seni regularly with a guy from fab that gives me exactly that and it's nice to have a different dynamic sometimes. |
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"I love slow and intimate sex even though it's been a long time since the last time I had sex x
We should play together....make up for lost time
Lol sorry but you're out of age range
So I am! I'd happily bribe you with wine, chocolate and flowers if you nudged the age limit.... "
Flattery will get you nowhere |
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This is my preferred option , absolutely get a huge kick out of slowly teasing the woman and getting her more and more turned on with sensual kissing and touching . Possibly even a blind fold ?? |
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I much prefer slow, sensual and intimate sex, sure ill fuck you silly hard and fast if thats what you want and it can be fun, but imo taking the time to find their buttons, building up the sensations until youre absolutely bursting and POP! Now thats a lot of fun |
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