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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Single guys moaning about not getting any meets.
I am going to have a rant you are lazy put no effort into meets or messages and think because you are on a swinger site you will get laid just by asking for a fuck.
I normally put up a meet but thought hell why not last night cant accom but would be nice to go out for a beer a social thing you know and maybe a little fun on the way back looking for a local guy now maybe that was a bit specific on what I wanted but.
What do I get woke up to 50 yes 50 messages in return to want a fuck or wish I could join you for a drink but could still pop round after the pub shuts or well you get the idea. And what did I do delete all 50 grrrrrr rant over |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I really don't understand the rant. You put at the last minute a 'meet today' up and no guy was sitting waiting local to you to meet"
Oh they were waiting they wanted to fuck sorry about the language but they did'nt want the effort of coming for a drink first that is the point x |
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I'm hearing your rant and my theory is that as a lady with more to love there's lots of guys who like the BBW and want to play but wouldn't publicly admit as their mates might take the piss hence don't want to go out for a drink!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm hearing your rant and my theory is that as a lady with more to love there's lots of guys who like the BBW and want to play but wouldn't publicly admit as their mates might take the piss hence don't want to go out for a drink!!"
Yes I have that theory too lol x but my real mates was out with a bunch of guys last night in the end lol not fab related dont give a dam what I look like x |
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"Single guys moaning about not getting any meets.
I am going to have a rant you are lazy put no effort into meets or messages and think because you are on a swinger site you will get laid just by asking for a fuck.
I normally put up a meet but thought hell why not last night cant accom but would be nice to go out for a beer a social thing you know and maybe a little fun on the way back looking for a local guy now maybe that was a bit specific on what I wanted but.
What do I get woke up to 50 yes 50 messages in return to want a fuck or wish I could join you for a drink but could still pop round after the pub shuts or well you get the idea. And what did I do delete all 50 grrrrrr rant over"
we have loads of these, 'when we meeting' 'interested' etc, no effort what so ever  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was just about to start looking again... And you reminded me exactly why I stopped looking last time!
Some blokes are lazy disrespectful idiots. There's some good ones too. But not many. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really don't understand the rant. You put at the last minute a 'meet today' up and no guy was sitting waiting local to you to meet
Oh they were waiting they wanted to fuck sorry about the language but they did'nt want the effort of coming for a drink first that is the point x"
Do you mean they had to wine and dine before the 69?
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"I'm hearing your rant and my theory is that as a lady with more to love there's lots of guys who like the BBW and want to play but wouldn't publicly admit as their mates might take the piss hence don't want to go out for a drink!!"
I always meet socially first for several obvious reasons, but also to see how they treat me in public. In five years only twice have I not played because of how they acted, one I walked out on, both contacted me to play.
As to the op: your request sounded like you were seeking a date. Personally I _iew the "meet today" as an instant fuck, no preamble, just straight to it. Perhaps the 50 were of a similar _iew? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I really don't understand the rant. You put at the last minute a 'meet today' up and no guy was sitting waiting local to you to meet
Oh they were waiting they wanted to fuck sorry about the language but they did'nt want the effort of coming for a drink first that is the point x
Do you mean they had to wine and dine before the 69?
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Would be nice for a change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really don't understand the rant. You put at the last minute a 'meet today' up and no guy was sitting waiting local to you to meet
Oh they were waiting they wanted to fuck sorry about the language but they did'nt want the effort of coming for a drink first that is the point x
Do you mean they had to wine and dine before the 69?
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Poetry in the forum......lv it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm hearing your rant and my theory is that as a lady with more to love there's lots of guys who like the BBW and want to play but wouldn't publicly admit as their mates might take the piss hence don't want to go out for a drink!!
I always meet socially first for several obvious reasons, but also to see how they treat me in public. In five years only twice have I not played because of how they acted, one I walked out on, both contacted me to play.
As to the op: your request sounded like you were seeking a date. Personally I _iew the "meet today" as an instant fuck, no preamble, just straight to it. Perhaps the 50 were of a similar _iew?"
Meet today can be anything we want it to be otherwise there would'nt be social meet up on the list x |
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"I'm hearing your rant and my theory is that as a lady with more to love there's lots of guys who like the BBW and want to play but wouldn't publicly admit as their mates might take the piss hence don't want to go out for a drink!!
I always meet socially first for several obvious reasons, but also to see how they treat me in public. In five years only twice have I not played because of how they acted, one I walked out on, both contacted me to play.
As to the op: your request sounded like you were seeking a date. Personally I _iew the "meet today" as an instant fuck, no preamble, just straight to it. Perhaps the 50 were of a similar _iew?
Meet today can be anything we want it to be otherwise there would'nt be social meet up on the list x"
That's why I stated "I _iew" as I realise everyone will have their own interpretation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have an FB and we often go out for meals and drinks but I thought the swinging scene was all about sex ,or have I got it wrong Shazza ?  "
I enjoy the social side off swinging too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could always try a 'dating' site! As that is what you were after! Of course people aren't going to put the effort in when they msg people on the 'meet today' section! Thats what its for, last minute meets!! When i personally want a social meet before having some fun, i take my time and put the effort in to find someone i click with! After all, you never know who you will be stuck with the rest of the evening!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What makes you think that is any different from the flip-side argument - a single guy has a rant that even though he sends out individual Booker prize worthy emails to selected individuals he gets no response?
(Well apart from the fact that the single guy isn't being roasted alive in the thread, that is?)
Its a very simple paradigm - If no one owes anyone a response; why would someone owe anyone anything more than a two line email in the first place?
What makes you entitled to anyone expending effort on you?
Eventually, the law of diminishing returns gets us all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have an FB and we often go out for meals and drinks but I thought the swinging scene was all about sex ,or have I got it wrong Shazza ?
I enjoy the social side off swinging too x"
See I learn something everyday, a lot off single guys on here need to up their game !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As to the op: your request sounded like you were seeking a date. Personally I _iew the "meet today" as an instant fuck, no preamble, just straight to it. Perhaps the 50 were of a similar _iew?"
Have to say I tend to agree with this... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes you think that is any different from the flip-side argument - a single guy has a rant that even though he sends out individual Booker prize worthy emails to selected individuals he gets no response?
(Well apart from the fact that the single guy isn't being roasted alive in the thread, that is?)
Its a very simple paradigm - If no one owes anyone a response; why would someone owe anyone anything more than a two line email in the first place?
What makes you entitled to anyone expending effort on you?
Eventually, the law of diminishing returns gets us all."
Ok time out , thicky man here .
What's doe's "paradigm" mean?
And no ,I havnt got a dictionary! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Grrrrrrrr well said. We second this
We now normally reply with something witty but our wits are wearing thin.
This morning we've been invited to three gangbangs, two digging sessions an three fuck meets all with one line openers.
Sorry guys but I worship my wife and although I do find it sexy to watch her have fun. You really do need to put a bit of effort in.
Show people a bit of respect and shut up moaning and you may just get somewhere.
Obviously this is not all single guys as some ate great fun to chat with and are very respectful. So not to tar all with the same moaner brush.
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By *ilmisseCouple
over a year ago
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"I am going to have a rant you are lazy put no effort into meets or messages and think because you are on a swinger site you will get laid just by asking for a fuck."
Im sorry you are calling these single men lazy and ranting at them not making an effort? Perhaps YOU should be searching the "Meet Today" adverts and messaging people YOURSELF to see if you can get a meet, not just click a button and winge when you dont get what you want? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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You were at a loose end so fancied someone taking you out for a drink on a swinging site...and when no one comes forward you need to rant?
It just means to me that there wasn't anyone who matched what you wanted but lots about who thought they would chance their arm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Huge Rant - wasn't that him that's in Four weddings n a funeral?  
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Put a goodly grin on my chops today
Now thinking of Rowan Atkinson doing the church services
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"I am going to have a rant you are lazy put no effort into meets or messages and think because you are on a swinger site you will get laid just by asking for a fuck.
Im sorry you are calling these single men lazy and ranting at them not making an effort? Perhaps YOU should be searching the "Meet Today" adverts and messaging people YOURSELF to see if you can get a meet, not just click a button and winge when you dont get what you want?"
Sorry OP but I agree with this.
Not sure why you think single guys should put all the effort in when you are the one that wants to arrange a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I laugh at these men who post 'cant get a meet' threads , ive seen the types if messages these idiots send to women and its no wonder they hav to resort to asking y they dont get any, it takes nothing to write a sentance or 2 or meet sombody for a drink, but sadly they will never learn |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I laugh at these men who post 'cant get a meet' threads , ive seen the types if messages these idiots send to women and its no wonder they hav to resort to asking y they dont get any, it takes nothing to write a sentance or 2 or meet sombody for a drink, but sadly they will never learn"
but they aren't complaining about no meets, she is.
and as someone said above she could have done a local search, crafted a well thought out message, ( no cut and paste ), matching what she was looking for and selling herself . She chose not to be overly proactive but rather reactive and got nowt.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't use the "Meet Today" function, as I see it as an invitation for a quick shag without so much of a hello, not my way of arranging fun as it is my preference to get to know the gent with sufficient details before I would agree to meet him.
Whenever I make myself searchable, I would say only one or two in 50+ gents that contact me are worthy of my effort to follow up and reply to their messages.
This has always been the case since I joined FAB over 3 years ago, and am accustomed to it.
If the first message do not show any signs of the gent having paid much notice to my profile, then I would delete and block then move on.
No point in getting annoyed as it changes nothing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest, i'm probably guilty of sending a short msg to gals that have a 'meet today' up! Thats what i assumed it for! A chance of a last minute, spontaneous bit of fun!
Whereas, if i was at a loose end and fancied a social meet, i would be the one doing the msging and asking tha gal! |
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To be honest im to much of a scardy cat to put up a meet today. I like to get to know guys well first and id never know what sort of guy i would end up with, if i didnt know him before hand.
I wouldnt expect someone i didnt know to want to go for a drink, it would be different if they where a long term friend |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey I sent messages and winks out on Friday and during the week I did put the effort in to said messages had a date/meet lined up for Saturday night and an hour before we were due to meet he got cold feet. That is why I used meet today to see if there was any interest was not expecting the guy to buy all the drinks just a night out or social meet with a few extras not instant sex I will no not to in future.
Will leave going out to going out with mates and fabs for sex.
Silly me I thought swinging was a social community or did I get that wrong x |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Swinging is what you want to make of it.
To be honest your comment about how it would be nice to be wined and dined first would probably put a lot off.
Now ok, even meeting for a drink like we do doesn't guarantee sex....but if I was a single man playing on here I would steer clear of any women who ask for that as it could be a scam to get fed and watered |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get irritated by women who moan about this yet still pick to meet the 'fuck and go' guy over guys that will actually go for a drink/chat or even watch a film and make a full night being with someone rather than it being solely about the sex.
I've seen profiles bitching about everything under the sun with guys having no pics or not making an effort yet you then see the last person they met fitting the exact same things they've described as hating. They're the ones that picked them! Lol |
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"What makes you think that is any different from the flip-side argument - a single guy has a rant that even though he sends out individual Booker prize worthy emails to selected individuals he gets no response?
(Well apart from the fact that the single guy isn't being roasted alive in the thread, that is?)
Its a very simple paradigm - If no one owes anyone a response; why would someone owe anyone anything more than a two line email in the first place?
What makes you entitled to anyone expending effort on you?
Eventually, the law of diminishing returns gets us all."
Very well said, Prof. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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yet then you see the last person they met fitting the exact same things they've described as hating.
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How do you know that without seeing the private messages between the two?
And how do you know who they have met? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single guys moaning about not getting any meets."
Single women moaning about not being wined and dined
Couples moaning about not finding a single bi fem.
Bi curious guys moaning about not been wanted by couples.
Lazy guys moaning they dont get replies to their messages.
Women moaning about men asking them for a fuck "on a sex site".
Exabitionists shagging in car parks moaning about doggers standing close enough to the windows to see.
Guys moaning about not getting 20 meets a day from joining up.
Women moaning about other women who happen to comment on tit shape or saggy racks.
Welcome to Fab Moaners
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single guys moaning about not getting any meets.
Single women moaning about not being wined and dined
Couples moaning about not finding a single bi fem.
Bi curious guys moaning about not been wanted by couples.
Lazy guys moaning they dont get replies to their messages.
Women moaning about men asking them for a fuck "on a sex site".
Exabitionists shagging in car parks moaning about doggers standing close enough to the windows to see.
Guys moaning about not getting 20 meets a day from joining up.
Women moaning about other women who happen to comment on tit shape or saggy racks.
Welcome to Fab Moaners
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ROFPMSL!!!!!!!!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Silly me I thought swinging was a social community or did I get that wrong x"
classic female response lol!
mIt's not called "Fabsocial", or "Fabfriends" it's called Fabswingers, and swinging ain't swinging unless there is sex.
so you're not wrong per se, but you forgot women are from venus men are from mars. men don't need the preamble before sex. for most men, sex is just a physical desire, much like a wanting a game of football. it requires no emotional content to get started.
as stated by others, if you want a social meet, make it clear that the man will have to go through that first.
- i know the above does not apply to relationships/friendships/romantic sex, but then again, that's not what men are on this site for, is it? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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as stated by others, if you want a social meet, make it clear that the man will have to go through that first.
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To be fair she did make it clear...there just wasn't anyone about who matched what she wanted |
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Silly me I thought swinging was a social community or did I get that wrong x
classic female response lol!
mIt's not called "Fabsocial", or "Fabfriends" it's called Fabswingers, and swinging ain't swinging unless there is sex.
so you're not wrong per se, but you forgot women are from venus men are from mars. men don't need the preamble before sex. for most men, sex is just a physical desire, much like a wanting a game of football. it requires no emotional content to get started.
as stated by others, if you want a social meet, make it clear that the man will have to go through that first.
- i know the above does not apply to relationships/friendships/romantic sex, but then again, that's not what men are on this site for, is it? "
I was just trying to work out why you had a crocodile as an avatar |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am going to have a rant you are lazy put no effort into meets or messages and think because you are on a swinger site you will get laid just by asking for a fuck.
Im sorry you are calling these single men lazy and ranting at them not making an effort? Perhaps YOU should be searching the "Meet Today" adverts and messaging people YOURSELF to see if you can get a meet, not just click a button and winge when you dont get what you want?
Sorry OP but I agree with this.
Not sure why you think single guys should put all the effort in when you are the one that wants to arrange a meet."
A mega plus one !!! |
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"Single guys moaning about not getting any meets.
Single women moaning about not being wined and dined
Couples moaning about not finding a single bi fem.
Bi curious guys moaning about not been wanted by couples.
Lazy guys moaning they dont get replies to their messages.
Women moaning about men asking them for a fuck "on a sex site".
Exabitionists shagging in car parks moaning about doggers standing close enough to the windows to see.
Guys moaning about not getting 20 meets a day from joining up.
Women moaning about other women who happen to comment on tit shape or saggy racks.
Welcome to Fab Moaners
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Haahaahaahaa!!!  |
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Silly me I thought swinging was a social community or did I get that wrong x
classic female response lol!
mIt's not called "Fabsocial", or "Fabfriends" it's called Fabswingers, and swinging ain't swinging unless there is sex.
so you're not wrong per se, but you forgot women are from venus men are from mars. men don't need the preamble before sex. for most men, sex is just a physical desire, much like a wanting a game of football. it requires no emotional content to get started.
as stated by others, if you want a social meet, make it clear that the man will have to go through that first.
- i know the above does not apply to relationships/friendships/romantic sex, but then again, that's not what men are on this site for, is it?
I was just trying to work out why you had a crocodile as an avatar "
Oh!!! PMSL!!! |
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"Single guys moaning about not getting any meets.
Single women moaning about not being wined and dined
Couples moaning about not finding a single bi fem.
Bi curious guys moaning about not been wanted by couples.
Lazy guys moaning they dont get replies to their messages.
Women moaning about men asking them for a fuck "on a sex site".
Exabitionists shagging in car parks moaning about doggers standing close enough to the windows to see.
Guys moaning about not getting 20 meets a day from joining up.
Women moaning about other women who happen to comment on tit shape or saggy racks.
Welcome to Fab Moaners
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People moaning about moaners.
People moaning about people moaning about moaners.
etc. etc.
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