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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Howdy - we are taking the plunge soon and visiting a swingers club. Predominantly to see what it's about rather than take part. If we do happen to, we are both bi-curious although 85.5768909% straight (and I hate to put labels on anything - because I think it's all bullshit - people are sexual, the prefix is immaterial but hey ho, that's just my rant about social conditioning)...anyway, I am wondering what the etiquette is for bi-ness for men in a swingers club. Does it happen? No biggy if not. Am just curious to know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dude - cos we're just dipping our toes into the scene. We don't know if we want to take part in it in anyway yet - we like the idea but maybe not the reality. We're not after a specific thing - just wondering 'what if?' and 'does this/that happen?'! |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
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some clubs mm fun happens whenever the guys are interested but due to ridicule from some it is behind closed doors. its a shame when these guys have to have special nights so they can indulge in fun when ff fun is looked on favourably in all clubs i have been to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"some clubs mm fun happens whenever the guys are interested but due to ridicule from some it is behind closed doors. its a shame when these guys have to have special nights so they can indulge in fun when ff fun is looked on favourably in all clubs i have been to."
Yes, I should have expanded to say who knows what goes on behind closed doors. Just make sure there's no peep holes lol.
I'd love for MM fun to be OK on any night (maybe oral only as a half way?) especially as bi night at my local club is also fetish night and the main group play room is taken over by fetish gear (so no group bed). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think oral would be the limit anyway - I don't think it should be hidden away, though. Perhaps people need to stand their ground more. Like I say we have no agenda and probably wouldn't act on anything anyway - just investigating ahead of time. |
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The only fight we've ever sen in a club was when one man tried to finger another man's bum while he was fucking. The first guy was chased out into the changing rooms by the second. That's NOT the way to do it! If you're going to touch another man, ask first unless invited, or as someone has suggested, try a bi-night where same-sex play is considered normal. Still a good idea to ask though as a straight guy might be there to just accompany his bi woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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lol that did make me chuckle picturing one guy chasing another! Was there an outcome to it? And did the Benny Hill tune start playing? 
I have attended clubs on both bi nights and "normal nights" as it seems to be billed! To be honest, the etiquette is the same for me on whatever night it it, sparking up conversation and asking about playing while not being pushy!
I think you have taken the right attitude that you may or may not play, just soak up the experience and if you comfortable have some fun!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah - exactly. I think it's also about talking - knowing what the parameters are before engaging. I know I'd take exception if someone shoved anything up my bum! Although I don't think I would be able to give chase as my eyes would be watering too much!
As long as people are sensitive to each other, talk things through etc they should free to do whatever without prejudice. Except with a donkey. That would be uncool. |
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