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Are older men the way forward?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After meeting a younger guy last night and it being a let down yet again I wondered if (deep breath Liz lol) it was time to check out the more mature men on Fab. Having never been with an older guy I reckon it's something I should definitely consider now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After meeting a younger guy last night and it being a let down yet again I wondered if (deep breath Liz lol) it was time to check out the more mature men on Fab. Having never been with an older guy I reckon it's something I should definitely consider now "
Blimey! The words 'open flood gates' come to mind! Lol!!!
Speaking as a mature guy, there is a saying in the Navy - 'Don't knock it till you've tried it.....'
Take from that what you will..... 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think I'm just looking forward to a little bit more respect than I've been getting from younger guys, just not sure what to change my upper age limit to |
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"I think I'm just looking forward to a little bit more respect than I've been getting from younger guys, just not sure what to change my upper age limit to "
You could try browsing yourelf look for someone who you think may fit the bill have a chat and take it from there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well what I'd be most comfortable with is if Ray Winstone or Paul Holloway just happened to be on here, saw this and messaged me!  "
Ha ha! Wishful thinking...! |
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"I think I'm just looking forward to a little bit more respect than I've been getting from younger guys, just not sure what to change my upper age limit to "
52 is a good age to up your age limit too, or 53 in case its after my birthday.
(clearly i am joking i am much too far away). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well what I'd be most comfortable with is if Ray Winstone or Paul Holloway just happened to be on here, saw this and messaged me! "
Well, they can't message you as you've set your age range filter to exclude them, so Mssrs Winstone and Holloway will have to go without for the time being, won't they...... Lol!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I'm just looking forward to a little bit more respect than I've been getting from younger guys, just not sure what to change my upper age limit to
52 is a good age to up your age limit too, or 53 in case its after my birthday.
(clearly i am joking i am much too far away)."
We're not (too far away....) Lol!!!
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"I think I'm just looking forward to a little bit more respect than I've been getting from younger guys, just not sure what to change my upper age limit to
52 is a good age to up your age limit too, or 53 in case its after my birthday.
(clearly i am joking i am much too far away).
We're not (too far away....) Lol!!!
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Everyone is checking google maps to see how far away they live lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I'm just looking forward to a little bit more respect than I've been getting from younger guys, just not sure what to change my upper age limit to
52 is a good age to up your age limit too, or 53 in case its after my birthday.
(clearly i am joking i am much too far away).
We're not (too far away....) Lol!!!
Everyone is checking google maps to see how far away they live lol"
So that's why it's crashed?????? Damn! |
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"I think I'm just looking forward to a little bit more respect than I've been getting from younger guys, just not sure what to change my upper age limit to
52 is a good age to up your age limit too, or 53 in case its after my birthday.
(clearly i am joking i am much too far away).
We're not (too far away....) Lol!!!
Everyone is checking google maps to see how far away they live lol"
Heh, are we that predictable? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to prefer men in their late 30's to late 40's these days.
That said, I've not met a 20-something in a fair while so maybe I should just check again, to be sure.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I'm just looking forward to a little bit more respect than I've been getting from younger guys, just not sure what to change my upper age limit to
52 is a good age to up your age limit too, or 53 in case its after my birthday.
(clearly i am joking i am much too far away).
We're not (too far away....) Lol!!!
Everyone is checking google maps to see how far away they live lol
Heh, are we that predictable? "
I am Lol!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Altho im a young single guy this site is getting worse for meeting people because of said timewasters... iv turned to people and said read my veri's off people i have met but it dont seem to work. But there is always one younger guy out there whose respectful and will always turn up. Its just finding them!! |
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"I tend to prefer men in their late 30's to late 40's these days."
Very sensible. I think 37 year old men (especially if they live in Swindon and are 5'6" with brown hair and hazel eyes) are the best. You should look for someone like that to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Altho im a young single guy this site is getting worse for meeting people because of said timewasters... iv turned to people and said read my veri's off people i have met but it dont seem to work. But there is always one younger guy out there whose respectful and will always turn up. Its just finding them!! "
He did turn up though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I tend to prefer men in their late 30's to late 40's these days.
Very sensible. I think 37 year old men (especially if they live in Swindon and are 5'6" with brown hair and hazel eyes) are the best. You should look for someone like that to meet."
Swindon is forever away! |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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"I tend to prefer men in their late 30's to late 40's these days.
Very sensible. I think 37 year old men (especially if they live in Swindon and are 5'6" with brown hair and hazel eyes) are the best. You should look for someone like that to meet."
or how about 5 10 green eyes and a very mature 58? oh and very little hair but it was once dark
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Altho im a young single guy this site is getting worse for meeting people because of said timewasters... iv turned to people and said read my veri's off people i have met but it dont seem to work. But there is always one younger guy out there whose respectful and will always turn up. Its just finding them!!
He did turn up though "
Ahhh fair enough... Suppose it just the way people act and treat people and meet. Suppose its like trial n error to find the diamond guy. I know where ya coming from been there myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Altho im a young single guy this site is getting worse for meeting people because of said timewasters... iv turned to people and said read my veri's off people i have met but it dont seem to work. But there is always one younger guy out there whose respectful and will always turn up. Its just finding them!! "
43 veris and your moaning about not getting meets!! |
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"I tend to prefer men in their late 30's to late 40's these days.
Very sensible. I think 37 year old men (especially if they live in Swindon and are 5'6" with brown hair and hazel eyes) are the best. You should look for someone like that to meet.
or how about 5 10 green eyes and a very mature 58? oh and very little hair but it was once dark
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10 green eyes are you a martian |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've set it to 42 now, small steps and all that!
Ahem..... Ray Winstone is..... 55.
But any age can fab pics right? "
So what you really want is to fuck young guys and have Ray Winstone fab your pics???? Hmmm...... mixed messages me thinks.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to prefer men in their late 30's to late 40's these days.
Very sensible. I think 37 year old men (especially if they live in Swindon and are 5'6" with brown hair and hazel eyes) are the best. You should look for someone like that to meet.
Swindon is forever away!"
Not from here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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having had a couple of younger guys i find they are to eager and get excited too quick.it may not be the same for you but i find 35 to 55 is ideal for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to prefer men in their late 30's to late 40's these days.
Very sensible. I think 37 year old men (especially if they live in Swindon and are 5'6" with brown hair and hazel eyes) are the best. You should look for someone like that to meet.
Swindon is forever away!"
Don't I bloody know it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I'm a little mature in age but then I have the mind of a 12 year old so what does that count me as?
Not sure, all I can see is half a bum! "
That's my face, you cheeky young strumpet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, I'm saying I'd rather set my preference at 42 and see how that goes, anything over 50 would be too close to my dads age anyway"
Can never get our heads around the "Same age as our kids-Father-Mother etc etc."
Surely on a swinging site it all comes down to sexual attraction, your not going to adopt or be adopted by them.
If you fancy them go for it! 
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"Nope, I'm saying I'd rather set my preference at 42 and see how that goes, anything over 50 would be too close to my dads age anyway
Can never get our heads around the "Same age as our kids-Father-Mother etc etc."
Surely on a swinging site it all comes down to sexual attraction, your not going to adopt or be adopted by them.
If you fancy them go for it!
XXXX"
Exactly.... someone once said... you are old enough to be my dad... i told her... yeh but i am NOT your dad and i dont know your mum.... after that it was a fun day !!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Very sensible. I think 37 year old men (especially if they live in Swindon and are 5'6" with brown hair and hazel eyes) are the best. You should look for someone like that to meet.
Swindon is forever away!
Don't I bloody know it!! "
You're in Swindon? Aww  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I'm a little mature in age but then I have the mind of a 12 year old so what does that count me as?
Not sure, all I can see is half a bum!
That's my face, you cheeky young strumpet! "
My bad! You have a very smooth... face |
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We've found at clubs we meet and play with people who we would have never looked at on here. We've found it is down to the person. We know there has to be an attraction but we've found age, colour etc don't come into it, but personality does. However we have also found there is a certain type of person who thinks they can say ' hello lets fuck' and think that is ok. We have found these people don't often come back as they don't get what they want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i've younger girls and couples and older girls and couples, not had any complaints yet from either age group, but what i gather from the meets i've had, is that they all seem to tally what the OP is saying, and please forgive me im not generalizing here, just what i've had feed back to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I'm a little mature in age but then I have the mind of a 12 year old so what does that count me as?
Not sure, all I can see is half a bum!
That's my face, you cheeky young strumpet!
My bad! You have a very smooth... face "
I tend to talk alot of shit too, for some reason |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I'm a little mature in age but then I have the mind of a 12 year old so what does that count me as?
Not sure, all I can see is half a bum!
That's my face, you cheeky young strumpet!
My bad! You have a very smooth... face
I tend to talk alot of shit too, for some reason "
No shit! Oh wait... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having been with both younger and older guys I would say older is better that doesn't mean to say they have all been amazing experiences though some total disasters regardless of age! |
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"I tend to prefer men in their late 30's to late 40's these days.
Very sensible. I think 37 year old men (especially if they live in Swindon and are 5'6" with brown hair and hazel eyes) are the best. You should look for someone like that to meet.
Swindon is forever away!
Not from here "
If only your little black book wasn't already fully booked, I'd be Googling just how far away Basingstoke is from Swindon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to prefer men in their late 30's to late 40's these days.
Very sensible. I think 37 year old men (especially if they live in Swindon and are 5'6" with brown hair and hazel eyes) are the best. You should look for someone like that to meet.
Swindon is forever away!"
swindon is magic lol we have pdc legend lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After meeting a younger guy last night and it being a let down yet again I wondered if (deep breath Liz lol) it was time to check out the more mature men on Fab. Having never been with an older guy I reckon it's something I should definitely consider now "
Define older man?! Im in my 40's and do not feel older, altough to some I may be accient lol
Not all things that come in shinny packages are golden, just look at the self absorbed TOWIE's, might look goodon the outside, but a few minutes with them you would be looking for an exscpape route.
The key is to find self confident, although not self absorbed, considerate, respectful and considerate people that you can connect with and not simply ones that look shinny.
Sex should be and is if fullfilling on more than just the visually atractive level (not suggesting you go with a guy that repulses you).
Simply go for it, take each guy on his own merrits, you neer know, you mght just have one hell of a lot of fun! |
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"Nope, I'm saying I'd rather set my preference at 42 and see how that goes, anything over 50 would be too close to my dads age anyway
Can never get our heads around the "Same age as our kids-Father-Mother etc etc."
Surely on a swinging site it all comes down to sexual attraction, your not going to adopt or be adopted by them.
If you fancy them go for it!
XXXX"
It's what you're comfortable with. If my 20 year old was shagging a 52 year old I'd not be happy, likewise I'd never consider any sexual contact with a 20 year old.
I personally can't see the sexual attraction between extreme age groups but it obviously doesn't bother all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont think age matters that much when it comes to sexual performance, ive met some young men that have been very good sexually and some older ones who have been a disappointment, it dont always work that older are better due to experience, its just pot look you find a good one regardless of age
Saying that id say yes meet a older guy, i think you should try everything |
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"After meeting a younger guy last night and it being a let down yet again I wondered if (deep breath Liz lol) it was time to check out the more mature men on Fab. Having never been with an older guy I reckon it's something I should definitely consider now "
Consider it. It may be a way forward for you, it may not.
Obligatory addendum: me! me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i would defo reccomend trying an older guy..and this one just happens to be free haha"
Well I'm not as I come with a price tag of £500 but, as the old adage goes, you get what you pay for |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After meeting a younger guy last night and it being a let down yet again I wondered if (deep breath Liz lol) it was time to check out the more mature men on Fab. Having never been with an older guy I reckon it's something I should definitely consider now
Define older man?! Im in my 40's and do not feel older, altough to some I may be accient lol
Not all things that come in shinny packages are golden, just look at the self absorbed TOWIE's, might look goodon the outside, but a few minutes with them you would be looking for an exscpape route.
The key is to find self confident, although not self absorbed, considerate, respectful and considerate people that you can connect with and not simply ones that look shinny.
Sex should be and is if fullfilling on more than just the visually atractive level (not suggesting you go with a guy that repulses you).
Simply go for it, take each guy on his own merrits, you neer know, you mght just have one hell of a lot of fun!"
That all sounds a bit self absorbed to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My rule is younger men for clubs and parties, older men for one on one meets. It's not a strict rule, but I find the younger the guy, the less he seems to want to be with me."
That qualifies me as an older guy then lol!
In which case I'd advise the OP to go right ahead... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, I'm saying I'd rather set my preference at 42 and see how that goes, anything over 50 would be too close to my dads age anyway"
How lucky, i am 42!! Just over an hour away aswell...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I've always preferred older guys, trouble is the older you get the less of them there are left too choose from lol.
I was introduced to this lifestyle at the very tender age of 18, by a man 13 years older than me and I have never looked back.
I don't like playing with anyone who is over 10 years younger then me. So older men get this girls vote everytime lol. Oh and there is just under 10 years difference between me and my OH.
Ellie x. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny how I get deleted without the message even being read. Yet when I am out and about I have know trouble finding willing takers.
Record on Fab One women in six months. Record in the big wide world five women in six days, although for a man of my age that's pushing it a bit. It took me a week to recover lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Funny how I get deleted without the message even being read. Yet when I am out and about I have know trouble finding willing takers.
Record on Fab One women in six months. Record in the big wide world five women in six days, although for a man of my age that's pushing it a bit. It took me a week to recover lol."
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By *abtechMan
over a year ago
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If ya coud only try before ya buy so to speak eh? As we all well know, to get what you ideally want takes patience and time and an armfull of lady luck. Do you think you will have that patience?  |
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"After meeting a younger guy last night and it being a let down yet again I wondered if (deep breath Liz lol) it was time to check out the more mature men on Fab. Having never been with an older guy I reckon it's something I should definitely consider now "
having analysed your profile and run it through my special programme it has come out that a tall, 40yo man would be your perfect playmate  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't think so.
In plain English Look further than the age on the mailing x "
Seems like you're just using this thread to have another boring old rant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, I'm saying I'd rather set my preference at 42 and see how that goes, anything over 50 would be too close to my dads age anyway
Can never get our heads around the "Same age as our kids-Father-Mother etc etc."
Surely on a swinging site it all comes down to sexual attraction, your not going to adopt or be adopted by them.
If you fancy them go for it!
XXXX"
how i feel xx |
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By *luetooMan
over a year ago
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I think age is a difficult one to chose on, I know guys my age who are past it or guys like myself who are still fit and able as they were 20 years ago but have learned a bit more about manners and the privilage being afforded to them. I guess set your age range but please do not dismiss us olders boys out of hand would be my plea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't think so.
In plain English Look further than the age on the mailing x
Seems like you're just using this thread to have another boring old rant "
I also wondered if it was bitterness because he'd maybe messaged you and not got a reply? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't think so.
In plain English Look further than the age on the mailing x
Seems like you're just using this thread to have another boring old rant
I also wondered if it was bitterness because he'd maybe messaged you and not got a reply? "
Nope I always take the time to reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think so.
In plain English Look further than the age on the mailing x
Seems like you're just using this thread to have another boring old rant
I also wondered if it was bitterness because he'd maybe messaged you and not got a reply?
Nope I always take the time to reply"
Told you I talked shit |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"My rule is younger men for clubs and parties, older men for one on one meets. It's not a strict rule, but I find the younger the guy, the less he seems to want to be with me.
That qualifies me as an older guy then lol!
In which case I'd advise the OP to go right ahead... "
You're a delicious exception. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is irrelevant. You get fuckwits of all ages same as you get respectful guts of all ages.
Some cases of guys acting weird on women(e.g. parking across the street and acting stalker ish) I've been told were by guys old enough to know better(30s and 40s) so it's not just young guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Age is irrelevant. You get fuckwits of all ages same as you get respectful guts of all ages.
Some cases of guys acting weird on women(e.g. parking across the street and acting stalker ish) I've been told were by guys old enough to know better(30s and 40s) so it's not just young guys."
Eh!! 30's-40's isn't old! Ya young pup ya!! |
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