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Kissing or no kissing?
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By *watugot OP Couple
over a year ago
Cardiff |
How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were dead set on no kissing, not my thing at all.
Then we had our first meet  and I totally loved the kisding the most.
Broke our own rules straight away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing* |
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Hey,
Personally kissing is a major turn on.
I’ve been swinging for 8 years now, I still don’t understand how some people can enjoy having sex without kissing and foreplay.
But each to their own.
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"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing"
its not that I dont allow but it's rare I kiss single guys..
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
Yes kissing as long as they are good at it |
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We don't kiss our casual partners on the mouth. |
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By *unCuriousHarryMan
over a year ago
somrwhere over the rainbow, The Shire |
"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing"
If there isn’t any kissing the whole situation to me feels cold. Kissing is such a big turn on and needed for mutual pleasure in my opinion. |
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Never come across this. Not sure if be interested if kissing wasn't involved |
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Kissing. For us. We also like kissing each other when giving and receiving oral on meets. Very hot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An Ingrid Bergman kiss….oh yes please.  |
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I couldn't meet anyone who didn't x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing a must the start I feel |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everything starts with kissing |
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Got 2 b the most important part that 1st kiss .love kissing x |
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Kissing a must do for us wife likes a spunky one too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not a “kisser “ anyways and don’t kiss him much…. So it’s not a deal breaker for me .
I can get very turned off very quickly by someone who isn’t a good kisser ….
Always find women to be ‘better ‘ kissers than men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We understand some don't want to as it's the pretty woman effect (that's what I call it anyway).
But the Mrs. She has to have kissing as she loves it and gets her engine going. Me I'm happy to kiss other parts of the body if the lips are of limit's.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes kissing as long as they are good at it"
Good kissing takes two..its all about the connection... |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
Beyond the shadows. |
I enjoy kissing but if someone doesn’t want to than that’s fine. |
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Love to kiss
When I meet with my partner we both kiss, I can see why some keep it for themselves, but it's not for me. |
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Kissing gets the meet started, a meet without is too cold and detatched |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is all part of the fun  |
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Kissing is the most thing intimate! |
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Kissing is part of it for us. So, yep! Nothing is sacred for us physically. |
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Kissing is a must for the Mrs, really gets her going!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An absolute must |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If there unattractive in my personal opinion well then no !
Maybe on the cheek I suppose |
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We couldn't imagine a meet without kissing
Its a huge part of the build up for both of us, getting to know the person.
If a couple don't kiss then we wouldn't meet them.
Each to there own though just what we prefer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is a big turn on for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots and lots of kissing please!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is such an important part of play, its almost more erotic than anything else that can happen. Definitely all for it here! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for me its simple if i dont want to kiss then there no chance hes going to fuck me so its kissing or nothing for me .,..i do understand why some dont though .. |
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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago
colchester |
I rather would as o think it helps the sax |
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Kissing everytime otherwise what's the point |
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Love a good kiss, build up the passion and shows you how much they want you |
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I think I've made it pretty clear in my profile. (It's a deal-breaker if there's no kissing). |
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Oh got to kiss, it’s so sensual. |
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Oh it's got to be kissing all the time for me...
X Storm X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always kissing, passionate sex is the best sex. You can’t have the same passion without kissing xx |
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Was once told by an old sage that if a women is happy to French kiss you, she will have sex with you.
I have proved that to be true on quite a few occasions in my 64 years!
Deep kissing is VERY intimate. |
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Single guys yes, in groups nope x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No kissing no meet...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing. It’s a huge turn on when done right so is a must for me.
I have done a meet with none and it’s weird and not for me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is a personal thing personally kissing and snogging a plus as is spooning in the evening and morning x |
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We are kissing or I'm dismissing! |
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"Single guys yes, in groups nope x"
see this is perhaps why I dont kiss much. I pretty much only do gangbang type play... there is no real place for kisses in that.. but saying that. I avoid kissing even if it's in 121 with guys most of the time
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It’s the biggest turn on. Has to be kissing. Ooh and neck kissing, ear nibbling yum |
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Has to be kissing!!!!
All part of the fun, wouldn’t seem right without.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have done both meets with and without but with kissing is always better as it’s more sensual but we would meet non kissers again if the connection is there |
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What about in a mmf situation if the female is sucking her partners cock would you still snog the face of her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s the biggest turn on. Has to be kissing. Ooh and neck kissing, ear nibbling yum "
You read my mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always have to kiss, just love it x |
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"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing"
I love it….. can’t get enough of a good kisser. It’s very important for me as part of a meet …. Very sensual
X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing"
Personally I love it |
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"What about in a mmf situation if the female is sucking her partners cock would you still snog the face of her "
Most certainly lol |
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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago
huddersfield |
Sensual kissing all the way |
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Each to their own but if you're going to be balls deep in my lady then you shouldn't have an issue with kissing her and vice versa. |
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Passionate kissing is a massive turn on and a must from me |
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Couldn't imagine having sex without kissing, it's like the ice breaker lol |
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"Couldn't imagine having sex without kissing, it's like the ice breaker lol"
No kissing = no fun for me |
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By *ikeymMan
over a year ago
Isle of Wight |
Think it’s nice when couples keep kissing just for them however for us watching the wife being kissed is the biggest turn on ever, better than any other play! |
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By *aul100Man
over a year ago
blackburn |
I always thought passionate kissing and sex was done at home .sex as a swinger is sex not making love .just my opinion x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is what leads to more intermit sex so a big yes from us xx |
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I wouldn't be interested in meeting anyone who didn't want to kiss. |
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By *aul100Man
over a year ago
blackburn |
Wow I'm surprised by all the comments. Can't you tell I've never swung lol x |
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We’re both huge fans of kissing and it’s a massive turn on, so for us no kissing means no sex x |
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As I'm usually meeting couples I totally respect their "rules" whatever they may be. I do find about half the people I meet have a "no kissing rule", guess I mean on the lips. Am willing to put up with the deal but agree with others it takes a lot of the passion and energy out of the meeting. Further, seems strange you might do everything else but not kiss! Personally I find (good) kissing hugely erotic and as other people say gets the whole erotic process rolling mmmmmmm! |
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A long sensual kiss tells a lot of stories |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can’t imagine a meet without kissing. That’s my biggest turn on |
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Kissing is essential. Would be cold, sterile & passionless without it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing but the wife in the couple I meet regularly won't allow me to do so, which I think a real shame.
At least my bi male friend likes it too, so I do have some. |
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"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing"
Kissing definetly, all part of stimulating the minds snd get the juices flowing, nothing better thsn passionate kissing |
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Sex without kissing is cold and mechanical. I (Rob) love to see Liz kissing, giving herself completely to the guy who's fucking her. Her pleasure is my pleasure, without the intimacy that kissing gives it's nothing |
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Definitely kissing, and lots of it!! Miss pc |
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I'm not a fan of no kissing, it lacks the excitement and passion for me when you can't kiss someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing always! |
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If meeting a woman I’d kiss her but not a man
It’s rare I find a man attractive anyway, I’m happy to be fucked hard by a guy but the thought of kissing one is just a NOPE |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing , both of us love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely kissing for us |
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Kissing is all part of the experience, no? Helps get us in the mood xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100% kissing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has to be kissing, love it and gets the juices flowing lol. Can't imagine just going straight into foreplay without lots of kissing. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got to be kissing . Kissing is a huge part of
Foreplay for me |
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By *rSmith9Man
over a year ago
Norwich/London |
Personally I love kissing on a meet! With the little whispers between kisses!! Just helps the meet feel more connected |
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Has to be kissing…it sets the mood… |
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"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing
If there isn’t any kissing the whole situation to me feels cold. Kissing is such a big turn on and needed for mutual pleasure in my opinion."
Exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i love kissing
turns me on the most |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing I a big turn on couldn't imagine a meet without kissing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is a big part of being intimate with someone so we are cool with kissing. If I can put their penis inside me, kissing them is tame in comparison. |
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We started out swinging journey with a firm ‘No kissing rule’.
We thought that kissing would be too intimate and we would save it for just ourselves.
We broke that rule on our first meet and realised pretty quickly you can’t really have a meet without kissing!
That and kissing really turns Lily on.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most definitely prefer to have kissing involved in play |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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It depends on the level of connection with the person really. Kissing , for me, has an element of emotional intimacy involved which isn't necessarily something I want with just anyone.
I do smile at some of the adamant "no kissing, no meet" type comments on posts like this. Pretty sure a lot of them would suddenly drop that rule if a hot person/couple offered them a meet for sex.
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"It depends on the level of connection with the person really. Kissing , for me, has an element of emotional intimacy involved which isn't necessarily something I want with just anyone.
I do smile at some of the adamant "no kissing, no meet" type comments on posts like this. Pretty sure a lot of them would suddenly drop that rule if a hot person/couple offered them a meet for sex.
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Exactly this!
Like I’m on here for sex, don’t wanna get attached to anyone, don’t want anyone getting attached to me so yeah if that makes me “cold” then so be it
I’ve only had one guy moan that I wouldn’t kiss him... kept trying every few mins and I kept moving my head each time, plus at the time I was in a relationship so it was very much I only kiss my partner but even now the thought of kissing a man is just nah |
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By *andy IanMan
over a year ago
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Kissing is a form of fire play a build up to sexual arousal. I think kissing is an important part to the build up of good sex. I have met couples and ladies who say no kissing on the lips is allowed but kissing any other part of the body performing oral and full sex is perfectly acceptable. Seams strange a women/couple think kissing betrays the love they have for each other but being stripped naked and given a good fucking doesn’t.
Personally I prefer to kiss but equally if it’s not allowed then I’ll do what ever else is on offer to achieve sexual satisfaction for all.
I recall one lady (married) did not want to cheat on her husband but found kissing and a clothed fumble turned her on so much she went home begging for her husband to give her a good fucking. Win, win, win I got my pleasure preparing her, she got hers from being turned on then finished off, he got his reward for having a sexy wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is everything!! That’s how I know it will be a good meet.
It’s that connection |
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"Kissing is a form of fire play a build up to sexual arousal. I think kissing is an important part to the build up of good sex. I have met couples and ladies who say no kissing on the lips is allowed but kissing any other part of the body performing oral and full sex is perfectly acceptable. Seams strange a women/couple think kissing betrays the love they have for each other but being stripped naked and given a good fucking doesn’t.
Personally I prefer to kiss but equally if it’s not allowed then I’ll do what ever else is on offer to achieve sexual satisfaction for all.
I recall one lady (married) did not want to cheat on her husband but found kissing and a clothed fumble turned her on so much she went home begging for her husband to give her a good fucking. Win, win, win I got my pleasure preparing her, she got hers from being turned on then finished off, he got his reward for having a sexy wife."
We don't think kissing betrays our love. Lots of people think that's why we don't kiss. The very fact that here we are, together, meeting people to share sexual activities with is a pretty strong indication that we're not worried about betrayal.
Kissing and bareback sex require a level of intimacy we don't need from our casual partners. As is made clear many times people don't want to meet us because of the kissing thing which is fine we don't want to meet them, everyone's happy |
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By *odjamMan
over a year ago
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Kissing is a definite yes. it makes the connection between everyone and shows noinhibitions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing. No kiss no play |
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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago
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"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing"
Definitely kissing for us all part of foreplay. |
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"It depends on the level of connection with the person really. Kissing , for me, has an element of emotional intimacy involved which isn't necessarily something I want with just anyone.
I do smile at some of the adamant "no kissing, no meet" type comments on posts like this. Pretty sure a lot of them would suddenly drop that rule if a hot person/couple offered them a meet for sex.
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I also smile at the no kissing no meet. I can count on one hand the amount of times I've been refused a meet because I dont kiss... to be honest its rarely even noticed that I don't |
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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago
Kidderminster |
As Hot Chocolate said "It Started With A Kiss". |
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"It depends on the level of connection with the person really. Kissing , for me, has an element of emotional intimacy involved which isn't necessarily something I want with just anyone.
I do smile at some of the adamant "no kissing, no meet" type comments on posts like this. Pretty sure a lot of them would suddenly drop that rule if a hot person/couple offered them a meet for sex.
I also smile at the no kissing no meet. I can count on one hand the amount of times I've been refused a meet because I dont kiss... to be honest its rarely even noticed that I don't "
We've been here before many times haven't we
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
Kissing is very much at the heart of our fucking ... x Anne |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"It depends on the level of connection with the person really. Kissing , for me, has an element of emotional intimacy involved which isn't necessarily something I want with just anyone.
I do smile at some of the adamant "no kissing, no meet" type comments on posts like this. Pretty sure a lot of them would suddenly drop that rule if a hot person/couple offered them a meet for sex.
Exactly this!
Like I’m on here for sex, don’t wanna get attached to anyone, don’t want anyone getting attached to me so yeah if that makes me “cold” then so be it
I’ve only had one guy moan that I wouldn’t kiss him... kept trying every few mins and I kept moving my head each time, plus at the time I was in a relationship so it was very much I only kiss my partner but even now the thought of kissing a man is just nah "
Exactly. Judging by most of the responses here anyone would think Fab is a dating site rather than a swinging site. I love kissing women, but have no desire to kiss another man, yet in all the years we've been swinging no man has ever refused to play with me, suggested that sex with me is 'cold' or for that matter even tried to kiss me. To the contrary they usually come back for more. For me kissing and 'connection' are for romance not for scratching a sexual itch. After all how many women think that it's necessary to kiss their vibrator, or men kiss their hands before getting sexual pleasure. |
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Kissing means it's a much better meet for me |
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"Is kissing not mandatory "
Nothing is mandatory  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anything that adds to the experience is welcome as long as everyone agrees.
For us kissing is a real turn on, both doing it and watching.
Kissing during play also lets you know when you are doing something just right, especially when the other person cannot control their mouth.. a real turn on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the men with “no kissing , no meet “
Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???
Oh….. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always need kissing in meets xx |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing"
My view, kissing is a sensual moment made ordinary when couples/partners kiss as habit instead of kissing because of its importance. This is what makes kissing someone else somewhat more lustful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is a most and adult why meet for fun and have sex if no kissing.
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I met a couple and before i went to where the wife was - the hubby said - no kissing, she wont suck you - you can’t lick her - no fingers - she wants to be spanked and fucked. I was thinking ok thats different but ok. It was a totally soulless experience and i totally lost interest. No connection at all so no interest at all. Plus there was a weird dynamic that just put me ill at ease between them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “
Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???
Oh….."
I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing, kissing, and erm.... oh yeah, kissing |
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"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “
Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???
Oh…..
I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss?"
yea about 4 times in 2 decades |
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We've done a complete 180 on this when we started it was an absolute no now we can't play without it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “
Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???
Oh…..
I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss? yea about 4 times in 2 decades "
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"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “
Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???
Oh…..
I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss?"
No but we do have it on our profile so they're warned beforehand. More people have turned us down because we're soft swap or because I (f) have pubic hair. I accept that people won't want to meet us, it's fine. |
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"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “
Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???
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I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss? yea about 4 times in 2 decades
Exactly! "
I do on occasion now kiss.. and it's rare with couples or ladies that I don't... but single guys..nooooo it is something I will avoid 99% of the time. And its rarely an issue. It is partly why I avoid 121 play as it's much harder to avoid in that situation. But not the only reasons. |
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over a year ago
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I love kissing too. It’s such a lovely part of foreplay which I love too. |
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"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “
Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???
Oh…..
I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss?
No but we do have it on our profile so they're warned beforehand. More people have turned us down because we're soft swap or because I (f) have pubic hair. I accept that people won't want to meet us, it's fine. "
Having said all that we do get guys who just want to watch us take photos outside or take the photos for us. It's not something we've done but it does show that there really is room for all of us |
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"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “
Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???
Oh…..
I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss?"
If its a social meet then id agree but if we were arranging to meet for more then you said I don’t like kissing I probably wouldn’t meet. I don’t want to marry you but I do want a connection and for me kissing is connecting. Swinging for me is more than just fucking someone xx |
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over a year ago
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Love kissing other girls but not so keen on kissing men, girls are always better kissers from experience |
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"What about in a mmf situation if the female is sucking her partners cock would you still snog the face of her "
this is for the straight guys be honest i would not kiss a female in that situation otherwise no problem
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"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “
Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???
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I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss?
If its a social meet then id agree but if we were arranging to meet for more then you said I don’t like kissing I probably wouldn’t meet. I don’t want to marry you but I do want a connection and for me kissing is connecting. Swinging for me is more than just fucking someone xx"
it's funny you mention socials. As I've had more guys try to kiss me on socials that meets. I dont mention I dont kiss but it is always clear that i do just group as in greedy girl and gb fun with guys. So i dont think it needs mentioning as someone isnt going to kiss me when ive got another guy in my mouth or covered in cum. |
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over a year ago
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Kissing is amazing as long as you get a good one  |
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"Think it’s nice when couples keep kissing just for them however for us watching the wife being kissed is the biggest turn on ever, better than any other play!"
Couldn't agree more,it's so hot and horny watching her having a long kissing session,as when we started out, full sex didn't happen on the first couple of meets,just kissing and a feel and suck of her breasts,she did give him a blow job,we met the same bloke a few times for this. |
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over a year ago
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So just constantly have a mouth covered in cum and most guys won’t try to kiss you? Good strategy, why didn’t I think of this before hahaha |
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"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “
Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???
Oh…..
I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss?
If its a social meet then id agree but if we were arranging to meet for more then you said I don’t like kissing I probably wouldn’t meet. I don’t want to marry you but I do want a connection and for me kissing is connecting. Swinging for me is more than just fucking someone xx it's funny you mention socials. As I've had more guys try to kiss me on socials that meets. I dont mention I dont kiss but it is always clear that i do just group as in greedy girl and gb fun with guys. So i dont think it needs mentioning as someone isnt going to kiss me when ive got another guy in my mouth or covered in cum. "
Socials for me are just that but if you really hit it off at a social then there’s no hard and fast rule. If you’ve made it clear you don’t kiss then it wouldn’t happen. But a subsequent meet for more wouldn’t either. |
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"Sex without kissing is cold and mechanical. I (Rob) love to see Liz kissing, giving herself completely to the guy who's fucking her. Her pleasure is my pleasure, without the intimacy that kissing gives it's nothing"
Definitely agree |
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Very passionless without kissing in my option… like drinking water at the pub |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is a major turn on for both of us xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No kissing no sex!
If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight  |
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"No kissing no sex!
If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight "
I'm genuinely interested in what makes you feel that having sex with people who don't kiss makes them no better than masturbation aids. Not in an aggressive way but more to understand why you feel able to demote us to the status of a sex toy because of one thing we won't do |
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over a year ago
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"No kissing no sex!
If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight
I'm genuinely interested in what makes you feel that having sex with people who don't kiss makes them no better than masturbation aids. Not in an aggressive way but more to understand why you feel able to demote us to the status of a sex toy because of one thing we won't do "
Nothing against you, it's just how I view sex. I associate sex with passion and I personally don't think I can feel that without kissing during sex.
I probably should have worded it better, apologies if I have offended you or anyone else. |
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"No kissing no sex!
If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight
I'm genuinely interested in what makes you feel that having sex with people who don't kiss makes them no better than masturbation aids. Not in an aggressive way but more to understand why you feel able to demote us to the status of a sex toy because of one thing we won't do
Nothing against you, it's just how I view sex. I associate sex with passion and I personally don't think I can feel that without kissing during sex.
I probably should have worded it better, apologies if I have offended you or anyone else."
I'm not offended , I know it's not true.
You're perfectly entitled to need a certain thing to be able to enjoy sex. |
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"It depends on the level of connection with the person really. Kissing , for me, has an element of emotional intimacy involved which isn't necessarily something I want with just anyone.
I do smile at some of the adamant "no kissing, no meet" type comments on posts like this. Pretty sure a lot of them would suddenly drop that rule if a hot person/couple offered them a meet for sex.
Exactly this!
Like I’m on here for sex, don’t wanna get attached to anyone, don’t want anyone getting attached to me so yeah if that makes me “cold” then so be it
I’ve only had one guy moan that I wouldn’t kiss him... kept trying every few mins and I kept moving my head each time, plus at the time I was in a relationship so it was very much I only kiss my partner but even now the thought of kissing a man is just nah
Exactly. Judging by most of the responses here anyone would think Fab is a dating site rather than a swinging site. I love kissing women, but have no desire to kiss another man, yet in all the years we've been swinging no man has ever refused to play with me, suggested that sex with me is 'cold' or for that matter even tried to kiss me. To the contrary they usually come back for more. For me kissing and 'connection' are for romance not for scratching a sexual itch. After all how many women think that it's necessary to kiss their vibrator, or men kiss their hands before getting sexual pleasure."
Exactly! My profile makes it very very clear that I just want to be fucked and that’s it
Yet I’m still getting men in my messages wanting it to be more than that 
And in all fairness even when I had a partner, we wouldn’t even kiss that much when fucking, considering my favourite position is doggy so yeah not exactly the easiest position to kiss in unless you’re flexible and I’m not |
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over a year ago
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Kissing.
I don't engage in no kissing.
Met a right fittie on Friday but no kissing. Could be Channing Tatum but if no kissing, no play. |
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I love to kiss the passionate the better even with a couple |
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"No kissing no sex!
If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight
I'm genuinely interested in what makes you feel that having sex with people who don't kiss makes them no better than masturbation aids. Not in an aggressive way but more to understand why you feel able to demote us to the status of a sex toy because of one thing we won't do
Nothing against you, it's just how I view sex. I associate sex with passion and I personally don't think I can feel that without kissing during sex.
I probably should have worded it better, apologies if I have offended you or anyone else."
I have enough verifications showing how passionate I am to show that you dont always need kissing on the lips to equal passionate. I'm am lustful passionate and even at times sensual person... I just rarely kiss as it can trigger for me something I avoid thinking about. So I've learnt to adapt. Then again I tend to skip foreplay all together with being a greedy girl . I used to never kiss anyone.. not even my partner. This changed over time. But I'm still in single figure numbers for men I've kissed. |
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Kissing is a must, I could never imagine a meet with no kissing. |
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"No kissing no sex!
If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight
I'm genuinely interested in what makes you feel that having sex with people who don't kiss makes them no better than masturbation aids. Not in an aggressive way but more to understand why you feel able to demote us to the status of a sex toy because of one thing we won't do
Nothing against you, it's just how I view sex. I associate sex with passion and I personally don't think I can feel that without kissing during sex.
I probably should have worded it better, apologies if I have offended you or anyone else. I have enough verifications showing how passionate I am to show that you dont always need kissing on the lips to equal passionate. I'm am lustful passionate and even at times sensual person... I just rarely kiss as it can trigger for me something I avoid thinking about. So I've learnt to adapt. Then again I tend to skip foreplay all together with being a greedy girl . I used to never kiss anyone.. not even my partner. This changed over time. But I'm still in single figure numbers for men I've kissed. "
Cali, I don't mean to take anything away from the experiences that shaped you, they are yours, but just because you don't kiss and have many verifications doesn't mean those passionate experiences wouldn't have been better for the other people involved if kissing was included. Obviously with the exception of your greedy girl encounters.
I've been involved in meets as a single guy where kissing was off the table and yes, they can be passionate. However, my best meets have always included kissing, that's why no kissing is a deal breaker on our couples profile as we both feel the same way about it.
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"No kissing no sex!
If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight
I'm genuinely interested in what makes you feel that having sex with people who don't kiss makes them no better than masturbation aids. Not in an aggressive way but more to understand why you feel able to demote us to the status of a sex toy because of one thing we won't do
Nothing against you, it's just how I view sex. I associate sex with passion and I personally don't think I can feel that without kissing during sex.
I probably should have worded it better, apologies if I have offended you or anyone else. I have enough verifications showing how passionate I am to show that you dont always need kissing on the lips to equal passionate. I'm am lustful passionate and even at times sensual person... I just rarely kiss as it can trigger for me something I avoid thinking about. So I've learnt to adapt. Then again I tend to skip foreplay all together with being a greedy girl . I used to never kiss anyone.. not even my partner. This changed over time. But I'm still in single figure numbers for men I've kissed.
Cali, I don't mean to take anything away from the experiences that shaped you, they are yours, but just because you don't kiss and have many verifications doesn't mean those passionate experiences wouldn't have been better for the other people involved if kissing was included. Obviously with the exception of your greedy girl encounters.
I've been involved in meets as a single guy where kissing was off the table and yes, they can be passionate. However, my best meets have always included kissing, that's why no kissing is a deal breaker on our couples profile as we both feel the same way about it.
Frank"
Have you seriously just told someone that people would have enjoyed meeting her more if she'd kissed them? |
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"No kissing no sex!
If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight
I'm genuinely interested in what makes you feel that having sex with people who don't kiss makes them no better than masturbation aids. Not in an aggressive way but more to understand why you feel able to demote us to the status of a sex toy because of one thing we won't do
Nothing against you, it's just how I view sex. I associate sex with passion and I personally don't think I can feel that without kissing during sex.
I probably should have worded it better, apologies if I have offended you or anyone else. I have enough verifications showing how passionate I am to show that you dont always need kissing on the lips to equal passionate. I'm am lustful passionate and even at times sensual person... I just rarely kiss as it can trigger for me something I avoid thinking about. So I've learnt to adapt. Then again I tend to skip foreplay all together with being a greedy girl . I used to never kiss anyone.. not even my partner. This changed over time. But I'm still in single figure numbers for men I've kissed.
Cali, I don't mean to take anything away from the experiences that shaped you, they are yours, but just because you don't kiss and have many verifications doesn't mean those passionate experiences wouldn't have been better for the other people involved if kissing was included. Obviously with the exception of your greedy girl encounters.
I've been involved in meets as a single guy where kissing was off the table and yes, they can be passionate. However, my best meets have always included kissing, that's why no kissing is a deal breaker on our couples profile as we both feel the same way about it.
Frank
Have you seriously just told someone that people would have enjoyed meeting her more if she'd kissed them? "
Yes, I have. I know you don't kiss either, and obviously that's your choice, but, if the person you're playing with prefers kissing but respects your choice not to, then surely it's stands to reason they would have enjoyed the encounter even more if kissing was involved?
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Love kissing and exploring with my tongue x |
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over a year ago
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We both think kissing makes or breaks a meet |
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We love the whole kissing with meets , feel like it makes more of a connection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely yes, I love kissing |
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By *eo_72Man
over a year ago
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No kissing no meet, it’s a must for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely kissing love it so passionate |
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"No kissing no sex!
If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight
I'm genuinely interested in what makes you feel that having sex with people who don't kiss makes them no better than masturbation aids. Not in an aggressive way but more to understand why you feel able to demote us to the status of a sex toy because of one thing we won't do
Nothing against you, it's just how I view sex. I associate sex with passion and I personally don't think I can feel that without kissing during sex.
I probably should have worded it better, apologies if I have offended you or anyone else. I have enough verifications showing how passionate I am to show that you dont always need kissing on the lips to equal passionate. I'm am lustful passionate and even at times sensual person... I just rarely kiss as it can trigger for me something I avoid thinking about. So I've learnt to adapt. Then again I tend to skip foreplay all together with being a greedy girl . I used to never kiss anyone.. not even my partner. This changed over time. But I'm still in single figure numbers for men I've kissed.
Cali, I don't mean to take anything away from the experiences that shaped you, they are yours, but just because you don't kiss and have many verifications doesn't mean those passionate experiences wouldn't have been better for the other people involved if kissing was included. Obviously with the exception of your greedy girl encounters.
I've been involved in meets as a single guy where kissing was off the table and yes, they can be passionate. However, my best meets have always included kissing, that's why no kissing is a deal breaker on our couples profile as we both feel the same way about it.
Frank
Have you seriously just told someone that people would have enjoyed meeting her more if she'd kissed them?
Yes, I have. I know you don't kiss either, and obviously that's your choice, but, if the person you're playing with prefers kissing but respects your choice not to, then surely it's stands to reason they would have enjoyed the encounter even more if kissing was involved?
Frank"
I think you should give people credit for being able to enjoy sex in all its glorious forms. |
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over a year ago
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Kissing x |
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over a year ago
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I do get that it’s too intimate for some couples and that’s fine but whenever it’s on the table, I’ll always vote for nice long passionate kisses |
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