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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone had a naughty chat with someone pre meet and just been let down at their ability to do the things they say they can or are in to and it's been pretty vanilla? |
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"Anyone had a naughty chat with someone pre meet and just been let down at their ability to do the things they say they can or are in to and it's been pretty vanilla? "
Haha yes once not on here some real dirty talking women made out she was a proper sub and loved being dominated and wanted to be treated like a little whore etc and then was so vanilla bless her was to shy to even let me go down on her but she wanted to keep seeing me which I thought was weird as we had no spark in the bedroom but loads in person |
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By *BBWWoman
over a year ago
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"Anyone had a naughty chat with someone pre meet and just been let down at their ability to do the things they say they can or are in to and it's been pretty vanilla? "
Think you need to build up some trust with someone before hit the ropes an restraints,not sure if a girl would jump straight in at the deep end so to speak |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone had a naughty chat with someone pre meet and just been let down at their ability to do the things they say they can or are in to and it's been pretty vanilla?
Think you need to build up some trust with someone before hit the ropes an restraints,not sure if a girl would jump straight in at the deep end so to speak "
Yes. Especially true for subs. In general, submissives should go step by step and not jump into anything serious directly. It need not be with the same person. If someone totally new to kink says some serious stuff they want to do in their first meet, we can just assume that it's not going to happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone had a naughty chat with someone pre meet and just been let down at their ability to do the things they say they can or are in to and it's been pretty vanilla? "
This happen to me all the time! |
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"Anyone had a naughty chat with someone pre meet and just been let down at their ability to do the things they say they can or are in to and it's been pretty vanilla?
This happen to me all the time! "
I think it’s worst for a women when you get a let down as for a guy it’s like oh ok whatever but for a women it’s all about that build up and the tease to then be a let down is a no go |
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I'd imagine this is more likely to happen when rushing into playing rather than having proper discussions and seeing if your desires align
That said, i'm sure there's a fair share of people out there who will project themselves as something they're not if thet feel it will lead to getting some |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve felt let down even where vanilla sex is concerned after all the promises tbh! The action often doesn’t meet expectation "
Yep. So many talk the talk but it’s usually all a load of old blarney. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve felt let down even where vanilla sex is concerned after all the promises tbh! The action often doesn’t meet expectation "
Maybe it's your expectations that could be adjusted |
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"I’ve felt let down even where vanilla sex is concerned after all the promises tbh! The action often doesn’t meet expectation
Maybe it's your expectations that could be adjusted "
Oh they’re really not that high  |
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